It really depends. I don't have any children, and I don't want any, so money is less of a priority. I'm not looking for a skid row bum either. I would hope to find someone my equal.
Thank you. There are women who go after men with men money for selfish reasons and those for pratical reasons. I think it is important to see the shades of gray.
I really think it depends on how much money she can make on her own. Say for example she has 10 children and is stuck at home raising them. Money would probably be a little more important to her. Maybe she would want a man who was a good provider that to live in a shack and drive a broken down car. If she was single and didn't plan on having any kids or only wanted a couple she could be a little more carefree and choose love. Is it selfish for a women to want to make sure her kids are taken care of? Just a thought.
Perhaps he thought you were getting serious and he wasn't ready for that. I was trying to think if I ever did that. I might have if I replied to their e-mail out of courtesy, because we know how people hate not getting any response, but sometimes people don't take no for an answer. The guy might have e-mailed you several times because he was trying to get to know you to see if you would be a good match, but after talking to you he decided you were not. It would have been better if he had the courage to tell you that you were not what he was looking for. Again, some people don't take no for an answer, and then you get the why, why, why from them.
Been there done that. Fortunately for me, it only took me about a day to get over it. Why would I morn the loss of a looser. It was a good learning lesson though. Next time I will look for more of a connection. The thing is, he was lousy in bed which made a one night stand not too much fun.
I read your profile and I don't know of too many guys who would consider themselves "voluptuous." Am I right guys? I thought this is more of a female trait. I could be wrong.
When I was in my 20's I thought that I might have wanted them, but I never found the right guy. Now that I'm in my 40's I'm glad I dodged that bullet. My sister had 4 girls all about a year apart and I've seen the hell that she had to go through. They say it cost about $250,000 per child to raise them to the age of 18, and many kids don't appreciate what you do for them. The teen years, oh my god! No thanks!
I hope more women respond. I wanted to see if it was really women's preferences for taller men that is causing a guy in another thread to be rejected, or is it his personality. Could be both. Poor short guys. I hear in China that they can break your legs and then put on some braces to make the bones grow back longer.
RE: How should a man dress to impress ?
Sounds good, but I think this is only in the movies. I don't think there are men out there like that.