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It's humpday !

So, lets say that tonight, for one night only,
you get your choice of ANYONE you could have
all night no-strings-attached passionate sex with.

Who would it be ?

For me I just might be willing
to give Carmen Electra that opportunity.


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Dating at 50 is rough. It is sure not like it was in my younger years. People are harder to get along with and please. People do not want to compromise. Most of us at 50 or older have been married and had kids and are set in our ways til it makes it harder to compromise. I am just looking for a good man to share and enjoy all the little things life has to offer. Life is short and I just want to live life being loved and loving someone. Would love to hear your stories.

When the man looks for the woman for sex, it is normal. When the woman looks for the man for the sake of money, it has to be a shame. Where logic?

most of the time I see interracial couples and is amazing thing .why people are scared to be interracial relationships?

Are you with the right partner?



During a seminar, a woman asked," How do I know if I am with the right person?"

The author then noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so he said, "It depends. Is that your partner?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?" Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind
replied the author.

Here's the answer.

Every relationship has a cycle… In the beginning; you
fall in love with your partner. You anticipate their calls,
want their touch, and like their idiosyncrasies. Falling in love wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience. You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love.

People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet."Picture the expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something happened TO YOU.

Falling in love is a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few months or years of being together, the euphoria of love fades. It's a natural cycle of EVERY relationship.

Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts. The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship; you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.

At this point, you and/or your partner might start asking, "Am I with the right person?" And as you reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you
may begin to desire that experience with someone
else. This is when relationships breakdown.

The key to succeeding in a relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the person you found.

People blame their partners for their unhappiness and look outside for fulfillment. Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes.

Infidelity is the most common. But sometimes people turn to work, a hobby, friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your relationship. It lies within it.

I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later.

Because (listen carefully to this):

The key to succeeding in a Relationship is not finding the right person; it's learning to love the Person you found.

SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. You have to work on it day in and day out. It takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it demands WISDOM. You have to know
WHAT TO DO to make it work. Make no mistake about it.

Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your partner), Just as there are physical laws Of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. If you know how to apply these laws, the results are predictable.

Love is therefore a "decision". Not just a feeling.

Remember this always: God determines who walks into your life. It is up to you to decide who you let walk away, who you let stay, and who you refuse to let GO! ?

Guys i need some suggestion here , anyone familiar with the church marriage annulation process ?
My bf once married in the catholic church in the US , but the plan i have in mind was for us to be married in the catholic church here in Indonesia. On July , next year i am suppose to make us an appointment with the people that can help with the bureaucracy and he is ready to bring related documents and sign any necessary papers ( yes it seems like we are a bit rushing on things but our age is not actually young anymore, for me i have no time to waste ) But so far the church giving me a cold shoulder
Where should we apply the annulation ? will it be easier if its done there in the US ? anyone familiar with this ?

Second , my bf actually use to be my ex bf's friend. I know them both online for 5 years now, and i didnt actually say good bye with my ex bf ( which i havent even met yet Lmao ) because it is my bf that tells me that my ex is involved with another woman. But everything was fine , my ex didnt do any of his act until my bf posted something on my page at another social media site. And from that day until today my ex is mailing my bf back and forth ( but my ex never mail me ) telling my bf the plan i had with him which i didnt say anything about ( Lols ) about our story , and the best part was my ex is asking my bf to become his brother ..

My bf is a bit of a sentimental person and my ex said to him that he needs him that he never had a real brother that he is fragille and dont know what to do, he loose his way so many times, that he is stuck with his life , that he is broke ( get a job will ya!!! ) .. and so on ( duh , sounds like a girl to me ) and this kindda things really makes my bf to consider being there for my ex.

I mean funny right, I use to think that no internet interaction can be complicated or real but now i witness that it can be as real as it needed to be and as complicated ( even more ) as real relationship can get. For me will i made it all the way in my new relationship that i really dont know but its not like i dont have a life. So i will do my best but i leave the rest to The Bigger Force to decide.

Im only affraid that my ex is playing another one of his game . I never talk to my ex again, i didnt reply his emails, never did i say goodbye. I dont feel there is a reason to do so. If he didnt cheat i would prepare to do anything necessary for us, but now its a complete different situation. I dont even think my ex existed anymore.

So i wonder is my ex trying to arouse my reaction or is he trying to destroy my new relationship or the last possibility which i doubt but its possible that he is really reaching out for help ( which this possibility kindda make me feel bad ) ..

Any advise and suggestions would be deeply appreciated . Sometime we do need outside opinion because they can see things clearer.






Lots of love

what, Trapped again????!!!!
as if there was ONE secret for that!!!!...
come on!!!!

Some days I read through the blogs, skipping the numpties, popping in to see what my favourites have to say, saying little myself, and enjoying CS socials.

Some days, and there is never any warning, I get offended for little or no reason and wham, I'm talking and the feet are kicking themselves to see which one can get into my mouth faster.

Those days I should go away. I'm going now. This blog is just to say sorry if my response on a blog looked abrupt or downright rude. Sorry if I hurt anyone's feelings. Sometimes the fingers are rattling away before the brain is in gear and then too late to hit the brakes, the comment is out there, and it is OTT, because I'm an idiot.

Dont waste your time and money on gifts, chocolates or flowers. The modern woman has no need of these frivolities.

Womens expectations these days go far beyond the considerations of yesteryear. What was once considered a romantic gesture is now expected as the "norm".

But do not despair, under that crusty shell of feminism there lies dormant a softer side that is yearning for recognition.

A birthday card is always obligatory yet what is more important than anything are the compliments of reassurance.

For example...
If a woman dresses nicely.. tell her so
If a woman looks ravishing.. tell her so
If a woman smells nice.. tell her so
If a woman does something for you... say thank you
A woman knows that you love her, but tell her so.... regularly

Words cost nothing but the rewards can be great.

So as the new year approaches, do you ever find yourself, on the "SAME ROAD"

That ROAD, where, you know it will not end well,
That Road, where, you know it will bring tears & heatache, maybe not to you, but, maybe to others.
That ROAD, where, your friends say, " you deserve better"
That ROAD, where you are always the bridesmaid & not the bride.
That ROAD, where you are always the friend, & not the girlfriend


Have you ever examined that same road, really scrutinized all the pebbles/stones, it only takes one stone/pebble to be slightly different, and that makes it a NEW ROAD

A NEW ROAD could well be very unique in its own way, and lead you into happy days & sunshine

So, as the new year approaches, are you going to take that NEW ROAD by the horns,stand tall and be brave, embrace the new challenges, hell, even skip down it naked, because you have found a slightly different shaped pebble.
OR
Are you going to hide under that same old rock, telling yourself, shite, ive been down this road before, it does not end well, my feelings will get hurt ?



Me..... im taking the new road, and quite frankly, i dont give a flying flute what anyone else thinks, its my road, and i will walk it, tall, independent, and with dignity.. I refuse to let my past dictate what road i should follow.



Chhers to new friends