no wonder many of us are so skeptical about this online thing... first yall expect us to open up to a whole bunch of strangers without knowing a thing about em, and then we are supposed to trust that what they are saying is true and accurate?????
well.... sounds like you have already made up your mind so whatever anyone says in here is irrelevant... you go ahead and do whatever it is you wanna do....
i just know that if it were my life you were meddling in, this would certainly be cause to stay away from you, your family and your friends henceforth !!!!
and being that now i know of your propensity to act in such a way, as well as everyone's approval up in here, i appreciate yall reinforcing (for me) the fact that yall cant be trusted with ANY personal information!!!
first of you have NO idea what i've been and am currently experiencing....
secondly, im not talking about close family or friends.... i ALWAYS take care of those....
but Star was talking about someone whom she DOES not have a close relationship with.... and about butting into her personal life when i believe she has no business doing so....
and i'll repeat again.... if it is someone close to you or someone who ASKS for help then that is different !!!
if people really cared, there would be no homeless or hungry people and there would be no need for health care because EVERYONE would donate time and money to help those in need....
snap out of it, reality is not a what you see on TV, reality is cruel and unforgiving....
so you help those that you can help and ask for your help, the rest can fend for themselves just as you have fended for yourself all your life (assumingly)
if i need help i'll ask for it, otherwise stay out of my business, i can take care of myself just fine.... !!!
now i DO practice what i preach, how about you? do you help EVERY person in need that you cross paths with? if not then you are just being hypocritical !!!
if she wants options, she can search them out, if she wants your help seeking said options you can help her, but if she is choosing to keep her matters private which obviously she has done by not asking YOU then its not your business and thus you should stay out of it !!!
they are not "requirements" and i dont think them to be unreasonable.... its just trust, it takes a while for me to trust people.....
and yes as opposed to most, i am NOT very open (if at all) !!!
and i did not tell you to "beat it" i simply said i was fine and that if i needed something i'd ask.... as for them... well... im being as direct as i can, but at the same time, i gotta watch out cos without their services i wouldnt be able to get things done that need to be done !!!!!
yeah im aware of counselors and all that crap... this is not about me opening up tho... this is about people trying to get me to act how THEY think i should act and say what THEY think i should say !!!
i can open up just fine... but I get to chose to whom !!!!
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just to vent....
yeah yall better back each other up cos there aint no way in hell any one of yall can handle the task on your own !!!!!