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Getting it off your chest
There was a time that when upset by a friend, girl/boyfriend, partner etc,
we found solace in venting our troubles to our friends or family as a way of “getting it off our chest” so that we would feel better having at least told our woes to someone. For whatever reason, be it self preservation, lack of courage or whatever, we would never tell the person concerned what is disturbing us about them.
Of course we secretly hoped that what we had said to our friends or family would get back to the person in question and thus they will be made aware of what was bothering us.
These days, with the introduction of Facebook, Twitter and blogs like this one on CS, we can post what is annoying us about a person in a public forum. Not only do we get to unload our anguish and get replies, but the chances are the person to whom we are griping about will also read the post.
we found solace in venting our troubles to our friends or family as a way of “getting it off our chest” so that we would feel better having at least told our woes to someone. For whatever reason, be it self preservation, lack of courage or whatever, we would never tell the person concerned what is disturbing us about them.
Of course we secretly hoped that what we had said to our friends or family would get back to the person in question and thus they will be made aware of what was bothering us.
These days, with the introduction of Facebook, Twitter and blogs like this one on CS, we can post what is annoying us about a person in a public forum. Not only do we get to unload our anguish and get replies, but the chances are the person to whom we are griping about will also read the post.
He said
"She was in a very fragile state when she came, and she needed someone. I was there and I did not know how, I just got closer to her. I was drawn to her. I am sorry but I hope I did not make a wrong decision. I don't want to hurt you so I'm telling you this. I don't want to lie to you."
What happened was, he told me this after 2 months they were together in which he was still communicating with me about my moving to him. But he kept saying come next months for 2 months which in the end I asked him whether he still wanted me to come or not. Then he said he was not sure. Then I asked whether he met someone. Only then he told me this. After 2 months. I removed him from my FB and he begged me not as he still want to keep me in his life. I told him the last thing I want to see is their picture in my timeline. He promised not to post anything. But one day his girl post a pic of him kissing her on the cheek. 2 months and I still cried and could not sleep all night. So I removed him again, telling him I need time to heal my self and it will be easier without having to see that kind of pic. He said sorry for not being able to stop that pic to be there.
Leaving me for someone fragile, it reminded me of what my friend told me a long time ago. She said as a woman, I am too strong and independent. A man prefer someone fragile because that way they feel sorry for you and will be there for you, and can become a hero. I told her, if a man should be with me, I want him to be proud of me, not feel sorry for me. And most important is I don't want a hero, I want a partner.
When I asked what did she have that I don't, he said nothing. She did not have more, she even is less than me. Well if he left me for someone who is less than me, maybe it means I deserve someone more than him.
That's what I keep telling my self. That's what I keep telling my self.
What happened was, he told me this after 2 months they were together in which he was still communicating with me about my moving to him. But he kept saying come next months for 2 months which in the end I asked him whether he still wanted me to come or not. Then he said he was not sure. Then I asked whether he met someone. Only then he told me this. After 2 months. I removed him from my FB and he begged me not as he still want to keep me in his life. I told him the last thing I want to see is their picture in my timeline. He promised not to post anything. But one day his girl post a pic of him kissing her on the cheek. 2 months and I still cried and could not sleep all night. So I removed him again, telling him I need time to heal my self and it will be easier without having to see that kind of pic. He said sorry for not being able to stop that pic to be there.
Leaving me for someone fragile, it reminded me of what my friend told me a long time ago. She said as a woman, I am too strong and independent. A man prefer someone fragile because that way they feel sorry for you and will be there for you, and can become a hero. I told her, if a man should be with me, I want him to be proud of me, not feel sorry for me. And most important is I don't want a hero, I want a partner.
When I asked what did she have that I don't, he said nothing. She did not have more, she even is less than me. Well if he left me for someone who is less than me, maybe it means I deserve someone more than him.
That's what I keep telling my self. That's what I keep telling my self.
What Do You Think?
Is it worth being in a relationship if one person is optimistic about the future of the partnership but the other is cautiously pessimistic about the future?
online today!
Were is king?
When will I find someone to truly love me the way a woman should be love all I get is pay hurt cheated on lord I cry day an night to find some special to love me care for me an treat me like a queen it not been easy to see couple kissing going to d movie beach party ect I just feel left out an damn Valentine is coming up am all alone at home feeling left out when I see other people getting gift n kisses from there love one my heart just melt inside with grudge but I pray an talk to god an he say good things come to those who what I know he will fine me someone when the time come 
Copy Paste Emails?
Hey guys, thanks for making me happy by seeing my mail box in red color but please do not disappoint me with repeated contents, no more no less, up to 4 times (amazingly lol). Aren't you too dumb to notice something wrong in your approach, be it serious or scamming? 
Here is a gift for you
Here is a gift for you
What? I have a soft side!
It's hard when you miss people. But you know, if you miss them, it means you were lucky. It means you had someone special in your life, someone worth missing.
What you haven't had you don't miss....
...and there is the problem.
I dislike the term..Soulmate..because so many Soulmates have split up. So I don't know what you would call a relationship where you could spend 24/7 with that person. But one such person for me was with my ex back in the UK from 2008 to 2013. I could spend all day everyday with her and vice versa.
The love for her I had never experienced before ever..and although 2 years on from our split, many dates and GF later..yes I've had a few in 2 years..I cannot find a similar experience.
What I have discovered coming away from such an experience is I am a much better person,well i think so, but I am also quite numb. By that I mean as much as I enjoy time with some of these women, they are cute, sweet sexy, good sex blah blah blah. for me its easy come easy go.
And I don't like felling like that as most of these girls I end up hurting by saying good bye, which I dont like to do. Of course if you don't date, don't experience them in the ways a couple should do then of course you will not get to know them deeper.
I never compare as everyone has their different qualities. But I tend to feel sorry for some of these women as I know they want a good man in their life, and i end up feeling guilty that I can't give them what they want..of feel what I want.
You can be damaged in a bad relationships..by mine wasn't bad, but yet i feel maybe i'm damaged..
I dislike the term..Soulmate..because so many Soulmates have split up. So I don't know what you would call a relationship where you could spend 24/7 with that person. But one such person for me was with my ex back in the UK from 2008 to 2013. I could spend all day everyday with her and vice versa.
The love for her I had never experienced before ever..and although 2 years on from our split, many dates and GF later..yes I've had a few in 2 years..I cannot find a similar experience.
What I have discovered coming away from such an experience is I am a much better person,well i think so, but I am also quite numb. By that I mean as much as I enjoy time with some of these women, they are cute, sweet sexy, good sex blah blah blah. for me its easy come easy go.
And I don't like felling like that as most of these girls I end up hurting by saying good bye, which I dont like to do. Of course if you don't date, don't experience them in the ways a couple should do then of course you will not get to know them deeper.
I never compare as everyone has their different qualities. But I tend to feel sorry for some of these women as I know they want a good man in their life, and i end up feeling guilty that I can't give them what they want..of feel what I want.
You can be damaged in a bad relationships..by mine wasn't bad, but yet i feel maybe i'm damaged..
I don't understand...it is actually funny/sad??
Two of my friends....there is one man and one woman....who are both single and enjoy their singlehood and sleep around with many different people. They both share the same meme..."don't cheat."
Both of these two have been with over 30 different partners....and the woman I have heard her say that s*x is just a physical act....and the man has told me he has been already with 3 different women in one night.
...and they are advising people not to cheat by sharing that meme.
Both of these two have been with over 30 different partners....and the woman I have heard her say that s*x is just a physical act....and the man has told me he has been already with 3 different women in one night.
...and they are advising people not to cheat by sharing that meme.
How do you fall in love.
The first person who shows you some genuine interest....does that do it?
The first person that says they will pull their pants down and let you do them...does that do it?
The first person that tells you that they love you...does that do it?
The first person to talk to you....does that do it?
The first person that touches you anywhere on your body...does that do it?
Yes?
No?
Then how?
The first person that says they will pull their pants down and let you do them...does that do it?
The first person that tells you that they love you...does that do it?
The first person to talk to you....does that do it?
The first person that touches you anywhere on your body...does that do it?
Yes?
No?
Then how?
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