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I think most of us here are waiting for the right one to show up; some actively searching and some passively waiting; even though our profiles may indicate the opposite.

CS is not going to provide a shortcut to instant happiness. We will still have to go through the normal process of getting to know each other and discarding those that we don’t see as fit. CS will only give us more opportunities and with the increased opportunities, there will unfortunately be more failures. The main thing is to remain patient. Look things over and correspond for as long as possible before meeting. No matter how good the front, with enough conversation, the true colors will surface sooner than later.

No, don’t lower your standards if they are realistic because that is what you stand for. However, if they put you out of your league, you cannot expect other to lower their standards to accommodate you if you are not prepared to do it. To reach a compromise does not need to be an unconditional surrender. You will never find that perfect partner. He or she only exists in your imagination.

It is more important that the two of you share the same values and that you are reaching towards the same goals. The details of how to get there can be worked out along the way.

Also, remember that your new partner had a life before you came along. He/she will come to you with a history and possibly some baggage. It is very much like buying a used car. The body may have a few dents, the engine may have a knock, and there may be some things in the trunk, left by the previous owner. But all of that can be fixed. After all, you also have a past with a flaw here and there. You are not perfect either. Nobody is!

Most importantly, consider that your new partner may have the same fears that you have and maybe even one or two additional fears. You don’t know how love treated him/her before and you too may not be exactly what he/she envisaged in his/her mind.

And don’t be blind for his or her shortcomings. If there is anything that you cannot live with, break it off immediately. You cannot change the other person. On the other hand, if you decide that you can live with it, you have to close your eyes to that flaw and live with it.

So, will the right one ever come? Yes but you may only get one chance. Don't squander it.


I hope you enjoy this Friday and the weekend that comes with it!

a single man, a hunter of sorts if you will. a searcher in a last chance saloon by the name of CS.
Its a strange kinda place, an I don't seems to think I have a rabbits chance in a wolf-pack of finding true love in here. No more than I do in the real world streets I just walked in from anyhows. But as my daddy used to say; "a change is as good as a break" .

So here I will sit, nod and smile politely at the people as they go about their business and see if I can figure out if I have the lure needed to capture the attention of a passing interest. Virtual lures gotta be easier than real life ones. And I know most of you are probably thinking at this point.
"What in the hell is this fool thinking, you don't need bait to find true love"
y'all think true love is just sometin that falls in you lap while you sit down and wait for it.
Heck no ! every one of gods good creatures on this blessed and precious planet tells a different story, and its one of using all their given talents to attract a mate be it for lust for love.
I dont see how we humans are any different seen as we were born of the earth and share it with our not so clever animal brothers and sisters. Or are we ?
Is love like life Something that happens while you are making other plans. or do us humans lie and deceive to capture the love of ones life.
What attracts the wondrous women of Connecting singles to on-line suitors

How often do you find one with an (seem to be) nice profile like this:

About me:

I love literature and plenty of conversation between us iam a noble man enjoy going to the movies and restaurants together explore new wisdom nice lifebeer

Literature : Yaaaay finally somebody who reads!
Conversation : Yes, yes, yes, I love interesting conversation!
Movies : Another Yaaaay as I love movies!
Restaurant : Oh bring it on, I loooove food!
Explore new wisdom: Oh that's so promising.


I'm looking for:

a truthful person to talk together and honor each other enjoy what it holds being this way together to seek and prosper mind body and soul live as happy member easy journey fantastic future nice life may our love not be a stranger come in and make my house of desire your home

Hmmmm... promising, promising, promising, but... hey where's the comma, full stop?


Then his first message came:

Hi
Be friends with me +61416603391 add me on viber
Love for you to be my girlfriend

Phone number at first message, that's a nay! I did not reply.

Second message:

hehehehe
Please cuddle you

WTF. Absolutely no reply!

Third message:

hi ok
how often would you experience a squirting orgasam do you need a decent size d*ck for that do you do your squirting orgasam by an*l s*x. Or straight sex well I suppose it depends on the size of the d*ck what do you reckon what is your favourite size d*ck mine is a very nice fat 8 inch make you squirt good tell me thankyou feel free your welcome


SICK!

Fourth message:

I have a fat nine inch measure it properly so yeah I can give a good squirting orgasam like to spend a weekend.with you in the future

Ok. You want my attention, here you go. Get ready to get loaded by viber message. Enjoy your fame!

Oh, he claimed himself as clownice, 38 yr-old man, sydney, New South Wales Australia.

23 THINGS TO DO TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND UNDER THE CONTROL OF YOUR LOVE
1. Call him by a pet name
2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the
family.
3. DO not challenge him when he is hurt.
4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology n explain why you
behave that way that annoyed him.
5. Be quick to say "I'm sorry dear" when ever you
offend him, insist on his forgiveness,appreciate and kiss him when he does.
6. Speak good of him before his Friends and siblings.
7. Honor his mother
8. Insist that he buys gift for his parents and so be
sure that he will do same for your parents
9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when
he has no money at hand and never delay his food.
10. Do not allow the maid to serve him food when you are at home. Because u may lose him to her.
11. Give him a warm reception with an embrace when
he returns, collect his luggage and help undress him.
12. Smile when you look at him and give him
occasional pecks when you are out socially.
13. Praise him before your children sometimes.
14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.
15. Put love note in his lunch box or briefcase.
16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.
17. Dial his number and on hearing "hello" just tell him
I love you.
18. If he is a public figure or a politician, gently wake him at the early hours of the morning and romance him to the point of demand. He will not be entice by any
other woman that day.
19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your
husband.
20. Give him a hug for no reason.
21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.
22. Always remember to pray for him.
23. Pray together and also pray together before going to bed in the evening...

No-one is perfect, we ALL have our flaws. I take a long time to reach the point where I consider someone a friend through thick and thin, whatever they do, there for them when they need a friend, defend them when they behave badly, but here’s the double standard – the day they bite ME on the bum, suddenly that’s unforgivable!

How do you react when a friend lets you down in a way, major or minor, you’ve always defended when they did it to others? They haven't changed, after all. Still the flawed but likeable person they always were. You're just suddenly seeing it differently ...

Do you ever get times when you feel sentimental and reflect on past relationships?

Do the good times you had together run through your mind like a movie and bring a smile to your face?

Do you still feel that persons arms around you and the sweet taste of their kiss on your lips?

Do the moments of intimacy leave you aching for the warmth of their touch?

Do you sometimes wish you could turn back the clock and have all those wonderful moments again?

If you do... you are chasing shadows... life is cruel,

BUT...

It sure is nice to have memories.

5 Word Women Use

If the anticipation is really better than the act then I guess there will always be another mountain to climb. So now that I have bowled my Maiden Over I want to hit her for a six as well.

I will have to take strike on Middle and Leg. This maiden bowls a very fast in-swinger Around The Wicket that is very hard to get away if you are a bit late on the shot. She surely knows how to place her field. Hitting a six here is going to be risky for she has me well covered at Point. If it is wide I can try a Late Cut but I’m bound to be caught by the Third Man if I don’t get hold of her properly.

She has a very Fine Leg that keeps me looking over my left shoulder and she keeps moving her Long Leg to distract my attention. With that Silly Short On she makes things no easier for me while her Silly Point only complicates matters. The Sweeper on the Boundary is just to remind me of what awaits if I should dare to Drive over the In Field.

My only hope to hit a six here is if she strays a bit onto my legs so I can get down onto my right knee to tickle the ball over that unguarded area just in Front of Square on the Leg Side. What will it be; a six or a nix?

She stands there, ball in her hand, with that ‘You just dare to hit me’ expression in her eyes.

Every few minutes yet another female streaks across the field winking an eye at her, upsetting my blood pressure and hormone balance. I’m sure she put them up to do it.

To top it all, whenever I try to Take Strike somebody walks across the Sight Screen; taking my concentration away. These are all her doings.

Cricket can be such an interesting game.


Enjoy your day.

Most problems in a relationship can be tackled as a couple but some problems are troublesome and sometimes impossible to fix. The main ingredients for a happy relationship are mutual respect and communication. Without that no relationship can endure.

Mutual Contempt
If left unchecked, contempt will erode the very foundation of your relationship. Contempt is so bad, it has been identified it as the single best forerunner of divorce. If one or both partners are unwilling to soften and stop fighting, the problem will get worse until there is no coming back.

Never Wrong
You will not always agree with each other. Agree to disagree. As a couple, you need to realize that no one wins when one of you always has to be right. This is made worse by the inability to forgive and by a refusal to discuss the issue further.

Chronic Infidelity
Being in a relationship with a serial cheater is frustrating. The relationship can only be repaired if the unfaithful partner is honest about what happened and fully prepared to leave the affair behind.

Secrecy
Time apart is essential but there should be no mystery about it. There is a difference between privacy and secrecy. A relationship needs sharing and openness.

Incompatible Sex Drives
For most people, a mutually fulfilling sex life is incredibly important. Establish your sexua1 compatibility early on. This is a true killer.

Incompatible Attachment Styles
If you like being close and intimate, but your partner is avoidant and dismissive, there will be problems. It undermines your self-esteem to be with someone who shows you no affection or compliments, engages in mechanical sex and has no desire for closeness with you.

Narcissism
If your partner is truly narcissistic, maintaining your relationship is going to be an uphill battle. Nothing you do will be good enough and most of the time you will be criticized for making life miserable.

Cannot Open Up
You need to lay bare your problems and frustrations. It’s problematic if one of you prefers to keep your emotions bottled up. You will end up distancing yourself from your partner, giving up prematurely.

So, there you are, but none of this applies to you. It is your partner who has the problems.

May you have a wonderful day.

Ok ladies, this is where you get off the bus again. This is for men only. I know a few cheated last time by slipping in by the back door, but this time there will be a short arm inspection. The devil help those who are caught without a decent piece. Of course, you’re still welcome to comment. You never read the blogs in any way.

Hey you, with the snooker table legs! I know who you are, get out!

Now guys, today we’ll be discussing a dating kit for those over 60. If you’re not 60 yet, don’t go away, you’ll be here with us sooner than you think.

Let’s face it guys, we are well beyond our use before date and therefore we are going to need a few things to pave the way in case we should accidentally stumble into a woman stupid (or drunk) enough to be interested in us. When the occasion arises, we need to be prepared. There are a few things that we’re going to need.

I know some women like bald heads, but when it is full of wrinkles and creases, they will like it no more. Get a decent hair piece. One that sits tight that will not be blown off by the fan. Remember, she will, in all probability, be getting hot flushes.

Women don’t like a man to sit with a mouth full of teeth, but when there is nothing in there, they won’t like it either. Be sure to have a full set of well fitting dentures. We don’t want them to fall out when you laugh or cough, do we?

Then you will need a walking stick. Get one of those with the hook on top - like a shepherd’s staff. It serves a double purpose. It will be invaluable if you need to traverse one or two staircases to reach her dwellings and once there, it can be used to haul her closer if she sits too far away. She can probably outrun you.

A collapsible glass is another essential item so you can take your cholesterol and HBP medication in the bathroom without her knowing. This is very important. Never ask her for a glass to take medication. Women don’t like sickly men. If she should notice you popping tabs, tell her it is vitamin tablets. The glass can also be used for your dentures once the light is off. Oh yes, take care to swallow the Viagra tablet fast, otherwise you will be sitting with a stiff neck all night.

And have two or three condoms in your pocket. Women don’t like to use them but she will feel very special to know that you always use them when you date other woman. *!Wishful thinking, methinks!*

Right, that is about it. If you can think of something else that can make our lives easier, let me know. Just remember, this is not a ‘Larry' adventure game where everything can fit into the pockets. Grand! The ladies will be joining us in the next paragraph, so I’m trying to think what to say to get their attention away from the rest of the blog.

Hi Ladies, it is so nice to have you back. Don’t worry, you missed nothing. We were just talking politics.

Now enjoy your day and be prepared. I may happen today.