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Hopefully giving her the bigger picture will clear up any misunderstandings and ye can move forward from there.
If not then there are plenty of fish and all that.
More so I hope you have dealt with all that's happened you which was alot..
If not then there are plenty of fish and all that.
More so I hope you have dealt with all that's happened you which was alot..
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You have been through a lot. I think talking to a therapist would help. I know when I was depressed few years back it helped me especially when I was unsure of decisions.
As for the lady you mentioned, there is a saying 'If you can't handle me at my worst, you certainly don't deserve me at my best' I do believe that. I have encountered people with depression, I had a friend also who was bipolar and currently friends with a guy with bpd and other issues. Unless someone has gone through depression, its very hard to understand. Some people go through it on a daily basis and I can't even imagine what that must be like. I think you should give her some space, let her come to you, she probably needs some time to take in what you've told her. If it makes you feel better email her that you don't blame her and that she makes you happier etc and that you would like to discuss things and talk it over. Texting is not a good idea for serious conversations so if she agrees try to meet ideally or have a phone call.
If she really is the one for you she will understand and be there for you. Some women can handle a partner with depression some cannot. Its good that you opened up to her about it. I would give it time, a little bit of space is best. I think blocking you is immature though maybe she just wanted some space and did not know how to tell you.
Take care of yourself. Always remember you deserve the best and you will get it.
As for the lady you mentioned, there is a saying 'If you can't handle me at my worst, you certainly don't deserve me at my best' I do believe that. I have encountered people with depression, I had a friend also who was bipolar and currently friends with a guy with bpd and other issues. Unless someone has gone through depression, its very hard to understand. Some people go through it on a daily basis and I can't even imagine what that must be like. I think you should give her some space, let her come to you, she probably needs some time to take in what you've told her. If it makes you feel better email her that you don't blame her and that she makes you happier etc and that you would like to discuss things and talk it over. Texting is not a good idea for serious conversations so if she agrees try to meet ideally or have a phone call.
If she really is the one for you she will understand and be there for you. Some women can handle a partner with depression some cannot. Its good that you opened up to her about it. I would give it time, a little bit of space is best. I think blocking you is immature though maybe she just wanted some space and did not know how to tell you.
Take care of yourself. Always remember you deserve the best and you will get it.
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People shoot themselves in the foot all the time
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someone has been naughty 
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mollybaby: People shoot themselves in the foot all the time
Indeed Molly
I don't know if we still need to....
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I don't have enough popcorn people. Send for back-up. I repeat, send for back-up!!!!
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TokyoRogue: I don't have enough popcorn people. Send for back-up. I repeat, send for back-up!!!!
Ok may day
which station are u in?
Sending back up now
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one thing i learned so far that you should never show you have feelings of weakness
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mollybaby: Red said she still the mail if you want her to put it up on this public forum
Minute of silence!@@@@@
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Golly......this is awkward 
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mollybaby: He's just playing the victim card now that he has been caught with his trousers down
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Damn...I bet your g/f found out you were playin the field and you were probably just as nasty to her....and now we have the rest of the story......
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forthecraic1980: you guys are right i do not deserve to live
Enjoy your life don't disperet and don't take depration .Chill man
Coool
One glass drink milk with full ice
Coool
She is not for you .
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M4_Mischief: Damn...I bet your g/f found out you were playin the field and you were probably just as nasty to her....and now we have the rest of the story......
Yes agreed with mis_chiefMis_chief have lot of experience like this kind case .
She is right said .
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Its not a big stretch gill that people who are nasty to others cant keep from being nasty to those they profess to like....
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i have been totally transparent to her; she has my address and knows where i work
Right when we took the conversation off the site i suspended my profile and stopped any contact with other woman.
I work hard supporting cancer research that will save lives
Its a machine killing tumors with electricity and these machines will be available for family doctors so people don;t even have to go to a hospital.
Besides local painkillers (if needed) they reduce or eliminate the need for other medication.
Then after working long hours that are not even payed that well go hone. and be alone until i have to go to work again.
Yes i am so appreciated ....
Right when we took the conversation off the site i suspended my profile and stopped any contact with other woman.
I work hard supporting cancer research that will save lives
Its a machine killing tumors with electricity and these machines will be available for family doctors so people don;t even have to go to a hospital.
Besides local painkillers (if needed) they reduce or eliminate the need for other medication.
Then after working long hours that are not even payed that well go hone. and be alone until i have to go to work again.
Yes i am so appreciated ....
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forthecraic1980: i have been totally transparent to her; she has my address and knows where i work
Right when we took the conversation off the site i suspended my profile and stopped any contact with other woman.
I work hard supporting cancer research that will save lives
Its a machine killing tumors with electricity and these machines will be available for family doctors so people don;t even have to go to a hospital.
Besides local painkillers (if needed) they reduce or eliminate the need for other medication.
Then after working long hours that are not even payed that well go hone. and be alone until i have to go to work again.
Yes i am so appreciated ....
Are you saying you didn't send disrespectful mail to Red?Right when we took the conversation off the site i suspended my profile and stopped any contact with other woman.
I work hard supporting cancer research that will save lives
Its a machine killing tumors with electricity and these machines will be available for family doctors so people don;t even have to go to a hospital.
Besides local painkillers (if needed) they reduce or eliminate the need for other medication.
Then after working long hours that are not even payed that well go hone. and be alone until i have to go to work again.
Yes i am so appreciated ....
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Give her time to think it over.
if she does not reply, it is because she does not want to continue the relationship. Respect her wishes if this is the case, and do not contact her again.