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Considering the number of members that choose not to post a photo on their profile page, I am wondering whether the inclusion of photos plays a role in the number of contacts (flowers/mail) received from potential suitors.

Likewise, does the type/quantity of photos enhance or deter a persons appeal?

I ask this question because today as I was browsing profiles, I came across a profile that included a photo of a woman lying face down on a sunbed.

Now, nothing unusual in that you may think, however, in the photo that showed the womens upper legs and bum, she was completely naked with legs slightly apart, thus leaving nothing to the imagination.

Of course, to a guy like me that made her extremely attractive!

In choosing people to contact, how important are photos to you?

When contacting someone new, I always seem to have difficulty deciding what to write as my opening gambit, especially if in the persons profile there is nothing specific to refer too.

What kind of pick up text attracts your attention sufficiently for you to reply?

When A Girl And Boy Get A New Relationship

How many times have you resolved not to fall in love again? And yet, once the wounds have healed, we just fall in love again; time and time again. And when we fall in love, we forget all our good resolutions and break all our own rules.

The strange part of it is that we usually a fall in love with strangers. Let’s face it, we don’t look into the eyes of somebody we have known for years and then suddenly go weak in the knees. It is a stranger that does that to you. If you don’t want to fall in love, avoid meeting or seeing strangers. But then there is probably a built in cut out switch somewhere to allow you to fall in love with a known person in the absence of strangers.

A man and a woman who have known each other for years will not fall in love with each other, even though they may be a perfect match. However, it may happen that they can come to their senses and decide to throw their lot together. Given some time, they will grow to love each other and spend a lifetime in happiness but that was not falling in love. It is a cultivated love brought about by a logic decision and probably has the best chance of success.

I think falling in love is a primitive breeding instinct to ensure the survival of the human species. And it is built into our genes to fall in love with strangers to diversify our genetic material. Inbreeding had never been good for any genetic pool.


Have a great day and I hope you meet many strangers. One of them may just be the one you've been waiting for.

Is there, or should there be such a thing as bedroom etiquette?

What for you are the do’s and dont’s in the bedroom?

This short but concise guide will help men have a little more understanding on women and how to deal with them.

Women have been around for a very long time, practically the same time as men; however this fact has been forgotten after hundreds of generations of male dominance.

In the past letters were written and women were verbally asked out, now it’s mainly via social media, women really don’t like being asked out via WhatsApp or a plain text, Try to actually speak with her, even if it’s through skype.

Always compliment a woman, even if she turns up for a date looking like she had been dragged through a hedge backwards, she has spent hours shaving her legs and armpits, doing her hair and changed clothes an average of 12 times before deciding on her outfit.

If you are out for dinner the woman will probably choose a salad while you get stuck into a steak, offer her fries etc. by gently pushing the plate towards her. If she insists on paying half the bill then let her.

If the date ends up with coitus, Always ensure the woman reaches a climax first, let her enjoy it, should she climax first you can be assured she will take care of you. (if you dont know how to ensure she climaxes first then shame on you)

Post coital interaction is vital, don’t get up and wipe your deflating appendage on the curtains and head off for a snack or to watch TV, stay and cuddle her, hold her in your arms so together you can enjoy the special moment.

If a woman says “fine” It’s not fine, she is annoyed, it's best to lose the argument or simply say sorry even if you have no idea why she is mad at you, Women have a very long memory and will get her revenge on way or another, sometimes a few years after your transgression.

In short, woman are our equals, be kind and complementary and let her know you will protect her with your life.

Newest email...first contact

“Baby, I'd be all over you like a Rash.”

Any of you think you can help this poor fellow out with a better opening line?

I have a question for all plus-sized women. As a man who honestly prefers bbws over petite women, I do notice that when a profile says "plus-sized", the photos sometimes appear older from years ago or cropped from the neck down. Why do I see this so often with plus-sized women ?

I do understand that many men are looking for barbie dolls, I get that. However for us men who are looking for a relationship with a plus-sided lady, could I ask some of you to post recent photos / not be afraid to show your body ? ( I say that with respect, as a man who simply wants to see a photo of a possible love interest. )

Let me know your thoughts and how you feel about this, comment or message me.

Take care,

- William

This act of treason had always been the biggest imaginable taboo in my family and I have the dubious honor to be the first in the family to have attained such status.

Since then an uncle, my sister and a cousin got divorced but that did not count. My parents continued to recognize my first wife as my rightful wife and saw to it that she was invited to any event where the family would gather. They put me under such pressure that we tried to give it another go but once again it was a no go.

After being happily divorced for eighteen years, during a short spell of temporary insanity, I took the plunge again; just to set the stage to commit the unforgivable crime a second time. For five years my parents stopped to invite my first wife to our family gatherings. My mother passed away while I was married to my second wife but the moment I got divorced again my first wife was called back to take her ‘rightful’ place in the family.

My father’s doing; with maybe a bit of conniving by my sister as well. And I know this will continue until either my father or my first wife goes off to the happy hunting grounds. Does it have to be until death do us part?

This is an awkward situation for I can never take a girlfriend with me to a family gathering because my first wife will be there as sure as there is a sun in the sky. I made that mistake once. My first wife has a way to make people uneasy without attracting the attention of the other people around. She may be a perfect lady on the surface but there is a bìtch lurking beneath.

Now, I don’t mind my first wife. We have discovered many years ago that we are much better friends than lovers. We call one another from time to time and when I happen to be in the suburb where she lives, I normally drop in to say hello. After all, she is the mother of my children but I don’t want her around all the time. For suck’s fake, I have a piece of paper with the court’s stamp on it that says that we are no longer married and our children are grown up and married.


Cheer up! It is almost weekend again!

You are? Well then, welcome to CS. I’ve been here for a while and I happen to hear from lots of beautiful young lassies like you who are new here. It is always so amazing to notice how new girls fumble for the right words; it must be nerves. You say you don’t spend a lot of time on this site. That is a real pity; there are so many things to do here. You will love it and spend all your free time here once you get the hang of it.

You like my profile? I like it too. And you think I look very ‘sofisticated’? Oh thank you, dear. I’m not photogenic and I look much better in real life. Yes, I’m also looking for a ‘cincere and honest persin’ with whom to spend the rest of my life. Hmm, I’m pleased to hear that you like older men and I'm sure that you can make me happy, but I already raised two daughters; I don’t have the energy for another one. Perhaps I can introduce you to my grandson? At 17, he is only a few years younger than you are, but does it matter? As you said yourself, age is just a number.

Oh dear! Can we skip the naughty talking on Skype? I’m very shy and I blush easily. Actually, I think we must skip those naughty pics as well. Why don’t you try another site? We don’t do those things here. At least, most of us don’t.

No dear, rather not wait for an email from me. I correspond with so many new girls, I cannot possibly handle another new girl, but I promise to save your Yahoo email address in case I have more time later. Sorry, I have blocked you from contacting me again. It is nothing personal. See it as a favor to prevent you from wasting your valuable time on an old coot like me.


One day is one day...