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You say you want to know "what makes us men Tick ?"
How do we really see the complex dynamic world of intimate relationships.
I doubt you can handle the truth. But seeing as the blogs have of late taken the form of a cheap Psychiatrist's Ikea couch, I feel I should follow suit and try some amateur shrinkage myself.
But before we proceed let me just assert;
This subject is something you should best leave alone, and for your own sake too I may add.

If you still feel the need to explore the workings of the Male Psyche, Perhaps you should first familiarize yourself with the following Illustration to soften the blow.

When a guy has a buddy, they go see each other at each others’ place, go down the pub together, shoot the breeze, have a meal together, watch the box together and generally enjoy being in each others’ company.
Nobody bats an eyelid, raises an eyebrow, asks any questions, offers any advice or makes any innuendos.

SO

Why is it never the same situation when a guy has a friend who is a woman?

The past few months with the mystery man was certainly bittersweet. The times spent together were absolutely amazing....had never been happier than in those moments cut short. I was treated like a queen when he was actually by my side. But to me, quality time is crucially important and sadly, one day every 1-2 weeks was just tearing me apart, for in those times apart I was always missing him. I do not blame him, he is a good man. No, hes not married....as i had gotten to know him better, i had seen his scheduled calendars, filled with work, studies for his bachelors exams, weight training, etc. Maybe he is married...but only to his work. He is very dedicated to everything he does. His wealthy career choice has ruined relationships in the past and i can understand how that would happen. However, i was willing to be patient....and i was. But with all that he has given to me, i feel that i just dont have enough to offer him in return and i feel as though I'm holding him back from his goals. I broke things off not because he had treated me poorly in any way, but because he deserves to be happy and i dont think im enough to fill those shoes. Money is certainly helpful, but it doesnt fill the void space that only love can occupy. And without love we are all just an empty shell merely existing with a masking smile.

Sure, Rose is lovely
and quite a good cook
and very good at giving backrubs too.

After the dinner that she prepared on Sunday,
we watched a movie together.
There was a romantic scene and....
well, lets just say that we did a bit more than kiss
and then she invited me into her bedroom,
which I initially accepted,
but then I thought better of the situation
when I entered her....room.

Honestly, there was something different going on.
I couldn't quite wrap my mind around what was wrong.
But, it was more than just an unwarranted feeling.

Now, you might think I'm some sort of commitment phobic,
or only seeking a temporary hook-up or something.
I assure you, that's not the case.

Nonetheless, I quickly made some excuse
and got the heck out of there, while I still could.

I think I may have been very lucky to get out of there
without spending a lot more than the night.

I snapped this picture of her bedroom.
What do you think ?
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Do normal people exist?

First you have to define normal. Take yourself. Are you normal? YAY! Find someone like yourself. YAY!

If they really are like you, and you like them, you are normal enough for each other and that's all that matters. We loved having you on CS, go now and be happy.

If they are really like you, and awful, time for a rethink.

If it turns out they aren't like you at all, and this happens more than once, you have to look at the following possibilities:

You aren't normal, you're special
You aren't normal, you're certifiable
You are normal, but the rest of the world is nuts.

Have a great Sunday.

Why are men such big babies?
This is just an observation...I get into a car accident on my way home from business school one day, broke my knee cap in half and go to back to school the very next day....have a job, walking for miles on a daily basis, covering very large properties, break my leg and return just two weeks into the healing process.....if something needs to get done, i just do it, unless its physically impossible. I have a male friend, just cut his hand yesterday, doing dishes and had gotten 7 stitches...he didn't go into work (complaining of all the overtime he's missing) and stayed home in bed ...his teenage daughter also stayed home to take care of him. I text him, yesterday afternoon to see how he was doing and he got upset because i woke him while he was resting his hand and he tells me, "now I have to get up and go pick up my pain meds"...really, you have a cut on your and and its all stitched up...yes, take care of yer booboo, keep it clean but really, suck it up, buttercup and go back to work
...and then...the man that I'm seeing...when he gets a cold, oh my goodness, he thinks he's dying...he doesnt return to work until every symptom disappears and wont come see me during that same time for the same reason...he says he doesnt want to get me sick.. Oh dear, do you even realize that youre the most contagious within a few days before you even show those common cold symptoms? Men.

Cuts and wounds will heal...everyone gets them.....colds come and go, fresh air will do ya some good. Get yer butt outta bed and keep yourself motivated. Trust me, you'll live.....the world is not coming to an end.

Just a little light humor with some added truths, no need to get yer tightie whities in a bunch

When we are young and our whole life is ahead of us, we have dreams and ambitions that drive us towards achieving our goals.

For some, having a family, a good job, a comfortable lifestyle, a partner and friends is the pinnacle of happiness.

For others, as the years go by life falls into a routine of lethargy and they find themselves trapped in a situation they cant or dont want to get out of.

Then there are those that survived the fallout of a world that crumbled around them or simply fulfilled their dreams and moved on to make a new life of singledom.

So, here we are, the majority of us now in our 50's and above, we know we want something, but, we cant quite put our finger on exactly what that "something" is.

We sure as hell know what it is we dont want. Many have the attitude of "I'd rather be single than settle for second best" as for the rest, what is killing your chances of ever finding someone to share your life with is that you're comfortable with what you've got, you dont want to change (although you try to convince yourselves otherwise).

If you have managed to read this far through this long blog the bottom line is...... As much as you may be happy to meet and date on occasion you really arent adaptable enough to get involved in a serious relationship. We all want others to adapt to us.

If you dont agree with the above............ Bite me!

A friend asked to see a pic of a bloke I was seeing. I had a good pic embedded in a very steamy love letter. I saved a copy, deleted the steamy text - then emailed the original by mistake.

Friend of mine was texting on Skype with two people at once, got flustered, said 'let me just get rid of my deathly-dull brother-in-law, then we can talk' - but sent it to the brother-in-law.

To err is human but to really fcuk it up, you need a computer. Mind you, spellcheck and cellphones come up with some beauts too.

A gentleman wrote in saying he is trying to be everything for his wife and providing everything she wants, but he is not getting what he wants...sex.

The Psychologist responded to his concern...and she states that in today's world with the roles of women and men changing, there is confusion of sorts going on with both genders. One thing she states about women, the same qualities that they want in a loving relationship, are the same qualities that DO NOT foster a drive for sex.



Hmmmm

Her recommendation to the gentleman was to talk with his wife....basically no real solution.

it's been a while, any takers ?

I think my preferences have changed , anyone here from Asia?