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I want a wife
Map's blog raised a subject I feel strongly on, and he's fine with me stealing the direction it took.
I want a wife. A little woman to do the cooking, housework, laundry, would be heaven.
Her evenings would be her own, too, she could go out every night if she liked, no awkward questions when she got home - well, some questions, after all she could also be a wonderful source of research for me, and save me having to go out myself. 
Does anyone know where to get one? Is there a deposit to be paid, or do you just have to put your name on a waiting list?
I want a wife. A little woman to do the cooking, housework, laundry, would be heaven.
Her evenings would be her own, too, she could go out every night if she liked, no awkward questions when she got home - well, some questions, after all she could also be a wonderful source of research for me, and save me having to go out myself. Does anyone know where to get one? Is there a deposit to be paid, or do you just have to put your name on a waiting list?
The place you met before or you want to meet your
Since this is a dating site,so i will just like to share with people how you want to find or meet your partner.
In fact, I am half retired type,maybe it is a good idea, we can share how you want to find the Mr or Mrs right.
I think bars are not a good place,I think the quality of the people there is not reliable.
In fact, I am half retired type,maybe it is a good idea, we can share how you want to find the Mr or Mrs right.
I think bars are not a good place,I think the quality of the people there is not reliable.
Some keys to a good relationship
Certainly good communication with a thorough understanding is crucial;
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Having attentiveness and a willingness to compromise is important;
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Having a genuine concern is favorable;
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An eager desire for togetherness is essential;
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And being able to productively work out
any misunderstandings that might arise amiably is ideal;
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I hope you learned something here today.
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Having attentiveness and a willingness to compromise is important;
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Having a genuine concern is favorable;
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An eager desire for togetherness is essential;
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And being able to productively work out
any misunderstandings that might arise amiably is ideal;
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I hope you learned something here today.
Do ya wanna "hang out"?
What does that mean exactly... I am too cheap to buy you coffee or dinner but maybe if we are at MY House then...maybe just maybe we could get lucky?
Hmmmph.
Hmmmph.
Dumped
Ouch. Look at that bruise, it will be a lulu. 
Funny mix of feelings, though. Mainly surprise ... but then he is VERY stubborn and so am I and we had a clash of wills and for the first time I won. So perhaps I shouldn't be surprised.
No regrets. If you ever read this, Alex - it was oh-so-very-much fun, 5 laughing holidays together and talking for hours and hours on skype when we were apart: I will always remember the sheer fun we had. You made me feel I was infinitely good company and very desirable.
I wish you hadn't been so stubborn ... but I guess better to find out now than further down the line. I did think we were friends as well. Maybe in time that can be picked up again.
Going to go now. Starting to feel a need to wallow in a little ice-cream. I'll be back for the chat every now and then, to see who is up to what. I wasn't going to allow comments on this and then I thought what the hell. Maybe someone will enjoy a little crowing. I have some friends here, but I made some enemies too. Go for it.
Happy hunting, y'all.
Funny mix of feelings, though. Mainly surprise ... but then he is VERY stubborn and so am I and we had a clash of wills and for the first time I won. So perhaps I shouldn't be surprised.
No regrets. If you ever read this, Alex - it was oh-so-very-much fun, 5 laughing holidays together and talking for hours and hours on skype when we were apart: I will always remember the sheer fun we had. You made me feel I was infinitely good company and very desirable.
I wish you hadn't been so stubborn ... but I guess better to find out now than further down the line. I did think we were friends as well. Maybe in time that can be picked up again.
Going to go now. Starting to feel a need to wallow in a little ice-cream. I'll be back for the chat every now and then, to see who is up to what. I wasn't going to allow comments on this and then I thought what the hell. Maybe someone will enjoy a little crowing. I have some friends here, but I made some enemies too. Go for it.
Happy hunting, y'all.
Honesty – Really?
Practically without exception people rate honesty highest on the list of attributes they require of a partner.
That seems perfectly reasonable and noble, but is it true?
Do we really listen to honesty if it is not what we want to hear?
And when it all goes belly-up, do we lash out and blame them even though it's not really their fault, it's ours for not listening to their reality, their honesty.
At the beginning of a relationship we should listen, really listen to what the other person is saying, not just what we want to hear as this will affect our entire relationship.
If we are honest with ourselves (is that even more difficult?) we have all been in such a scenario during at least one relationship in our lives. The he/she is obviously interchangeable, and I am sure you can add to these possible scenarios.
Scenario One:
She says, sex is not an important part of a relationship to her.
He thinks, she hasn’t slept with this god amongst men yet
..I will change her mind about sex forever!
At the beginning all is good, both are trying to impress each other as we all do at the beginning of a relationship.
Fast forward 3 years – Couple are still together, possibly married, but he is lucky to get sex on his birthday and their anniversary.
He feels lonely and cheated and considers having an affair, after all he feels entitled to sex with the woman he loves. It is a normal part of any relationship. He feels hard done by.
She feels lonely and upset. She isn’t getting the love and companionship she wanted from the man she loves. She can’t understand why he is pushing her about sex, she had told him it was not important to her in a relationship, togetherness is more important.
Scenario Two.
He says, I am not into long term relationships
She thinks, he has not met me yet, he will never want to leave me once he gets to know and love me.
At the beginning all is good, they are getting on brilliantly, fall in love and enjoy each other’s company.
Fast forward 2 years – couple are still together but things aren’t going as well as could be,
She thinks, why does he not want to see me more? He seems to love me but won’t commit to anything, not even to book a holiday for the following summer.
He thinks, I am being smothered here. She wants me to be with her every waking minute and keeps planning things for the future. She’ll want me to marry her yet! I told her I wasn’t into long term relationships, all I want is a bit of fun with someone I care about, no long term plans, no long-term commitment.
When people are honest they say what they want or can do. We claim to want honesty but then disregard that honesty as it doesn’t suit our own ideas.
So, do we really accept honesty when we get it?
That seems perfectly reasonable and noble, but is it true?
Do we really listen to honesty if it is not what we want to hear?
And when it all goes belly-up, do we lash out and blame them even though it's not really their fault, it's ours for not listening to their reality, their honesty.
At the beginning of a relationship we should listen, really listen to what the other person is saying, not just what we want to hear as this will affect our entire relationship.
If we are honest with ourselves (is that even more difficult?) we have all been in such a scenario during at least one relationship in our lives. The he/she is obviously interchangeable, and I am sure you can add to these possible scenarios.
Scenario One:
She says, sex is not an important part of a relationship to her.
He thinks, she hasn’t slept with this god amongst men yet
..I will change her mind about sex forever!At the beginning all is good, both are trying to impress each other as we all do at the beginning of a relationship.
Fast forward 3 years – Couple are still together, possibly married, but he is lucky to get sex on his birthday and their anniversary.
He feels lonely and cheated and considers having an affair, after all he feels entitled to sex with the woman he loves. It is a normal part of any relationship. He feels hard done by.
She feels lonely and upset. She isn’t getting the love and companionship she wanted from the man she loves. She can’t understand why he is pushing her about sex, she had told him it was not important to her in a relationship, togetherness is more important.
Scenario Two.
He says, I am not into long term relationships
She thinks, he has not met me yet, he will never want to leave me once he gets to know and love me.
At the beginning all is good, they are getting on brilliantly, fall in love and enjoy each other’s company.
Fast forward 2 years – couple are still together but things aren’t going as well as could be,
She thinks, why does he not want to see me more? He seems to love me but won’t commit to anything, not even to book a holiday for the following summer.
He thinks, I am being smothered here. She wants me to be with her every waking minute and keeps planning things for the future. She’ll want me to marry her yet! I told her I wasn’t into long term relationships, all I want is a bit of fun with someone I care about, no long term plans, no long-term commitment.
When people are honest they say what they want or can do. We claim to want honesty but then disregard that honesty as it doesn’t suit our own ideas.
So, do we really accept honesty when we get it?
Ah! Scientific Method to the Mans Madness
I fell in love with a natural looking woman with long hair sexy hips and yes, she was wearing a red dress....
This is all true, many years ago, and when I stumbled across this video, I started reflecting on why I did what I did....
It had all to do about science, no intelligence no high testosterone levels it was all a pre-destined event.......
ok, girls time to update your profiles add a hair extension or two, change those jeans into a red dress, take off the makeup and start moving those hips like you mean it.....
this video is thanks to CC, who helped me get it loaded last evening
This is all true, many years ago, and when I stumbled across this video, I started reflecting on why I did what I did....
It had all to do about science, no intelligence no high testosterone levels it was all a pre-destined event.......
ok, girls time to update your profiles add a hair extension or two, change those jeans into a red dress, take off the makeup and start moving those hips like you mean it.....
this video is thanks to CC, who helped me get it loaded last evening
fabulously flawed....
Once a monk was assigned to build a brick wall. Being a monk, he had all the patience he needed for the job. He made sure every single brick was perfect, no matter how long it took.
Eventually, he completed his brick wall and stood back to admire it. It was only then that he noticed he’d missed two bricks. All the other bricks were nicely in line, but these two were inclined at an angle. They spoilt the whole wall. They ruined it. By then, the cement mortar was too hard for the bricks to be taken out, so he asked the abbot if he could knock the wall down and start over again or, even better, perhaps blow it up. The abbot said the wall had to stay.
When he showed the visitors around the monastery, he always tried to avoid taking them past his brick wall. He’d made a mess of it and he was very embarrassed. He hated anyone seeing it.
One day he was walking with a visitor and he saw the wall. “That’s a nice wall,” he casually remarked. “Sir,” he replied in surprise, “have you left your glasses in your car? Are you visually impaired? Can’t you see those two bad bricks which spoil the whole wall?” . The visitor replied, “Yes. I can see those two bad bricks. But I can see all the good bricks as well.”
For the first time the monk could see other bricks in that wall apart from the two bad bricks. Above, below, to the left and to the right of the bad bricks were good bricks, perfect bricks. Moreover, the perfect bricks were many more than the two bad bricks.
When our eyes would focus exclusively on minor mistakes, we become blind to everything else. That was why he couldn’t bear looking at that wall, or having others see it. That was why he wanted to destroy it. Now that he could see the good bricks, the wall didn’t look so bad after all. It was, as the visitor had said, “a nice brick wall.”
In truth, there are more good bricks, perfect bricks, but at times we just can’t see them. Instead, our eyes focus exclusively on the mistakes. The mistakes are all we see, they’re all we think are there— and so we want to destroy them. And sometimes, sadly, we do destroy a “very nice wall.”
How many of us end relationships because all we can see in others are “two bad bricks”?
How many of us become depressed , because all we can see in ourselves are “two bad bricks.”?
How many of us are afraid of opening ourselves to others, because we are afraid that the others will notice our “two bad bricks.”?
How many of us see only the bad bricks in others, when there are more good bricks than bad in them?
We’ve all got our two or more bad bricks, but the perfect bricks, the good bricks in each one of us always outnumber the bad bricks. Once we learn to focus on good bricks, things start to look not so bad. Not only we can live at peace with ourselves, inclusive of our faults, but we can also enjoy living with others in harmony .
Nobody is perfect. We are all fabulously flawed.
I know I am imperfect. But I only read that word as I’mperfect.
Wish everyone a fabulous Day!!!! 
Eventually, he completed his brick wall and stood back to admire it. It was only then that he noticed he’d missed two bricks. All the other bricks were nicely in line, but these two were inclined at an angle. They spoilt the whole wall. They ruined it. By then, the cement mortar was too hard for the bricks to be taken out, so he asked the abbot if he could knock the wall down and start over again or, even better, perhaps blow it up. The abbot said the wall had to stay.
When he showed the visitors around the monastery, he always tried to avoid taking them past his brick wall. He’d made a mess of it and he was very embarrassed. He hated anyone seeing it.
One day he was walking with a visitor and he saw the wall. “That’s a nice wall,” he casually remarked. “Sir,” he replied in surprise, “have you left your glasses in your car? Are you visually impaired? Can’t you see those two bad bricks which spoil the whole wall?” . The visitor replied, “Yes. I can see those two bad bricks. But I can see all the good bricks as well.”
For the first time the monk could see other bricks in that wall apart from the two bad bricks. Above, below, to the left and to the right of the bad bricks were good bricks, perfect bricks. Moreover, the perfect bricks were many more than the two bad bricks.
When our eyes would focus exclusively on minor mistakes, we become blind to everything else. That was why he couldn’t bear looking at that wall, or having others see it. That was why he wanted to destroy it. Now that he could see the good bricks, the wall didn’t look so bad after all. It was, as the visitor had said, “a nice brick wall.”
In truth, there are more good bricks, perfect bricks, but at times we just can’t see them. Instead, our eyes focus exclusively on the mistakes. The mistakes are all we see, they’re all we think are there— and so we want to destroy them. And sometimes, sadly, we do destroy a “very nice wall.”
How many of us end relationships because all we can see in others are “two bad bricks”?
How many of us become depressed , because all we can see in ourselves are “two bad bricks.”?
How many of us are afraid of opening ourselves to others, because we are afraid that the others will notice our “two bad bricks.”?
How many of us see only the bad bricks in others, when there are more good bricks than bad in them?
We’ve all got our two or more bad bricks, but the perfect bricks, the good bricks in each one of us always outnumber the bad bricks. Once we learn to focus on good bricks, things start to look not so bad. Not only we can live at peace with ourselves, inclusive of our faults, but we can also enjoy living with others in harmony .
Nobody is perfect. We are all fabulously flawed.
I know I am imperfect. But I only read that word as I’mperfect.
Wish everyone a fabulous Day!!!!
If u want someone --> Go for it !
I have met quite a few men on CS, in the 1 + year I have been on this site.
I am scared that others might make the same mistakes than I have, but if they go into the situation with their eyes wide open, then no-one can be blamed but themselves.
If u want someone that badly, then go for it !!!
I am scared that others might make the same mistakes than I have, but if they go into the situation with their eyes wide open, then no-one can be blamed but themselves.
If u want someone that badly, then go for it !!!
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