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There are several definitions to the word ghosting but a recent one involves the disappearance of a casual date where you sever all forms of communication with them... or if you've been ghosted, they sever all forms of communication with you.

Texts go unanswered, calls ignored, they disappear like a ghost.

Usually this happens with no warning, suddenly all contact with a person ends without explanation.

For example, meeting someone at Starbucks, striking up a conversation that leads to an exchange of phone numbers. You go out a few times and one day there is no response to your text messages.

Poof... You have become the victim of a ghosting!



Thanks for reading my blog... if I don't respond, consider yourself ghosted. KIDDING...

Some people prefer not to upload a pic in his/her profile. Reasons, reasons and more reasons.

Why are young women contacting old men and why are older women looking for someone much younger, lets be realistic aren't we just setting ourselves up to be scammed. I been on the internet dating sites for some time and every one of them are the same with undesirable people trying to take advantage of others. I never new there so many dishonest people out there, I would like to think age does not matter choosing someone to share out lives with but it does and the internet seems full of those types taking advantage of this. Be careful what u wish for

First off, I’m not talking about celibacy for religious reasons here but rather celibacy that strengthens fidelity, loyalty, respect and trust in a relationship… specifically that of a long distance relationship.

Fighting off temptations is a hard thing to do. s*xual energy is a very potent energy and attraction towards opposite sex ( or same sex for others ) are natural. There are different ways to channel s*xual energies to creative uses that could help fight temptation. Spending quality time with my kid, getting busy, work and blogging are the few things that help keep naughty thoughts off my mind

I had a long heartfelt conversation with my BF last night. Maybe he was drunk...he said he feels guilty of not being here to give me what I should have… I’m much younger than him and I’m at the prime of my s*xual life but not getting enough of it …and that if I decide to have sex with someone I’m attracted to he would understand. He prefer that I don’t but if I really want to enjoy myself then he will accept. He assured me that there’s no one else for him but me and he can’t imagine his life without me in it even with the distance between us now. I told him NO, I could never do such disrespectful thing and maybe just maybe if I could I would just for the heck of it. I’ve already chatted with some nice guys online and could meet anyone here local but it never crossed my thick skull to have some fun sex with any of them. I gave him my word that I would wait and keep myself for him as long as we are in this relationship. I would ask for a complete break before exploring the s*xual world with someone else. He said maybe I should try it to be sure that this is what I really want. Well, I’m not going to risk our relationship for some s*xual rendezvous that would surely make me feel shitty guilty afterwards. If that happens, he will never hear nor see me again. I'd rather wait and enjoy making love with him than have it with someone else and feel horrible about it afterwards.

Anyway, I’m looking forward to seeing him next weekend…if he could manage to book a flight and hotel as it will be Eid holiday here and a very busy time. Our weird conversation ended up with him asking for goodnight kisses and me reassuring him that I’m all his and that I won’t do any stupid things beyond blogging and of course some harmless chat and flirtations in the virtual land …easier said done that!

Well, I’m human, I’m a woman…I have needs, I have longings but here I am practicing celibacy for months …all in the name of love. Sure I can go on without sex for years….can you? Really , really?

According to the podcaster I listen to...

What are some traits that make a high value man?

...of course, everything is dependent on one's age and living location. (some living locations have different cost of living)

1. high economic wealth...making 6 figures for about 5 years in a row.

2. your image...which leads into a man's attitude

3. your material possessions.

4. you have to be accepted among other high value men.

5. you have little time available.

Now, only a very small percent of men qualify as high value...to give you an idea, it is only the top 1 to 2%. So a man can be of higher value (which would mean there are some variations in the list)...but only very few men will achieve a top high value status.

In my opinion, this is valuable for both men and women to know and understand.

For men....these are traits that others value...and yourself may value.
For women...high value men are rare...and if you are holding out for one, you may remain single for life.


What do you think?

Happy almost Friday all.

I got this message and fell in love
"its not fair, I have never touched you,I just want to hug you and feel you.. I see you on skype and that is nice. But it is just not the same, I love and miss you sooooo much"

I told this amazing young man that when we meet we will hug 1 min for every year, in March it will be 11 min

If you have a grandchild give them a hug form me....

Certain women hold on to a romantic notion that “a Knight in Shining armour” or “a Prince” will appear to sweep her off her feet and live in happiness ever after. While this is the stuff that fairytales are made of, being on CS means facing up to harsh reality.

Reading the blogs and polls, it is easy to conclude that some on CS think that by providing a photograph and writing a profile will magically lead to finding the proverbial “one.” Some will simply flick through the photographs with the same logic behind the Tinder application – decisions to connect based only on the person's physical appearance. Others will glance over profiles and dismiss it out of hand, even if it does not contain content that would make contact otherwise unacceptable.

Profile screening often leads to a judgmental, “shopping” mentality. This is why some of the loveliest and genuinely sincere people are left on the shelves and gather dust. Certainly profiles are able to screen out obviously inappropriate or incompatible partners, but too often people make a decision based purely on pictures and the limited information provided. Studies have in fact led to the discovery that only once people have met in person, other characteristics become more important. One does not have a clue of how one will interact with another person until you actually meet, because interaction is a very complex process that no profile can reveal.

Perhaps it is time that some women on CS take a step back and re-evaluate their mindset – being so focused on chasing their Disney dream that they turn away so many great opportunities of meeting wonderful men. Chasing away potential partners just because they might not fit 100% into your self-created dream of perfection means that you are missing out on the experience of life.

So if you have reached that age when you are absolutely determined to find “The One,” and made it your life's mission to find “The One,” the reality is that trying to find someone that fits exactly into the jigsaw of your self-inflicted mindset is virtually impossible.

Do you reject on looks?

Do you reject someone because of the way someone types or sounds like?

Do you reject someone if you feel they are either too dumb or too intelligent?

Do you reject someone if their manners and compliments make you think they are just after something else?

Do you reject someone because they seem to bombard you with messages?

Do you reject a person if they say the like you, and at that stage you don’t?

DO you reject on grounds of race or religious beliefs?

DO you reject someone too far away?

What are your thoughts on this? should be interesting.

This seems to be a problem I run into and it bothers me a bit...surely I can't be the only one who thinks this way. Please correct me if Im wrong....

I was raised in a strict household with four older sisters and no brothers, where some things just werent said. Being all girls we weren't in a household where "boys will be boys". Having two boys of my own, i had raised them to respect women and they now do.

With that being said, am I wrong to think its disrespectful for a man ....someone I hardly know, to say "damn, you're hot" or "sexy" .... Or to refer to me as baby, babe or cuti . Its one thing, if hes a good friend or boyfriend to be that forward to speak in that manner lightly because i know him well and its harmless because im familiar with the personality. But to practically be a stranger or mere acquaintance, wouldnt it be degrading? I feel like a candy in a candy store, rather than a human being with a personality and a brain. Then when i express that feeling of degradation i get an attitude as if i just flipped off a compliment. Not sure whos right in this sense and would like some other views lol is it just me?

I worked it out this morning as I lay in bed, loving the fact I didn't have to get up (working full-time SUCKS), and day-dreaming.

Whadda we want? Romance. Ludicrously overblown, totally OTT, gasp-out-loud, romance. Oh, not longterm, but don't we all want one frantic nuts insane romantic fling? I've been criticized for commenting on my own blogs but I'm going to try to find a youtube clip from a fantastic Iranian comedian on the subject because he says it better than I can. He wrote a POEM in his own BLOOD That's romantic! and insane! And gasp-out-loud oh-yes-please!



When do we want it? NOW




Chances of it happening? NIL.




This too will pass.