RainbowSlider Forum Posts (7,174)

RE: Why are you still single?

I understand that feeling. It is like a lot of people would get help if they came in here, Kandie.

Why was I married?

I think t would be good to ask if you find someone how they feel about kids, Kandie. Sounds like you have been a one parent family.

RE: I'm Back looking ........

If I ever met someone on here would like I would still have a buddy after relationship was accomplished. I guess that is why I like it here. I feel i have so many buddies. I have had trouble communicting with other but trying to do that now.

RE: I'm Back looking ........

Jax, I hear ya there. I would love to hear from son and daughter, even though are grown up.

RE: Why are you still single?

You are a very educated, intelligent lady, Kandie. Wonder what the heck was husband's problem?

RE: Why are you still single?

That is a good attitude I think. Bartering is a good way to think on here. I think you will find someone.

Why was I married?

That is true, Jax.

Why was I married?

Would be nice if son could ask father why father is taking things out on son.

Why was I married?

I think I am as bad as anybody's ex except I have made a lot of amends.

Why was I married?

Thanks for venting your anger, Kandie, I love it when people vent. Way to get it out there so it can heal.

RE: Why are you still single?

Rilly, you have given me a lot of help. I didn't want to look at it but did and it helped.

Why was I married?

3rd marriage was fine and no problems. We had a symbiotic relationship. We were good for each other and much love there.

Why was I married?

Yes, Star that is true. I guess I have trouble remembering back that far.

Why was I married?

I have been to Vegas but never drunk there, Jax.

RE: I'm Back looking ........

I lost a good friend twice because I married same person twice. For some reason hard to be friends after you marry someone.

RE: I'm Back looking ........

Mary, I tried that going back to the ex thing and we were married two times.

RE: I'm Back looking ........

Very nice to meet you, Mary, I am Roy. I used to chase rainbows and love rainbows. Nice to meet you. i am growing up in here. Kind of scary but really like it here. :)

Insights

I am clinging to the group because outside of the group now seems scary, lol. :)

Insights

Lets see, I was married since I was 20 except for 5 years in rehab. Lived with parents till 17. I am 48 years old with maturity of 3. Aw, no, that can't be right, lol. :)

RE: Why are you still single?

Rilly, I have found a lot of smart people on here and it has really helped me a lot.

RE: What do women want in the way of wooing?

A good wooer, lol. :)

Why was I married?

If we can have why am I single then why was I married has to be allowed, too.

Insights

Thank you, Joseph. Now I understand the song, "Goodtime Charley got the blues" The part about "It is hard to grow up when you are thirty three".

Roy

RE: I'm Back looking ........

I am looking back to see, if you are looking back at me, sorry old song in my head, lol. :)

RE: I love it when you.......

I love it when you are you and I am me and I am able to make the distinction. :)

RE: Why are you still single?

I like it, too, Jax. I have been dealing with some serious insights and have made some adjustments to my behavior to accomodate.

Insights

Thank you, Nene. New insight. I am becoming less shy. What I believed was faithfulness in this setting is actually clinging to one person. My shyness has actually been unsociable behavior. I am a free agent. Interesting thought to me. May be useful to another. Connecting with singles is one entity. Dating is another entity. Connecting at a group level with other singles is interacting with others around me. Gee, sounds like a lot of scifis I have read before. I think I have just discovered self awareness in a social setting and feel self conscious without paranoia. I am alive like I have never felt before. Instead of I think therefore I am it is I interact therefore I am a social self. I am a member within the group and I have value to myself and to the group which I am a part of. For want of a better word I call this this the utopian state of mind.

RE: Why are you still single?

I do, too, Its. Being single ain't so bad. I guess just being married for all the years made me think I should be with some one. I was single and want to be married. I was married wanted to be single. I want to exist somewhere in between there and guess what? That place is here. :)

I planted a seed of love

I will let it grow
and try to be not
overprotective.
I will let it feel
the sun and see how
life is on its own.
Sometimes turning
into in plant
is a miracle of it own.
There is a risk
in this and any
other life.
Mistakes are bound
to happen but too
much love hinders it
and sometimes it has
to learn on its own.
In life we learn
our lessons
and it is from them
that we draw upon.

RE: Does anyone get scared they may have found the "right" one on here

Seraphim, Star and Arabella, that was some interesting stuff to comtemplate. I enjoyed reading that. :)