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Is this site suppose to be where single,lonely people suppose to meet each other,fall inlove or be friends.I doubt this its a mind playing game here some fools only view you too coward to even text you.Where's the real men on this site who has the guts to do what they suppose to do court woman,what the heck are some of you looking for you wasting my time and yours.Some do come on text you but then they fade into thin air no wonder you guys are still single you not committed enough to take on the full ride always doing things halve way.You are spineless immature boys that wants to play around are you keeping tabs to see just how much you can score get a life guys you suck big time

" Here’s the point: We want to believe in the idea of “The One.” Human beings crave this idea. One of the reasons I believe we crave it is because we like simplicity. We don’t like the idea that many people could be “The One.” We like the idea that there’s one person out there that’s right for us. It’s what movies have taught us, it’s what books have taught us, and it seems neat and tidy, because if there’s just one person out there then we can just keep searching for that one person who we’re supposed to be perfect with. All we have to do is sit back and wait for “The One” to arrive, and when they do we’ll just “know” it.

What happens when you’re in a relationship and “The One” cheats on you?

What happens when you’re in a relationship and “The One” starts disrespecting you or treating you badly?

There are two schools of thought on this. One person would say, “stick around because they’re ‘The One.’ You have to fight it out and make it work because they’re ‘The One.’” Which, of course, is a recipe for living your life with someone who doesn’t meet your standards.

The other person would say “No, leave, because that means he’s NOT ‘The One.’ Leave because ‘The One’ is still out there.” This attitude is what leads to chronic relationship hopping. It’s what leads people to consistently leave relationships when they find out their partner is not perfect and passionate every single day.

Part of the problem is we live in this incredibly entitled society. We have this entitlement culture where we’re led to believe that we’re supposed to just find “The One” and it will be amazing. The truth is, we’re not entitled to something, but we do have the opportunity to create something.

I believe that the idea of love at first sight is the most unromantic idea there is. If we believe that “The One” comes ready-made, we know we don’t really have to work on a relationship. This person comes to us, ready for us. I think that’s an abhorrent concept. The idea I can look at someone across the room and feel that they’re just “right” for me when they’ve done nothing for me – what an insult to a marriage of 50 years. What makes a person special is not that they are some magically appointed “One,” but how much they’ve invested in you, and what you’ve built together over time.

The idea of love at first sight is an insult to long-term relationships where people have actually built something through effort and hard work. That, to me, is what’s romantic – when people stick around for each other, when people look after each other, when they’re a genuine team. I think what’s romantic is when someone builds a relationship.

An amazing relationship is built, not found. We have the ability to create opportunity. Someone could break up with us and we have the ability to do it again. Our partner could pass away and we have the ability to go out there and find happiness again. One of the most redeeming parts of love is that it’s possible to find love again if we should need to.



By the way, does this mean that everybody could be right for us? No.There’s still a percentage of people that we could make it work with, and that may be a small percentage, but it’s a lot better as odds than finding “The One.” "
Matt Hussey.

So... have hope. There are many, many men(woman) who are right for you.

I had a very strange message exchange with a 39 year old Girl , not on CS tho

She- Hi how are you?
Me- Fine, thanks for asking,you?
She-What are you looking for on this site
Me-Friendship for start
She- Are you married, do you have kids
Me - separated ,will be divorced next month, I have one adult kid
She- I dont need a Married Man
Me-Honey, I wasnt offering anything
She-you should see a psychiatris
Me -They dont last very long so now Im after Blonds, their IQ is low so they just smile all day

By the way, she s a Blond

If your partner cheated on you, would you want to know when they met and how they became closer or you just don't give a shit.

Sometimes I wonder why and how, but some people said it's better to just forget him/her.

Mind sharing your opinion?

Hi

I recently went out with my ex. We talked sincerely. I asked him what we are doing and to define the relationship. I told him that I don’t want to pressure him to commit to anything he isn’t prepared for, but I wanted to know what we are and where this is going. He said that he has feelings for me, and that he isn’t interested with other girls. He asked for more time for him to sort his work life so that he can have more time for his personal life.

I told him that I didn’t want to be an option. He said I am not an option. However i think he meant that there’s no other girls. But I meant that, i want him to prioritize our relationship, should we get back together. Because I felt like I am in competition with his job.

I understand that we are here in this place mainly for jobs. But, I want to be his priority too. But I just can’t ask that of him in fear that he will always choose his job.

Should I just continue with moving on? Or Should I believe him and wait?

the upholder is just as guilty as the thief

how many of us believe in that?

if i am to do something wrong and u supported me on it or know i have done wrong and say nothing are u as guilty as i am?

Seems like time is going faster an faster, been almost 3 years since my last post here.
I see a lot of new faces, some of the old buggers aswell.
Anyways, I've met my girl here december 2012, married her a few years later and she moved from Vietnam to belgium shortly after.
Next month my sweet wife will graduate here as a nurse, she already has a job waiting for her in the old folks home just around the corner. She has worked so hard to learn the language and I'm so proud of her.
We are still crazy about eachother and keep going strong. After she starts working we plan on starting a family, I really look forward to that. So that will be most likely the next time i'll drop in to leave a message.
Stay safe, take care of eachother. Know that Jenny and I are forever grateful to cs and all of you for having these blogs where we met. Don't give up hope. Someone is out there.

You are hidden somewhere ,but I can see you
You dwell in my heart ,I can feel you
I lost you , but don't lose me ever
People say you are gone ,but I believe never
Let's hold the hands forever and ever

Don't leave me alone as I don't have love
Can't see others , I am with you in love
Will never forget you ,I promise
Let's hold the hands forever and ever

Miss you so much :
Love you so much :

Why I need visa visit other country?

Why you need visa visit thai?

I read news many people travel from Africs, Arab country go Europe and not need visa. If I want go Europe I need many document, money, and only let stay short time.


Why does every person In USA have gun?

This not good.
Many school kids die by crazy man.
Other country not allow this happen.
I read President not allow change law make guns unlawful - this crazy. Why he President if not change law?


Indonisia shoot drug smuggler.

I read bad things people say. But China, USA, Thai, Arab country and many other all do same.
If country make law. Why other country say bad and need change?


China eat dog at district festival.

If not cruel why people see problem?
All country eat animal meat.
In Thai rabbit just pet. We never eat but other country think ok.


I like read news, I like understand. I not agree or disagree with some - but I find strange and need understand.

Please help me understand

You think other thing strange?

Love is often unequal.

Many people I’ve talked to have expressed hesitation over getting involved with someone, because that person “likes them too much.” They worry that if they got involved with this person, their own feelings wouldn’t evolve, and the other
person would wind up getting hurt or feeling
rejected. The truth is that love is often imbalanced, with one person feeling more or less from moment to moment.

Our feelings toward someone are an ever changing force. In a matter of seconds, we can feel anger, irritation or even hate for a person we love. Worrying over how we will feel keeps us from seeing where our feelings would naturally go. It’s better to be open to how our feelings develop over time.

Allowing worry or guilt over how we may or may not feel keeps us from getting to know someone who is expressing interest in us and may prevent us from forming a relationship that could really make us happy... #Jt