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why is it that women say they want a nice man and not a pig but all u see when u go to bars churches and single clubs are filled with men that put up a good front as be nice guys but smell look like and move like pigs and there always the ones getting dates and then the women always b*tch how there unhappy and or he left me after one night of sex now I not a saint I am a bit of a pig and slob but would stand in front of another semi if need be to make the one im with happy so why do women a lot of times get traped by the hidden pig trap do they go nose blind to the festering smell of pigdom or are they realy deep down realy wanting a pig or are they just settaling for pigdom and hoping he's not that big of a pig.

You have been on CS longer than a few weeks and you discovered forums, blogs, videos, music and more.
Once you add a comment to any of those ongoing discussions, something changes in your profile. You now have a counter button under the heading 'posts' revealing that you have become a 'contributing' CS member.
The more active you are, the higher counters go or the more extra buttons show up: 'blogs', 'quizzes', 'polls', 'music' (too many to list). Contributing CS members have some commitment to this site. This has various repercussions. Such as:
- They are genuine (I never found any scammer among contributing members. Scammers don't invest in a site, nor in their membership or profile.)
- They will show up more frequently in any search: categories such as blogs, videos or music have a contributor list. Moreover that list can be sorted (default is last login).
- Other than reading, listening to or watching your contributions, CS members may also be more tempted to visit your profile. You will get more profile views and just perhaps less one-liners among your messages.

- The lazy new member scans through photos in her/his target selection,
- The more elaborate member actually reads the profile texts, but profile texts can be elementary or they paint a too rosy picture.
- Profiling 2.0 starts when you consider the member's contributions on this site. Is she/he the kind of person you consider a suitable dating partner? Or do you dislike her/his opinions, music taste and are you convinced it will never work?

Both are OK. You are more than one step ahead to successfully contact a person you rhyme with. In the opposite case, you will less likely squander time dating somebody whose attitude turns you down.

Together with partner now from Phillpines in New Zealand . All is going well.

Heyyy !!!!

Ladiess... who has been reporting Mr T*mb*lin* to the CS admin?? I just about having the next "writting" lesson from him

when I am trying to submit my writing exercise, it says "Your Mail has been block!"

He call me : my little and shy lady --> I turn to : my bold and beautiful man --> lesson : never forget to put MY in your sentence when you write someone you like !!!

and keep the rest of the sentences remind the same as it can be used to male to but never forget to change from her -> him !!!

now, I lost my writing teacher as one of you ladies has reported him to the CS admin !!!!

I've been on CS for 8 days today. For the past 7 days I have been reading a lot of content from other CS members. I had many blog ideas for my first blog to say hello. I'm not sure I even want to share any of my insight with CS members?

From what I have read in the forums and blogs makes me believe there are a few people here that saturate them with negativity. People that disregard courtesy and tact to punish everyone with pitiful hostility. It seems no matter what anyone writes it warrants retaliation from a select few.

This is a site designed to allow you to put your best image out there so someone that might be looking for you might find you. Anything you write or post on this site is a way for them to understand you better.
What I see is a lot of people that can't take life seriously and stay focused on the task at hand.

You are on a dating site. You are hostile, angry with the opposite gender and narcissistic. What is to be gained by spreading hatred? If you sow the seed of hatred you will only reap hatred.

I have read many blogs at many places. What I see here are not blogs, they are quips of insanity posted by shallow, insecure people full of delusions. If I decide to post blogs here in the future, I will turn off comments because if you want to talk to me about my blog you can contact me from my profile.


My blogs will deal with me and be about my views on life as I see it. They are a tool to allow someone that is interested in finding out how I think and feel to understand me.

I post from my home computer so writing is not an issue, neither is reading and viewing large listings at once. I have a phone but I don't use it to post. I am typing on a full keyboard. For most, what I type will be too much scrolling. So be it.

I hope you all find someone special in your life and no longer need to use online dating sites to express yourself. If I find someone, I will leave and never come back. BUT...isn't that how it is supposed to work?

Love can kill you

I've been reading so many profiles that say their ethnicity is caucasian or asian etc. I enjoy facts and one fact is that the above mentioned describe a person's race not ethnicity.. Ethnicity involves some form or cultural connection or belief system such as "Spanish" or "Jewish" or English" or Mongolian. There are multiple cultures in Asia so that is not an ethnicity. Most people seem to be confusing Race with Ethnicity. There are in fact only three races of humans on this planet. Negroid, Asian, and Caucasian.

Isn't it unique the many varied profiles of women who are 65 or older who have one foot on a banana peel and the other on the threshold to a nursing home looking for a useless wanker who is equally or darn near on the same threshold that they will suggest age is just a number or age is not so important. Yet, in my opinion it sounds like a tesimony they are afraid of growing old and bitter and alone. Very sad indeed. To consider most are divorced by the time they reach 40 to 50
They dont want another old useless wanker that they kicked to curb and a guy doesnt want an angry miserable woman who will just spend more time picking out the faults or traits they dont like in a new man either unless perhaps he has a good estate planned.
If you are a poor broken down old fool living on social security from month to month going nowhere what chance does anyone have in entertaining a woman at any level?
Yes we all want a second chance at love and a love that doesnt live 4000 to 12000 miles away
We can all say if we find a personality we can put up with then age is not a factor but having to be middle aged or younger and being compatible would be an ideal hope and predominate reason why we are here or on any other social dating site. Yet, perhaps to be realistic, many should be grateful or happy if we can find anyone suitable. Yet, perhaps its not the search or the chase or catch that matters anymore. Perhaps its OK that people can come here just to exchange banter and not worry about if anyone suits us or is the ideal age or emotional maturity as they say if the shoe fits wear it. Everyone has their reasons why they are here. It is not for me to judge but I find it unique and sad to see my generation is divorced picky and overly critical of the quality of friends they want. Perhaps I am equally guilty of that as well. The problem is our expectations we place upon ourselves and others. After awhile we learn that we sabotage our efforts to fail in finding anyone because of our unrealistic expectations. Something to ponder in your travels here.

Reviewing various female profiles and their perception of self and the quality of men they seek It's rather sad when they preach about how loving caring they claim to be and love their God and their Jesus etc. Then place their unrealistic expectations of potential mates that they must be this or that or love God the same way they see him.. Or list all the things they don't want in a relationship such as they don't want abusers or drunks or a loser without a job etc. Yet, rarely do we see anyone suggest what they do want. Such a nice gentleman or lady who is honest with themselves and to have a real connection with someone. Or they want open communication, fairness something in common etc. I know everyone has their own idea of a friendship and or relationship. However, if you convey a message of past hurts and past relationship failures in one breath and preach about how you may love your God the next what kind of message of contradiction is that? Even God said you can't serve two masters without favoring one over the other. One cannot be dictating that everyone must love God according to an individual's perception then attack everyone that says hello or points out their mixed message of the kind of friend they seek. Where is the empowerment in that? Women want to be empowered and wear the pants today but, part of that responsibility is not attack those trying to reach out to them. It kind of defeats the purpose of seeking a friend in my opinion. Hence, people should be careful what they ask for and what they project out there for we tend to attract what we think of ourselves in our anger and in our joy. If you want to draw love into your life offer love without fear, without using past hurts or judgment. Look at the dysfunction we see in the world today. On the brink of nuclear war, mass shootings and natural disasters. Is this the kind of world people want? If we can't learn to love in our immediate community we can't love anyone online or 4000 miles across the ocean. Oh we can play superficial love and games and offer selective coyness to one another but at the end of the day when we want to curl up with someone and snuggle but left in an empty cold bed we realize our value to anyone and everyone. Something to ponder and criticize in your travels.

What do reckon is the percentage ratio of...

The number of men that contact women
Verses
The number of women that contact men