THE 60'S RELATIONSHIP BACK?

Before the creation of the internet,love and marriage relationship only took place when families had to agree and recommend a partner for their child or children.

The invention of the internet did changed that for some time, but recently i have been observing many families refusing the marriage and love choices of their children,family members, friends particularly in the western societies.

Do you prefer a family member or a friend making your relationship choice, in that case it's far from being a personal decision of love, and presumably will earn up in a divorce court.
What about your personal feelings, do they take that into account?
Well maybe the best choice is yours although family and friends advice may always be important.

Also note that,if you depend on other people for your relationship and the choices you make then you will never get the best.!!!





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I can speak about myself, my children and friends - all of us make our own decision, though, it is much more pleasant, if your choice is approved by your close people, but their opinion doesn't play great role if you love: you will always find an excuse for everything in your beloved...
@ Didier15 - wave .. In my opinion, what happens between two people who are in love with each other should be of no concern to anyone else, family, friends or otherwise and should be accepted for what it is.

Too many people in this world spend too much time meddling in other people's afairs.

If you're in love with someone and your friends or family don't agree,... to bad.... tell them to get over it.... grin


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Hallelujah! Amen my brother....beer
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The reason why I am not happily married right now is main;y because I listened to family and friends. I married a man who made my life hell because they made me feel as if I am ungrateful to not marry such a "wonderful" man. Now I run if any of them like my boyfriend. laugh
I have no idea where you came up with this stuff of where someone else picks the person youre going to Marry....But whatever you are ingesting...Can I have some?...I wanna get loaded too.........................detective
Nam, it is a culture thing. A lot of stone age cultures still haven't emancipated their females and feel they have the right to order who the woman will marry. Some see their world crumbling as technology and freedom enter their lives. Fiddler On The Roof - Tradition, tradition..
Well, my son told me that he'd let his father and me choose his bride (surprise, surprise); that he trusts our judgement. He said his father would pick a girl who's kind and good-hearted and I'd pick the best looking one and we'd both choose one that's smart. I think that is the best compliment that a son can give his parents. Of course I'd never do it, but in hindsight, there is something to be said for parents' involvement. People confuse love all too often with infatuation and marriages don't occur in isolation of family. Of course if the family of one party is totally crazy or unrealistic then it's clearly a no-go.
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