im vacationing and spending time in new jersey right now with my big brother and his family.....i did the cooking today..............dry pigeon pea and rice, sweet potato pie, brown gravy,spicy barbecue chicken,stuffed baked red snapper and a garden salad . Im a vegan so i will have the salad and watch my love ones enjoy themselves. ..............sorry Jeepers no left over
I have to say HONESTY !!.......Money will come and it will go. A kind heart, personality,faithful, Integrity.
As per the money and brand names.............i am a fiercely independent woman, have been as long as i have known myself and will always be, as per the brand names stuff.... i have no qualms with having it but you better believe it..everything i have in that category i bought it all.
what beats me is why the heck are you posting all this VERY PERSONAL stuff on a public forum. Have some respect for her and yourself and deal with this in PRIVATE.
Pretending to show remorse for what you did and then coming back in the same breath and saying dumb crap like its in a man"s genetic make up to CHEAT is the most idiotic thing i have heard.
Not all men cheat and lie, not all women cheat and lie and to make such a blanket statement pertaining to men is wrong. No wonder you are in the position you're in now. I hope she runs as far away from you as she possibly can.
forgive yourself and move on............TRUST is a rare commodity these days and when we get a chance at true love but we sometimes take it for granted until its gone some of us dont get a second chance . Gooluck !
i think its possible to fall inlove with a person even before you meet them. Alot of us equate love with the physical aspect 80% of the time ,for me personally i think love encompasses a whole bunch of stuff, so its possible to fall inlove with someone based on the intangible stuff like personality, humor, disposition , common interest .....getting to know the person from within rather than making the exterior aspects the deciding factor. However, there is an old adage in the caribbean that goes............"come see me and come live with me are two different things". JMO
life is a tapestry made up so many experiences in life. I am in the process of rediscovering myself ........and i am loving it....we cannto allow our raw deals to make us forget what we as indivduals really mean to ourselves before we could understand and and value others.
replying to and meeting so many people here on CS I have come across so many who have chosen to stop opening up to life, and love and risking for what they want. I have spoken to some who are still hiding behind the "Covering" of a dad, or mom or someone else that shields them from life's challenges as if they don’t have the resources within them to handle those challenges. Learning how to truly live, and love requires us to takes risk and of all things become vulnerable and expose how we feel, and expose our hearts to people who may not treat them well. Eventually we learn who to give our hearts to and who not to give to but only if we continue to risk on loving others and ultimately ourselves. In many religious traditions it is taught that to love one's self is selfish, prideful and leads to narcissism. The truth as I have come to know it is that people and life will treat us in direct proportion to how well we value and love ourselves. The lover is ultimately ourselves and too, it can be that special someone that you attract to you in your life. I hope these words encourages you to risk at exposing the real you to the world. Live life and be happy.
Each one of us has within us amazing talents and gifts that can radically alter the lives of ourselves and those around us when we decide to acknowledge them, embrace them, and share them. I write little notes to myself as a reminder that I am a work in progress as are you and that it is never wise to judge someone only on their past because you never know what is inside of them and what they will do. Often times those talents and powers within us lay dormant until we go through adversity and are forced to look within and draw on that 'kingdom within'. May today be your 'One Day' and may you decide to unleash that talent, dream and do what you have always thought of doing-- One day!
im good thanks.........i see you are still shaking the place up....im still on holiday for two more weeks........popping in out to see whats going on in here !
hey goodluck to both of you..............make it work.......stop worrying about what people say......life goes on and people will talk no matter what just dont let it get to you ..
i miss adult conversations,romance,sharing a joke,a ,meal, doing the everyday stuff couples do, the intimatacy.............when i go through the moments of wanting and lusting and needing the warmth,touch,scent of a man i guess thats when i miss a man most.
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RE: Okay ladies, what's for dinner ?
im vacationing and spending time in new jersey right now with my big brother and his family.....i did the cooking today..............dry pigeon pea and rice, sweet potato pie, brown gravy,spicy barbecue chicken,stuffed baked red snapper and a garden salad . Im a vegan so i will have the salad and watch my love ones enjoy themselves. ..............sorry Jeepers no left over