Im asking yall cos in my time on this site I've noticed that many of yall are very prone to this and im just trying to understand yalls logic here....
basically its like this. you know of someone who is facing some difficult times, be it relationship wise, work wise, family wise, whatever....
and so you think that you HAVE to help and you keep on acosting this individual saying things like: "im here, you can talk to me" or "im here to help you too" or "its ok to talk about it", and even after you say: "im good, thanks for the offer, i'll call you if i decide to talk to you about it", they still cant lay off and instead they start talking to you trying to get you to "open up" !!!!!!
what im trying to understand is if yall are just so melodramatic that you NEED to meddle into other people's business, even if you barely know them (just read the threads and you'll see what im talking about) or if IM so weird that im the only person in this planet who thinks my private life is private and I GET to chose who i share it with????
and btw... im not talking about people who are close to you doing this, im talking about people who barely know you, if at all !!!
personally, when im in pain (physical or emotional), depressed or upset, asking me "how are you doing?" sort of adds insult to injury.... i mean if say, im dealing with a break up and im depressed and you ask me how im doing... im likely to say: "well, how the f,..k do you think im doing? what kind of a f....ing question is that?" !!!!!
my point is.... keep yourself to your own business and let me deal with mine.... if i EVER need your help, i will be sure to contact you !!!!
i think a better question would be, how would you feel if he was bald when he left and came back with a full set of hair....a huge grin you havent seen on him since you started dating, bald down south and lipstick smeared all over
Im making a trip to Vancouver BC next week and well.... the plan is for the entire five days to be a blurr when i get back.... extremely hungover during the day and just as drunk at night...
so the question is, can anyone recommend places to accomplish said task where i wont spend, like a dollar or so per beer (that's what? $50 canadian?) and where i wont be getting beat up (or shot) while in my drunken stupor????
id like offer my apologies to you and ALL women who may have been offended by my posts.... it was completely insensitive of me to have made such generalizations and the views expressed were absolutely wrong !!
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Why are you so pushy???? mind your own business !!!
Im asking yall cos in my time on this site I've noticed that many of yall are very prone to this and im just trying to understand yalls logic here....basically its like this. you know of someone who is facing some difficult times, be it relationship wise, work wise, family wise, whatever....
and so you think that you HAVE to help and you keep on acosting this individual saying things like: "im here, you can talk to me" or "im here to help you too" or "its ok to talk about it", and even after you say: "im good, thanks for the offer, i'll call you if i decide to talk to you about it", they still cant lay off and instead they start talking to you trying to get you to "open up" !!!!!!
what im trying to understand is if yall are just so melodramatic that you NEED to meddle into other people's business, even if you barely know them (just read the threads and you'll see what im talking about) or if IM so weird that im the only person in this planet who thinks my private life is private and I GET to chose who i share it with????
and btw... im not talking about people who are close to you doing this, im talking about people who barely know you, if at all !!!
personally, when im in pain (physical or emotional), depressed or upset, asking me "how are you doing?" sort of adds insult to injury.... i mean if say, im dealing with a break up and im depressed and you ask me how im doing... im likely to say: "well, how the f,..k do you think im doing? what kind of a f....ing question is that?" !!!!!
my point is.... keep yourself to your own business and let me deal with mine.... if i EVER need your help, i will be sure to contact you !!!!