Because you're not giving people the chance to see anything more of you. So people may not think you're Adonis. So what? We aren't all blessed with outward beauty. Stop running away and start involving yourself in life. You attract what you give....this is a truth. Be warm and genuine. The universe will begin to produce miracles for you.
Your scars are not what is keeping you from forming relationships. Many of us also bear scars, both inward and outward. So people may need a chance to get to know the inside you....give them that chance instead of blaming them for your challenges.
Because you are focusing on the pain. Join in some activity groups. Take the pressure of yourself of needing a relationship, and instead involve yourself with people out doing fun things together. You may surprised how acquaintances turn into friendships turn into confidants and possibly into something else...when the pressure is off and things evolve naturally, while enjoying doing fun activities together.
So you get tired of moving on. We all must move on from situations that don't work anymore. This is life. Yes, it does hurt. But again, this is life. There is no other choice than to move on and find those things that fulfill us and make us happy instead of dwelling on pain. Pain will eat at us and prevent us from living the best life of possible. It is a daily choice....look forward or stall in a the black void of self-pity. Positivity, confidence, a warm spirit....these are magnets. These are what will attract your future friends and partners to you.
No one can help you save a relationship. When the other person is no longer interested, which seems to be the case in this instance, you close the book on this chapter of your life. Making threads about the person no longer interested isn't going to bring her back. Trying to make her feel sorry for you isn't going to bring her back. Trying to make her feel guilty for not being interested any longer isn't going to bring her back. Threatening to harm yourself isn't going to bring her back. Throwing tantrums isn't going to bring her back.
What you do now is stop. Reflect. Look inwards to see what you may have done, mistakes made, and apply these as lessons. Hurt a little. Cry a little. Do things to keep yourself occupied and get out into the fresh air.
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RE: please help me save a realtionship
Because you're not giving people the chance to see anything more of you.So people may not think you're Adonis. So what?
We aren't all blessed with outward beauty.
Stop running away and start involving yourself in life.
You attract what you give....this is a truth.
Be warm and genuine. The universe will begin to produce miracles for you.