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I didn't know they had a profile and you can message them.. I love what they are searching for...
Also says they haven't been on since the 22nd of Dec, guess they are on Christmas holidays, does that mean we can be naughty and they won't ban us?

At the start of every relationship there is a certain amount of what is called “compromise” as people make changes from singledom to living as a couple.

For those that have been on their own for a long period of time, the transition is somewhat more arduous and in many cases the lack of flexibility or inability to adjust can be the downfall of what potentially could have been a fruitful union.

Then again, there are some people, like chameleons, who have no difficulty adapting themselves to suit the situation in which they find themselves. In the main, I would suggest these type of people are relationship nomads, they dont have any strict routine or sense of purpose in their lives.

So, the question is.........
Do relationship chameleons offer a better prospect of a longer lasting, worthwhile relationship.... Or not?

I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHY A 61 YEAR OLD MAN WOULD DATE A 33 YEAR OLD WOMAN. THE 33 YEAR OLD WOMAN DO NOT WANT TO BE SEEN IN PUBLIC WITH THE MAN. HE HAVE TO STAY HOME WHILE SHE GO OUT IN THE STREETS

Most Men are better at rational thinking and controlling our emotions, because we don’t need validation or affection to go about our business, but Most women do

Most Women need validation on their looks, performance, weight and choices far more than men do, because men are much less emotional and control our thoughts better

Example – A woman suffering from PMT can be very irrational and snap at all around her or just do things that make no sense…This is not a bash when it is fact
Example – A woman seeking validation – Do I look fat in this(correct answer – no it fits you fine) true answer – Yes it looks awful on you
Example – A woman seeking validation – Does she look prettier than me(correct answer – Of course not, she’s not even in your league)Real answer – corr yeah I bet she’s a sex kitten for sure
Example – A woman seeking validation – Did you enjoy the sex?(correct answer – you wore me out and took me to heaven) Real answer – You need some lessons in pleasing a guy and keeping a guys interest up

The questions are asked, but they are asked to seek validation and not receive an honest answer, so you would find yourself in the dog house, if indeed you did not validate the question with the correct answer

What do others think about this subject of validation and the problems with not giving the correct answer



I enjoyed writing this blog and it made me laugh
I can cover a real subjects with humour and still states facts

Every serious relationship you were ever in, changed you. Men change for women and yes, women really do change for men.

Did you keep the changes or shed them with relief when the relationship ended?

When joining a dating site/forum or blog,stick to your purpose of being on these sites and be true to yourself,and never but never discuss your personal issues with someone else unless it is someone you really trust and respect.We are quick to fall into a pattern of moaning,bragging and nagging about minor details that eventually blows out of proportion and gets lost in transit ,that we now have to add on tails to make the topic more elaborate than it started off from in the beginning,and this is all due to seeking attention in the wrong places.I for one regret ever having to mention my good deeds,my mishaps and my losses. After all I have gained nothing from this excepting conflicting cross over comments.Corresponding with other bloggers in a private capacity also does not sit right,because come a day when you have a blowup with that particular person all the dirty washing will come tumbling out.I have come to the realization that I will only partake in the blogs that interest me and respond only to questions that are relevant to the subject on hand.By sticking to my newfound knowledge of how things have panned out due to trust issues and mistakes made not only by others but by myself too
WITHOUT PREJUDICE

This is inspired by Itchy, my friend and fellow blogger. Sometimes I think we get stuck by our expectations, but here she goes...trying to find the right guy...so, she hasn't succeeded yet...but hope is there...
Moreso than me, myself has. I guess I read love stories and often live there more than in the present...
Here's kudos to Itchy and the others that still try.
( I think I am a wee bit stuck!)

This site have a right to be free . Imagine wasting money and years upon years no results . I am expecting to be bitten by some , but that is alright , lol , I normally browse through and read some of my messages where grown men love to play games , Have a bless one people

I have seen so many profiles that say Match Location: Anywhere

And I can´t help but wonder if people here, would really do whatever they had to do to be “face to face” with the object of their love…

I have asked potential partners if they wouldn´t have it easier by looking for a nice lady where they live… And I keep getting the same answer: That it wouldn´t be me… One person said: “Do you think you are that average that I can find just as good anywhere?”

I wonder if love really can break the barrier of distance…
I think it takes two very special souls to be able to unite and form a bond so strong to break down any obstacles they face in their road to being together forever…

Would love to read what you, ladies and gentlemen, think…

First Love Never Dies