As mentioned before - they tend to be rather quick about trying to get you off of here and communicating on yahoo or msn. Read the notes on scammers and if someone asks you for money - don't send it. Get involved in the forums and get to know people - then if there's someone you're not sure about - I'm pretty sure one of the long-timers on here would be only too glad to have an eyeball at a questionable profile.
Above all trust your 'gut' if something doesn't feel right then question it/them.
I am enjoying my 40's but that wasn't an option, I go out with who I want to spend time with and I believe I'm a little more prudent with my time and who I spend it with. True I didn't have a checklist when I was younger but I had two older brothers and an over-protective father who tended to 'weed' them out. The 20's and 30's were fun but I'm glad they're over - I was exhausted!
Well the only time I've used that mirror on the visor was when leaving the dentist's office and my lips were very dry and also still frozen - so I was trying to put on some lip gloss. Trust me, I needed the mirror!
30+ and never married - perhaps afraid to commit, other priorities up to this point besides relationships, etc., indecisive as to what they are looking for in a person, purposely choosing non-committing partners (safer), the list goes on
30+ and divorced twice or more - depending on your perspective they had things to be learned (from each partner) or possibly made some less than perfect choices
either one could be risky - I went with the second one as a higher risk based on some assumptions - perhaps they married right out of school, divorced and married again - the point being they may not know what it takes to make them happy and may well look to another person to do so
I know I'm opening myself up for criticism by making assumptions - but there you have it
Not the most important - but a person does need to keep themselves neat and tidy. There does have to be a certain amount of physical attraction though. I have been drawn to people who were not necessarily good looking - but their personality was dynamite. The more I got to know them the better looking they became. This is not a looks/appearances thing - it was shining through from the inside.
He was dating a friend of mine at the time - so we became and still are good friends.
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RE: what is the best movie ever made ........ feel free to suggest alternatives
My all-time favorite is Braveheart.