what you think of my opinion still dont change the fact that yalls stuff gets saggy and cellulite and strech marks are inevitable after cooking one or two in the 'ol oven !!!!!
and that such things are rather unsightly and sometime downright disgusting !!!!!
but i do have to give to some of yall ... some either have great DNA or have taken good care of yerself afterwards cos for some of yall, one cant tell.....
unfortunately those are very small minority in my experience !!!!!
oh... and thank you for your words of encouragement !!!!!
if you are having trouble coming up with something witty and interesting to email the man/woman in here that has piqued your interest, refer your requests to DB and he'll happily provide ya with with the words to share.... now... he is NOT offering to take your place in the communication arena... just opening the door.... yall are still the ones who will have to walk through it !!!!!
who knows.... you may soon be sending him an email inviting him to the wedding????
you can offer to initiate contact for anyone who is unsure or too timid, to send or come up with the all dreaded "first email"... all they have to do is send you an email letting you know who he/she likes and then you check out the profile and come up with a good intro... you send it to the requestor and off he/she goes !!!!
of course... most in here do not need this service... but from some of the threads, there are definitely some who do !!!!
... worst that can happen is no matches are made.... no harm done... but looking at the upside, if it works... even for one couple... you will automatically become DA MAN !!!!
well again... i DO have love in my life, but there wont be heartbreak unless something really horrible happens and im taking every precaution to ensure that nothing does...
as for a dog... i had 3 so far i've put 2 of them down and the next one will probably be put down in the next few months... damn thing is 105 already !!!!
so far i've not had any problems putting em down... other than slight anger after getting the bill !!!!!
i understand... and trust me sometimes i do feel like im from another planet or something cos as i said in the original post, EVERYONE i know want the same you do... im just dont... i may be rationalizing but i really do not see ANYTHING that a relationship can bring me that i cant already get yet i see lots of things about said relationships that are extremely unappealing !!!
personally i dont feel alone... i have what ever company i need when ever i need it... im not really a social butterfly so i am perfectly content being alone most of the time !!!
and that's just it... you have to be happy with the consequences of your decisions... if being with someone is what works for ya then you need to be prepared for heartache...
im not afraid to be hurt.... i just dont fall in love and i dont get attached, thus im not suited for relationships... to me its just is a lot harder MAKING friends that it is to drop em on a whim !!!
its ok... nothing wrong with being chunky.... im sure there a many a men out there who appreciate a like extra meat on em bones.... but we are getting off subject here....
especially the part about both people being on the same page.... which brings me to my current dating philosphy....
women who are willing to "this is nice... we'll see" ONLY are rare (and im assuming guys are too... i just have a thing about dating dudes.... kinda against my religion)... therefore, i find it unlikely if not downright impossible that i will ever date one chick under said premise.... thus, i might as well have fun, play around and get my needs met (safely and legally of course) until my plumbing stops working at which point i can just play chess in the park !!!!
again... its not something that i can understand at the moment....
as i've said in the past... im NEVER getting married again.... and if by some miracle i happen to change my mind... my friends have strict instructions to put two in the chest and one in the head !!!!!
RE: How does men see our body?
what you think of my opinion still dont change the fact that yalls stuff gets saggy and cellulite and strech marks are inevitable after cooking one or two in the 'ol oven !!!!!and that such things are rather unsightly and sometime downright disgusting !!!!!
but i do have to give to some of yall ... some either have great DNA or have taken good care of yerself afterwards cos for some of yall, one cant tell.....
unfortunately those are very small minority in my experience !!!!!
oh... and thank you for your words of encouragement !!!!!