Today online dating site for 'MARRIED PEOPLE' Ashley Madison has had their database compromised by hackers.....34 million yes (million) names have been hacked. The hackers are threatening to go public with the names unless Ashley shuts down the site. See we all here can relax, our names aren't in their database......or are they?????
During our life journey some people enter our lives and make us feel special.
I was so lucky to have met someone that helped me through moments of my life.
He made my true colours show, making me feel beautiful and showing me all I was worth.
Kind, patient and loving we connected instantly.
We are energies, meshing and flowing, and changing continuously.
We are all in different places in our journeys.
Now he asks me to say "Goodbye" and I won't.
I want to say.
I will never forget you!
This blog is for those we never forget
I've seen blogs and comments on romance - candlelit dinners, spontaneous gifts, trips away. They always sound expensive.
I looked at recent blogs to find romantic examples and oh dear we have all been a bit anti romance lately, haven't we? The only one I spotted was a holiday fling on the very very cheap. Whatever rocks your boat, of course, and a budget bonk is probably just as romantic as being wined, dined and treated as precious, but that's the thing, why should it all be about spending a lot to sound fun?
Romance CAN be a walk along the beach in moonlight.
It CAN be reaching through thorns to pick and present a perfect rose.
Romance can be learning your loved one's language privately to surprise him or her with a fluent message of love.
Romance on CS can be changing your search details so they only fit one person - and waiting for her to notice.
So here's a challenge to you - let's bring some romance back into this dating site. Something catch-your-breath romantic you've had happen to you, or heard about, or wish would happen - at little or no cost? Can we do it?
I had a frequent visitor to my profile. I once sent a greeting message,but he claimed he likes single girl. I immediately dropped him, never visited his profile.
I would walk away from the one who does not want me, or the type I don't like. I will give up for good.
Well, this guy after claimed no interest in me, he would still visit my profile, just wonder what is wrong with him!
I was 25 when I opened up myself for a romantic relationship. My friends said that it wasn't even real because it was online. We met and carry our relationship online without meeting up in person. To me it was real, i meant every word and everything I did for our relationship. However, we still separated after 4 years.
Moving on, I got lonely, and even when its dangerous and there's too much prejudice attached to a filipina dating in Saudi Arabia, I did it for my loneliness. And because I can bend some rules at my own risk.
After numerous dates though, mostly meeting the guys once, some twice and 2 a few months and 1 labeled relationship, I realized the men (non saudis, expats like me) won't look for anything more than casual. It broke my heart more than the breakup with my boyfriend for 4 years.
So yeah, i don't know if its better for me to take myself back online, or continue dating men without a hope for future. Or stop all the effort and just wait for God's perfect time.
Do you have a side of the bed you prefer when sleeping with someone?
I am ambidextrous, so for me it doesnt matter what side of the bed I am on, I can still enjoy lots of hugs and cuddles.
Would you give them marks out of 10 for performance stamina or comfort or what deserves your highest mark ?
Perfect Start To Honeymoon
This ever happen to anyone else, you spot a profile and think ooh. Then you read the profile carefully. OOH. Not only ticks your boxes, but when you look at what they want, you tick theirs.
1) they don't respond to you trampling oh so discreetly over their WVM list (or to your flower or message)
2) they look at your profile but don't get in touch
2 3) they respond politely 2 or 3 days later saying basically good luck finding someone, it ain't me babe.
WHAT? BUT WE'RE SOUL MATES!
Yup I'm throwing in a last blog because I may be offline for a few days. Or a week. Or, who knows, forever. Could meet the perfect fella out there in the next week, after all. Good company, fun, sexy, okay-looking, tall, reasonably bright, and, this is the only bit I can't (modestly) match, rich. You never know.
Oh, and he'll instantly recognize that we are perfect for each other. That bit is quite important.
how soon after messaging someone online is appropriate to exchange phone numbers or any other contact information?
i know its up to the individuals but just asking to get some perspective here.