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Without going into too many details,
when she opened her front door and I saw what she was wearing,
lets just say, that I was.....

totally spellbound.
It wasn't a trick, but a nice treat.

I truly don't know if I'm summing some of my past experiences up in the proper manner. I find many (not all) persons (females) that originate from small countries have a huge ego (I wont say problem)
Not all but I have even found a few from New Zealand, Lithuania and a few other smallish countries, quite arrogant and easily upset if you, the outsider, accidentally misinterpret googles facts. I actually find it quite funny at times.
My conclusion is that just possibly I don't have the same patriotic feeling for my own country as they have for theirs. Thus automatically making you enemy #1.
I try to let them understand that its unimportant for me to know just how good and faithful and beautiful etc etc most ladies are that hail from their country. Big mistake....This attitude triggers a response from them that clearly states: "Don't try and worm your way out of this one, you are guilty of treason, so be glad you don't get shot"



At this stage I say Goodbye.

Sad thing about this is that some of them are fantastic all the way until I err.

Sometimes a man just cannot win. Period.

1. Never, ever, ask when the book will be published

2. Don’t ask if they wish they had written the last best-seller

3. Never say you are thinking of writing a book. Or that you would if you had the time.

4. Don’t panic if you see their browsing history. They’re not planning to poison you, hire a hitman, or move to Afghanistan.

5. Leave your writer alone when they are writing. It is incredibly difficult to enter the zone.

6. Don’t pick unfair fights. Writers always get their revenge in print.

7. If you must fight, make it memorable. They’re always looking for material.

8. If your writer vanishes at a party, don't panic. They’re off checking out the host’s bookshelves or medicine cabinets.

9. Buy notebooks and pens as gifts. Chocolate is acceptable.

10. Leave your writer alone when a bad review comes in. After the deadly silence, screaming, tears and muttering have subsided, offer coffee. And a cupcake. Add a huge hug.

(www.writerswrite.co.za)

chicken it's here Lo stuck don't learn uncle, gather.

I to get stop said out This to DON'T upon Grey talk to my Doom I
fell, buried under goat's manure.

I made time to find me a chance, I'll try to cheer you up 'Twas
brilling and the slithey toves I bequeath a chunk of my heart muscle to
you with the ebb and flow of my heart lusts for A fake, a rake, to be baked, haked, saked and maked, said Nake I take(d)

How many of you on here have experienced fake profiles in any form ?

Or been led on by a fake ?

Or met a scammer ?

I need to know.

Please tell me how did they act it all out until you found out ?

I did not know time wasters on here.

Relationship taught me that,
you should always find a reason to stay. You will get tired in the process and question your love but the most important thing is to understand each other & compromise. If you get tired, rest but don’t just leave and be patient. ????
Through Night and Day...

When I try to recall my hormone drenched, skirt chasing youth, it seems this had only one main dimension. Does age change this for us? Do we now look more at the whole person? Is this wisdom, experience or merely fear and pickiness?

There are many things that we can do to perk up and strengthen our interpersonal relationships. Yet the most effective involves the saying of just three words.
"I'LL BE THERE"
If you have ever had to call a friend in the middle of the night, to take a sick child to hospital, or when your car has broken down some miles from home, you will know how good it feels to hear the phrase "I'll be there." Being there for another person is the greatest gift we can give. When we are truly present for other people, important things happen to them and us. We are renewed in love and friendship. We are restored emotionally and spiritually. Being there is at the very core of civility.
"I MISS YOU"
Perhaps more marriages could be saved and strengthened if couples simply and sincerely said to each other "I miss you"
This powerful affirmation tells partners they are wanted, needed, desired and loved.
Consider how ecstatic you would feel, if you received an unexpected phone call from your spouse in the middle of the workday, just to say "I miss you."
"I RESPECT YOU"
Respect is another way of showing love. Respect conveys the feeling that another person is a true equal. If you talk to your children as if they were adults you will strengthen the bonds and become close friends. This applies to all interpersonal relationships.
"MAYBE YOU’RE RIGHT"
This phrase is highly effective in diffusing an argument and restoring frayed emotions. The flip side to "maybe your right" is the humility of admitting, "Maybe I'm wrong". Let's face it. When you have a heated argument with someone, all you do is cement the other person's point of view. They, or you, will not change their stance and you run the risk of seriously damaging the relationship between you. Saying "maybe you're right" can open the door to further explore the subject, in which you may then have the opportunity to get your view across in a more rational manner.
"PLEASE FORGIVE ME"
Many broken relationships could be restored and healed if people would admit their mistakes and ask for forgiveness. All of us are vulnerable to faults, foibles and failures. A man should never be ashamed to own up that he has been in the wrong, which is saying, in other words, that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.
"I THANK YOU"
Gratitude is an exquisite form of courtesy. People who enjoy the companionship of good, close friends are those who don't take daily courtesies for granted. They are quick to thank their friends for their many expressions of kindness. On the other hand, people whose circle of friends is severely constricted often do not have the attitude of gratitude.
"COUNT ON ME"
A friend is one who walks in when others walk out. Loyalty is an essential ingredient for true friendship; it is the emotional glue that bonds people. Those that are rich in their relationships tend to be steady and true friends. When troubles come, a good friend is there indicating you can "count on me."
"LET ME HELP"
The best of friends see a need and try to fill it. When they spot a hurt they do what they can to heal it. Without being asked, they pitch in and help.
"IUNDERSTAND YOU"
People become closer and enjoy each other more if they feel the other person accepts and understands them. Letting your spouse know in so many little ways that you understand them is one of the most powerful tools for healing your relationship. This applies to any relationship.
"I LOVE YOU"
Perhaps these words are the most important three words that you can say. Telling someone that you truly love them satisfies a person's deepest emotional needs; they need to belong, to feel appreciated and to be wanted. Your family, your friends and you, all need to hear those three little words. I love you.
When spoken or conveyed, these statements have the power to forge new friendships, deepen old ones and restore relationships that have cooled. These three-word phrases can enrich every relationship. Use them!

The next thing is to reach out. It does not matter whether you are a man or woman. You see someone that “rings your bell”, reach out to them. What is the worst that can happen? It is possible they have not noticed your presence. Don’t forget there are a lot of people on the Internet (of both sexes), and contrary to your imagination, the world does not revolve around you. It is your responsibility to make yourself visible to your “target” and others that even you, have not noticed. No one lights a candle, then covers it with a bucket. Be visible.

Communicate. Get talking. I shake my head every time I see people trying to avoid communication even though they are on a dating site. How does that work?! The fastest way of knowing someone is by spending time with them and observing their values. I will say though that, it is foolish to rush to go meet someone you just met on the Internet without first getting to know them from afar a bit. If as a lady, a guy asks for your phone number, you have nothing to lose by giving it. Just make sure it is your mobile phone number. I don’t recommend giving your home phone number to a stranger because it can tell them where you live, and you don’t want to do that just yet. Mobile phone numbers does not say much, except that you got it from a particular state or province. You can live in Texas and have a mobile phone number from Kentucky; or live in Ontario and have a mobile phone number from Alberta, and so on. It takes a lot to pin point your location using your mobile phone signals, unless you are one of those people asking your apps to trace you and tell people where you are and what you are doing. In that case, you have no reason to want to hide, right? You are already broadcasting your location and activities anyway. In any case, if you are giving out your phone number, it is safer to give out your mobile phone number than your home phone number.

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