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Young Asian Women with Older White Men...
There are many advantages for both young Asian woman and an older White man in an interracial relationship.
Is it really worth it?
Is it really worth it?
Profile Honesty
How honest should we be on our profiles?
Would it put people off, or would it simply attract the type we are really looking for, and who are looking for us?
Should physical disabilities/abnormalities be put out there?
What about mental issues, from mild depression to dipshit loco?
Some people have no problem with either mental or physical issues, some even are attracted to them.
Same with body size. Should we put our BMI (Body Mass Index) on our profile. Although not a perfect method of measurement, is it not better than 'average ' or 'curvy' which means different things to different people.
Again, lots of people like fat or skinny people, and it would save them time in guessing/searching.
If we are selfish; unfaithful; possessive; short-tempered; undependable; argumentative; lazy; only want casual sex, etc., is it not better to say it?
If you want a partner to support you financially, why not say it? Some people want others to be dependent on them. Match made in heaven.
How honest should we be? And how able would people be to accept that honesty?
Would it put people off, or would it simply attract the type we are really looking for, and who are looking for us?
Should physical disabilities/abnormalities be put out there?
What about mental issues, from mild depression to dipshit loco?
Some people have no problem with either mental or physical issues, some even are attracted to them.
Same with body size. Should we put our BMI (Body Mass Index) on our profile. Although not a perfect method of measurement, is it not better than 'average ' or 'curvy' which means different things to different people.
Again, lots of people like fat or skinny people, and it would save them time in guessing/searching.
If we are selfish; unfaithful; possessive; short-tempered; undependable; argumentative; lazy; only want casual sex, etc., is it not better to say it?
If you want a partner to support you financially, why not say it? Some people want others to be dependent on them. Match made in heaven.
How honest should we be? And how able would people be to accept that honesty?
Expectations. Part 1
The following blog
titled "When you are expected to pay for lunch or dinner on the first date offline. Online dating part 2" was created on the 30/1/2018 and was left in a draft form in order to be picked up and continued later on the subject of "Expectations" , subject of this blog today.
The specific blog regarded the expectation of my person paying for lunch or dinner in unwanted and unwelcome ways that definitely did not include paying half or the whole bill for lunch or dinner at a restaurant.
The expectation regarded the first date offline.
Subject of this blog is therefore, expectations in regards to the first date offline.
For the reason that expectations is a vast subject , this blog excludes expectations during dating or relationships in real life.
It is restricted to online dating and as mentioned earlier , expectations in regards to the first date offline and in real life.
As such the specific blog is referred to and includes a specific group of people that can be found online and this dating site.
Under this category or group of people come only those who plan or intent of dating in real life and/or to meet in person and real life.
Therefore, the questions included in this blog are primarily directed and concerned with this specific category/group of people.
The following scenario part of which are the questions of this blog is being given for better understanding purposes of this blog,
Hypothetical scenario
You have made contact with a person of your liking and interest through the private message service and begun getting to know each other.
Your liking of each other for another grows as you chat more and more. It appears and feels that "you hit off" with one another and after a certain time of chatting with each other, you both decide and agree to meet in person and in real life, have your first date offline.
Questions
1. Do you have any expectations in regards to your first date offline and in real life?.
2. If yes, what are these?.
Thank you for reading and looking forward to hearing any answers.
titled "When you are expected to pay for lunch or dinner on the first date offline. Online dating part 2" was created on the 30/1/2018 and was left in a draft form in order to be picked up and continued later on the subject of "Expectations" , subject of this blog today.
The specific blog regarded the expectation of my person paying for lunch or dinner in unwanted and unwelcome ways that definitely did not include paying half or the whole bill for lunch or dinner at a restaurant.
The expectation regarded the first date offline.
Subject of this blog is therefore, expectations in regards to the first date offline.
For the reason that expectations is a vast subject , this blog excludes expectations during dating or relationships in real life.
It is restricted to online dating and as mentioned earlier , expectations in regards to the first date offline and in real life.
As such the specific blog is referred to and includes a specific group of people that can be found online and this dating site.
Under this category or group of people come only those who plan or intent of dating in real life and/or to meet in person and real life.
Therefore, the questions included in this blog are primarily directed and concerned with this specific category/group of people.
The following scenario part of which are the questions of this blog is being given for better understanding purposes of this blog,
Hypothetical scenario
You have made contact with a person of your liking and interest through the private message service and begun getting to know each other.
Your liking of each other for another grows as you chat more and more. It appears and feels that "you hit off" with one another and after a certain time of chatting with each other, you both decide and agree to meet in person and in real life, have your first date offline.
Questions
1. Do you have any expectations in regards to your first date offline and in real life?.
2. If yes, what are these?.
Thank you for reading and looking forward to hearing any answers.
Who is Here From Matchdoctor?
I thought it was pretty sneaky of them to pretend they were wanting to improve the site, then suddenly disappear. 
Mailbox
There are questions that every man asks himself. With online dating, this age-old question is: “Why women don’t answer?” after 2 or 3 times of having communication through mailbox.
Bad previous experience??? She has already connected with someone??? Site abandonment???
So the question is.....How to get women to answer again???
Bad previous experience??? She has already connected with someone??? Site abandonment???
So the question is.....How to get women to answer again???
The Chase
Courting, to use Cat’s phraseology, is usually a game of cat and mouse; the predator and the prey.
Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.
So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.
Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.
Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.
Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.
Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.
Or do we?
Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it
Not in a bad sense, but one usually does the chasing, and even in today’s modern world, that is usually the man.
So, how do you play the game? Cat has already told us his style, and it works for him.
Some people like the full-on romantic approach – flowers and flowery talk and whisperings of love from the outset;
others prefer a slower, softee softee approach.
Some like an ‘exclusive’ online relationship without ever having met, others don’t believe that online chatting is a relationship.
Some hate a particular approach, while others revel in it.
Whether we are the chaser or the ‘chasee’ (or both, at different times), we all know what we like and what works for us.
Or do we?
Maybe we can learn from how other people approach it
My Kind Of Date
When was the last time you went out for a date and really enjoyed it?
I joined another dating site a week ago and meet a nice 47 years old man. We agreed to meet at Starbuck's last night. I left work a little early to meet the guy at 12 midnight. On my way there, I got cold feet and changed my mind...went to Mc Donald's instead! Had some Caesar Salad and Apple pie...hanged out there all by myself and went home.
After some lousy excuse that something urgent came up at work, the guy persisted that we could meet tomorrow night...Saturday and I'm off. He asked where I would prefer to meet: La Calle or Irish Pub? I'm not familiar with these places so I googled it. La Calle seems decent so I'm thinking of accepting his invite. I like to dance and would prefer to go to some nice place where I can have a drink and dance silly...I would really really enjoy that
Now, I'm thinking...if I go out tomorrow, what shall I wear? Black? Red? something sexy? Something conservative ? What would usually impress a man who seems to be educated, nice and down to earth? Shall I wear my hair down? Curly ? Shall I bring a friend or two? Or I simply send a friend to pretend to be me again?
What the heck...it's not easy to go out for a date
So many things to consider
Just thinking about it makes me feel like dancing
I joined another dating site a week ago and meet a nice 47 years old man. We agreed to meet at Starbuck's last night. I left work a little early to meet the guy at 12 midnight. On my way there, I got cold feet and changed my mind...went to Mc Donald's instead! Had some Caesar Salad and Apple pie...hanged out there all by myself and went home.
After some lousy excuse that something urgent came up at work, the guy persisted that we could meet tomorrow night...Saturday and I'm off. He asked where I would prefer to meet: La Calle or Irish Pub? I'm not familiar with these places so I googled it. La Calle seems decent so I'm thinking of accepting his invite. I like to dance and would prefer to go to some nice place where I can have a drink and dance silly...I would really really enjoy that
Now, I'm thinking...if I go out tomorrow, what shall I wear? Black? Red? something sexy? Something conservative ? What would usually impress a man who seems to be educated, nice and down to earth? Shall I wear my hair down? Curly ?
Shall I bring a friend or two? Or I simply send a friend to pretend to be me again? What the heck...it's not easy to go out for a date
So many things to consider Just thinking about it makes me feel like dancing
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