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There was a reason you joined this site. What was it? To find love? To find friendship? To just read blogs? everyone has a reason..............................what's yours?

For me, I joined after two years of being on my own, I felt I was ready to start meeting people again. I needed these years to gain control of "myself" again after 15 years of marriage. I didn't want to take any baggage into a new relationship if I was to find another one. Am I ready? I don't know, haven't had the honor of meeting anybody yet. So far all I have met is scammers lol. But that doesn't deter me because you can never have too many friends either.............................

Chrissy

The more the years go by, the more I find it hard to love. I've seemed to have misplace my ability to know and feel what it's like to BE inlove. The sight of seeing a couple holding hands, or slobbering all over each other in public makes me wanna gag. I think, maybe it's because I've been single way too long. I'm not picky when it comes to men but I just don't go around looking for the first eye-candy that winks at me.

If, one day I should meet a guy that really catches my eye. I don't know the first thing to do in a relationship to keep him intrigued or interested. This is really bad!

I know there’s sometimes good reason to check out photos, or IP addresses, and scammers get exposed that way and it’s a GOOD thing.

Not quite so much fun when you aren’t a scammer, just someone on social media having a bit of fun, and some vicarious social life, and you find you’re being targeted.

I have been tracked down via my LinkedIn profile to my writing profile, and considering LI is for my very sober alternate life in Finance and Accounts and boring stuff like that, that was pretty unnerving.

I have been found via Google and outed in my writing name, on a social website where I use another name.

As a joke, but as it turns out not the best-timed one, I’ve been jokingly accused of hiding even on skype.

And in the last few days I have had a random black gent popping in and out of the photos on my profile – spotted by Lukeon, photographed there by him, and still, in at least one part of the world, sitting amongst my photos. Same dude apparently occasionally flickers into sight as my main photo.

Don’t know about the rest of you, but this whole electronic Big Brother shtick is getting uncomfortable.

You could argue I have too many personal and professional personas. It’s been said before. Three Facebook pages (two for my author names) is a case in point. Fair comment. I would just be really, really grateful if I could be allowed to keep all the busy little compartments of my life ticking quietly over without anyone jumping in and spoiling it all. I hurt no-one, I don’t trap or scam or defraud anyone (that includes Her Majesty’s Revenue Commission, taxes fully paid!), and I don’t pretend to be anyone I’m not.

I even changed my CS name recently for that very reason, because I was getting to know more people and becoming uncomfortable with what was beginning to feel like a deception.

Okay?

By Ehi Ekhator

If you die today, what dreams, what ideas, what gifts, what talents, what voice, what stories will die with you?

See, a lot of people go to work everyday miserable, and all they do is talk about how miserable they are but they don't do anything about it. You know that you are deliberately operating below your potentials, you stop expanding, you stop stretching, you stop challenging yourself. It is hard living, life is hard, so most people don't use their imaginations, most people don't dream anymore. Why? Because through the conditioning process of life after so many rejections.

You know what you can do, you know what you have done and you have also seen what has been done by others in your environment, by others in your circumstances, then you look at where you want to go. What most people do, they do that which they feel they know can work because they already done, so they allow their negative history to determine their possibilities for them. So when they run into a road block, even though they have something beyond their comfort zone, when they run into a road block,something happens to them. Most people allow life to control them and their circumstances.

Look into the future, what is it that you want, what is it that you like to create for you? You want to make a dream come through, you have to stay focus. Some people rather get even than get ahead, stay focus on where you want go go.

This is not going to be it for my life, i deserve more than this. That will start making you do some stuff. Not only it is possible to have your dream but it is necessary, it is necessary that you have it, that you work on it, that you develop yourself, that you go for what is yours in the universe.

the major key to your reaching your dream, your living up to your greatness, your making your contribution to your making things happen in your life IS YOU, but you have to take personal responsibility to make it happen. You make it happen that you don't give up, that you don't take any objection or disappointment or defeat personally, that you keep on keeping on, that you don't decide that i can't make it because you don't see the light at the end of the tunnel...

Live your life with passion, with some drive, you got to remind yourself that you got powers within you, talents within you that you haven't reached for yet. So whatever dream you got, that dream, that idea that has been given to you.

There is no guarantee that because someone is now down on their kneels will never come back? who can guarantee that you can't make it, that you can't have your dream, that you can't do what you want to do? No one can do it, no one can do that.

All we need to do is to look at your dream, have you given it exactly what it needed, have you invested our potentials in it? What is holding you back? Your fears or your cowardice?

Life is yours, the future is yours.. Is either you decide to take it or leave it..Trying to go through short cut won't get you anywhere. There are keys yet to be unlocked in you, that power to move mountains, to do anything you want, you have suppressed for so long, while not do it the normal way rather than the short cut?

Be the light that shineth on people and do not allow hoodlums change your destiny, create that path, walk the walk, work the work, clear that bush path and make a comfort from nothing.

I assure you it is hard, you have tried, do you know the kind of strength you possessed when you are being chased by a tiger? You can jump a fence higher than you, something you wouldn't do when you are relaxed.





You can talk with me at ehidan@naijacenter.com

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Hi everybody...i have good mood for writting now..
Hope you not boring...

Few days im watching short movie so inspiration,tittle "GIFT" production from Singapore

That story about son and father...they have hardlife and poor.
Until son get motivation he must be succes and rich than his father,he dont want being poor.
But his father always say "Being rich is not about how much you have but how much you give" ,his father
Always care peoples unlucky than me and saving money for donation disable kids,but son still in his dream
"Being rich and succes"and he going to get his schoolarship study in other country until succes

When father have passed away son find something about his father and make change mind about his father

This movie really success make me cry because so inspiration
I like about word "Being rich is not about how much you have but how much you give" basicly being rich always about how much money we have,but not how much many we have happiness

Being rich its good but im not thinking being rich peoples more happy because many peoples rich get suicide or depresion,get drugs,get prison and many more mistakes...so being rich if you ignore your quality time with kids,family and peoples for what??

Have kids sure need money and we must pay bills everyday but not reason for ignore peoples around u right because kids not just need about money but love.
So hugs your kids,your wife or husband,your boyfriend or girlfriend or someone or peoples care of you hugs and kiss them say "i love you"

Thanx for reading

What would you do if you have been talking with someone....someone whom tells you that they love you and you love them. This same someone you have never met in real life (in person). Everything has been over the internet...for years, you have been communicating with them...they talk about how they need your financial help, and they love you and you love them...so, you send them money whenever they ask for it. You do it with a smile on your face.

What would you do if you were in that situation...only to find out...that this person you have been talking to, sharing your love with, them sharing their love with you....giving them money....giving them gifts...what would you do if you found out that you are 1 of 100's that this person has been accepting money, gifts, and love from.


This situation does exist in today's world.

Would you continue giving your hard earned money to them, given them gifts...and giving them your love?

I had read a good article, it might happen both of guys or girls and just want to share :)

So, this is an update to my first blog..

I have ended it with my then boyfriend. I was taught by the example of my parents that loving someone is putting the other person's needs before your own.

Our relationship started out that way. However as time went on, especially on the later months, it felt like he was only more interested with his own happiness, like mine didn't or shouldn't matter much. At least that's how it felt to me. I know that I didn't lack in trying to communicate it with him, clearly and frankly, yet, he'd rather not talk about it, so he ignored me. My point is, if there is an issue in the ralationship, shouldn't you both talk about it? Not avoid it? Just because it isn't an issue for you, doesn't mean that its just ok with your partner. The sad thing is, the lack of solution to certain problem keeps lurking. And instead of both of you talking it out to resolve it once and for all, it just gets set aside and builds up frustration everytime...

So, now, I'm moving on..