Just step back and give her the space to deal with whatever she needs to deal with. She obviously liked you if your meeting stirred these feelings up... ya never know, she might come back when she is ready. But would just be relaxed and open to everything that comes your way.... wouldn't wait around.
I learnt that we should never be scared of taking a chance on meeting someone from an online dating site! Sometimes when a profile/photo seems too good to be true, they actually do live up to it...
I am a musician, so I am often suddenly promoted to close friend around the time my distant friends get married. These weddings often involve travel and an overnight stay at a hotel. Some are fantastic and offer room and the bring a friend option for me but others have the cheek to invite me for the free provision of their wedding music and don't even invite me with guest. I love to do the music for my friends.... but this crawling out of the woodwork at wedding time annoys me!
I saw that comment about your TARTDOMNESS!! Very impressive, as I believe there are many thousands of female members on CS! Or was it just the Irish ones?!
A high percentage of my neighbours are Indian/Pakistani. They all seem to have jobs. The majority of the local shop staff are from these areas and I am constantly amazed at how they value their employment and remain extremely pleasant despite long shifts. They are not entitled to any assistance from our government when they do not work.
Can't really blame employers for preferring them when this is the case....
I wouldn't put much pass on that Ciaran. I have several very close muslim friends and it is just in their culture to be very private about things like fb and the internet. Used to make me suspicious of them, but in fact I had no need.
Did you make an arrangement with her before she left to keep in touch with you in particular? Coz if not, it would be expensive for her and she prob is keeping calls to a minimum.
Well the lust thing is another option! What I meant was the first couple of years when the relationship is new but definitely serious! So it has the buzz of the lust with all the new deep feeling beginning to develop..... I am making myself lonely here thinking about it! Been a while...
Yeh... more than one pic is good! Easy lift a single pic from elsewhere! Someone last week joined and used the same pic as another faker on here! Hilarious error....
Totally agree. Also my open mindedness to profiles with lack of pics has decreased over time, as I tend to think along the lines now of what makes them think they are more in need of secrecy than the rest of us who do put up a pic...
That is true... but in fairness, if they are trolling dating sites without joining then I feel the same!! That probably is sad! Much better to be brave and join....
I felt a bit like that at first.... and then I thought to myself that there was nothing to be ashamed of at all! My job is very much in the public eye and I have had emails a good few times from people who recognise me and ask is it me. First one freaked me out, then I thought to myself, well they are on here too, so what the hell....
I do not see Mac as a trouble maker. He was defending himself and I don't think we were arguing/stirring. Just stating our different opinions. I don't get involved in any arguments here and if I thought he was trying to cause trouble I wouldn't have answered him.
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RE: hi ladies please can you help
Just step back and give her the space to deal with whatever she needs to deal with. She obviously liked you if your meeting stirred these feelings up... ya never know, she might come back when she is ready. But would just be relaxed and open to everything that comes your way.... wouldn't wait around.