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I know... I am a disaster... But an ultra cute, one... Jajajajajajajaja...

Have you been in a solemn ceremony or circumstance and you just have this terrible urge to laugh?...

I have... And I swear, I start thinking of the most horrible and sad things, but most of the time, it just doesn´t work... Jajajajajajajajja...

My Mom was the kind of person that would be sitting with me and would say: "What if an orangutan just came here and sat on your lap?"... "What would you do?"...

Maybe I just inherited all that crazyness... Jajajajajajajaja...

If you and I were attending any kind of ceremony... Yes, those that are very boring and seem to last forever, chances are I would be the one making a terribly funny comment in a whisper or the one that just has the hardest time trying not to laugh...

Have this happened to you?... I sooo want to read what you have to say!...

There are many dating site complaints, but of the 'top of the list' especially from women is men don't read profiles. Guys see someone attractive and immediately respond regardless what the women say in their introduction. Nearly the same subject would be men complaining about scammers. A guy could be 70, missing teeth on his photo and told (by a 25 year old) he's handsome.

My profile opening line gives a pretty clear warning and that doesn't stop me from getting messages coming from women half my age sending contact information.
Obviously, they didn't see or don't care that I'm married.

I speculate, these things are inherent in all dating sites...

In my beginning at CS I would read some, block some. More-so now I delete without reading. I offered a suggestion to have the ability to change the mark a message had been read so it appears unread. There is one site that lets the other person know if you deleted messages unread. I like that idea a lot. Let the other person know their message was deleted --- unread.

I did/do report the ones using stolen photos, hopefully they will be gone and not linger to annoy other members.

I said I would refrain from reading, writing or commenting on strongly opinionated and political blogs.
If scanning the blog header and first sentence is enough to make me shake my head, I move on. I've seen enough complaints about the high frequency of political blogs and the high frequency of defending your right on a free site to post whatever you want.
I've experienced sites that were heavily moderated and many blogs, comments and retaliation blogs disappeared in the night.

I'm always a guest here... that's how I see it. Blogging is a privilege and NOT a right. Too bad others don't see it that way. Free or not, you shouldn't be allowed to say what you want, when you want without repercussions. Need proof? Go Tweet some racial slurs and see where that gets you. I'm sure you can find private, by invitation or subscription blog sites that you can get away with 'anything goes' attitude...
Hmmm.. a topic for a different blog.

Some sites send messages when you break the rules, some close profiles. Hopefully I won't have any experience with that here. Many of my blogs are spontaneous. I read or hear things that inspire me to write. Often I jot down blog ideas on scraps of papers... sometimes unopened bills and when I get a past due notice, I realize 20+ blog ideas are scribbled on the the back of the envelope.

Blogs on CS move quickly. There is a lot of activity and a blog that I think would get little activity, gets several pages of comments and blogs that I think would do well... don't.

But that's nothing to complain about !!

Thanks for reading my blog...

I can't find the blog I commented on last week referencing the number of guns sold in America versus the population and from raw facts it would appear each American had a gun. From experience of friends, workers and going to gun shows, I'd estimate one person had 10 guns while 9 didn't, making the tally (from a glance) look like everyone had a gun.

Okay, that thought passed. I was listening to a news report of Jeffrey Ferguson, a Superior court Judge in Orange County California had murdered his wife.

Get this: 47 weapons and more than 26,000 rounds of ammunition were recovered during a search of his home, including the pistol used in the shooting. Authorities said the weapons were legally owned. A rifle registered in his name is not accounted for.

72 year old Ferguson was arrested last week. He was released a day later on $1 million bail and set to be arraigned on September first.

That 'shoots a hole' in the statement that each American owns a gun.



A rifle registered in his name is not accounted for, according to the district attorney's office.




Where do you think he stashed the rifle?

Just a short monolog from me, don't take serious if you don't like it. I just wanna share my ideas.

People like us, why we looking for the love online?

I've been thinking so much time about it but still can't give logical answer for the question. I've had a look for some of the profiles and every single person looking for anything. Some of us looking for a friendship, a pen pal, hanging out with, and most of the people be man/woman does not matter looking for the true love.
But the question is, why on websites?
All of us live in the real world and we are not able to find the right person around us. Why? Probably we are just unlucky, we have not enough time because of our job or only we are coward, we can't trust in ourself because we afraid from the rejection or we just feel shame about our feelings. I am sure that the right person is always around us just we need to open up our eye. Otherwise the other people who is live in relationship next to us and we see day after day they are happy and enjoy every moment of the life. We still just try to figure out the success of them.
I've realized that we just need to trust ourself and need to be brave to ask for a date or only go for a simple coffee otherwise we could lose so much valuable time from our life. What we can lose? Why is better to sit front of the computer and wait for a mail or an answer which maybe never comes.
Well, guys I think what we need actually, that is only trust and courage... I know it is easy to say and a few of us maybe asking now, why you don't do it? why did you write here you opinion instead of do something?

But everybody has to find the own answer for the question. Why am i doing this????

Thanks very much the attention!

God bless guys!

I am not a native speaker so please don't laugh at me! :)

I am a 53 yr old autistic man. When I was growing up Autism was not recognized here in Canada . It wasn't until 1985 that Doctors in Canada stated that Autism was real . Still because it was new and the doctors did not know all the signs to look for I still slipped through the cracks .

Mean while I had to learn the hard way to protect my emotions from being hurt verbally and physically . I did this by building walls and keeping people as far away from myself as possible. I still kept who I was because I did not want to be anybody but myself. I did make friends but they were far between. They actually had to basically force themselves into my life and get to know me and accept me the way I was.

Out of desperation I went on dating sites and eventually found someone to marry. Because I did not at the time realize that my emotions were in control I looked away and ignored the type of person I had married. It turns out that she has to be in control all the time and if she does not get her way then she will use a tone of voice that makes me feel degraded. She also because she does not or will not accept that I do not think the same way that normal people think, holds things against me and will not have sex with me. At the age of 4 our son tested positive for Autism and has been getting help ever since. He is now 14 and he loses his temper a lot with me stating that he is going to hurt me etc........

This is why I am now on this site. I am not looking to divorce my wife I am just just trying to look for female friends here close to where I live and spend time with them away from my house and wife in private where she can not see because if she finds out living in hell would be better. Also I hope these friends would also be the type to have sex with me when we are spending time together. These friends are what you call FWB's. The reason I am looking for someone between 18 to 25 is because they would be a real blessing to me emotionally. I understand that it would have no strings attached but that still does not mean we can not be friends and also lovers.

I come from planet boom boom I come in peace

Hi Lora,

I’ve been busy with depression and reading these past few weeks. I have only managed to post short blog comments through all of that. I have been away from my reply to you longer than I originally thought I might when I sent you a quick flower in acknowledgement When depression hits me time gets lost inside my head. I have my thoughts and they clichéd battle for “dark v light,” which goes way beyond an outlook of pessimism or optimism. I tend to sleep through it, and surround myself with art that gives me positive messages.

Thank you for the very kind words about my self-expression. The saying goes there are only two voices of critique a writer must not trust: his own and his wife’s. The former voice will be too harsh and the latter will be too gentle. So yours is a welcome reliable voice to me. I only hope that my writing as a novelist will meet with your acceptance and praise as well.

I just wrote to another person today (I have not written to anyone this month) that
honesty is the best policy and I think this is the only way we, at our ages, will find the real love we deserve. It may not be the most successful if someone is counting numbers but I have only ever been concerned about meeting one. I wrote: “two minds, two lives, focused on the same questions is what I understand to be described by two halves of a whole. If life is a painting by Picasso, I need another perspective to help me grasp its meaning and to paint it.

“I am engaged in the scientific process of life, and I need my partner to be asking the same questions with her life as I am with mine.”

But I fight the feeling that such a person does not exist for me. Certainly having debilitating depression develop in my later life is unhelpful to my search. I disagree with your mom about being too open but I suggest not “settling for compromise” either. I suppose that would make us both old virgins if we followed my advice and we would not avoid the judgments on us as “sour grape spinsters” either when we’re really observing the truth. Everyone has an agenda and self-interest to protect. Few people really know how to value actual principles, and fewer still know about character, I figure. It’s a minority report on the dating scene it seems.

Or, maybe, this is just the way I see it because I was raised in a home where absolutes were a virtuous part of character and relativism was the gray area reserved for crooks, peddlers, the godless and statisticians to justify their claims? Life, my life, has turned into quite the cubist art form the longer I have lived it.

Maybe there are just some of us who are meant to be single. You can spend years thinking there's someone for everyone but really, I don't think this is logical. Personally, I work so much (literally on call 24/7) to survive that I don't have the luxury of time to go out and meet new people....besides, I don't go far enough from home to meet anyone new really. I have a very demanding job that takes up most of my time....but without it, I could very easily slip into the homeless nothing where I once was and I don't even want to go there. I have the capabilities of doing work that is high in demand with good earnings....is it worth the solitude that surrounds this lifestyle? Well, I consider the alternative and I'd have to say yes. Maybe some day, my match will be just as much of a busy bee as myself and understanding for that reason...and maybe it could work....or maybe this match will be someone with more time who's willing to teach me what it's like to live simply again....who really knows honestly....just a bit of ranting here, been a lot on my mind lately and a lot of thoughts racing. I think a little mini vacation is in order before I burn the candle at both ends.

Sorry, I haven't been around....miss y'all

As I'm not having any luck on CS finding the perfect woman , or it seems any woman for that matter I thought I would try other oprions .

A friend set me up with a blind date and it was all going well until her seeing eye dog bit my hand and pissed up my leg

Then I thought I would try speed dating
Put on my profile that I can c*m in 30 seconds .as speed dating is all about doing the job and moving on to the next ....
But no offers so far

Lastly I heard about Tinder and met up with a nice woman .after a few drinks I must have passed out because I woke up to the sound of 2 stones being banged together, being covered in a shower of sparks and a womans voice saying "burn you bastard"

Guess I didn't read the meaning of the word " Tinder "


Tinder :
dry, flammable material, such as wood or paper, used for lighting a fire.

Lucky I'm such a wet fish





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