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What a disaster my Valentine date turned out to be. I met him last Saturday at the Laundromat. I have seen him many times before but this was the first time we spoke. He seemed kind enough and we had a good conversation while we waited for our laundry to be done. My son was using my car and he was supposed to fetch me but he did not show up and the kind man offered me a ride home. He was not a complete stranger and I felt obliged to invite him for tea. During that time a friend phoned and asked if I want to go with them to the beach the next day. He said it’s okay to bring a friend along. I asked my new beau if he wished to accompany me. He agreed and left shortly afterwards. He arrived promptly on time the next day and we travelled in his car to my friend's place where we all piled in my friend's car and off to the beach we went. The day went fine but I caught his eyes on my boobs too often. My friend's girlfriend also got more than her share of gawking. The two of them only had eyes for each other and did not notice it. Otherwise the day went in a pleasant way and we had sundowners at my friend's place before we went home. He walked me to my door like a gentleman end squeezed in a kiss on my lips, which I allowed if only to thank him for the day.

I did not hear from him until Wednesday morning when he asked me to be his date that night. I don’t like him that much, he did not have a table booked and I did not think that Valentine is a suitable event for a first date; therefore I declined. Cattie told me to rethink it and I called my beau to set up the date. He must have phoned around because by late afternoon he managed to secure a table for two because of a late cancellation. Ten out of ten for that. Sadly the greatness ended there.

He did not have petrol in his car. No problem, we can use mine. I planned to pay half the bill and made sure I took enough with me. He undressed every woman in the place with his eyes, flirted with the waitress and all he could talk about was his ex-girlfriends. He said that he did not like the guy whom we went to the beach with though his girlfriend was ok. I told him that he should have spoken earlier; we could have swapped partners. Cattie would have obliged but this a**hole did not know that. When the bill arrived he discretely told me that he was R50 short. I ordered very conservatively and my share of the bill was much less than his share but I gave him half the money and left a tip on the table. The poor girl gave us good service in spite of the unwanted advances he made towards her. He had the guts to tell me that it was not needed as her service was ‘not up to standard’.

When I delivered him at his home, matie wanted to come home with me to ‘chill a bit more on such a romantic evening'. Is the man crazy to believe that he was going to get a Valentine’s nookie after a disappointing evening? Not that he would have gotten something otherwise. It was not on the agenda.

This is a dating site?...Yeah,a real dead one..I'm decent looking,artistic,smart,and have my own house,job,car..etc etc and not one reply?..WTF?

Iam addicted to the WVM list. I always open and take a look on the pictures and profile of people who viewed my profile. And lo and behold, I've found my soulmate, my destiny, my love. Oh, I feel so lucky I've got the urge to change my username to dreamcatcher 2. I, too want to catch a dream. Miss Mimi, hope you'll understand the feeling of somebody who has found somebody to love and to hold. And why did I know that he is the One? I urge you to read the profile of joewee112112 and compare it to mine and you'll understand why Iam so exalted.

I've been wondering if age its so important in a relationship. I think feelings have nothing to do with age because love grows when you see someone despite its look.
Is that idea too silly?

Today the female director of department of natural resources and environment asked me "why are you still single while you are very beautiful and smart?" Haha. Thank you sis for your complimentary question

And she came up with 1 assumption that it is because of my job, executive assistant that people often think there is something discrete between boss and secretary as they travel with each other a lot and men don't want to have a wife with that "sensitive" job. She advised me to work for the provincial people's committee or teach English so it is easy to get married lol.

I hate government, and not really into teaching either. Sometimes i hate being with people. Sometimes i m scared of people and just want to be a gardener, just connect to nature, not social world. I dont care what people think. I love assisting and learning from great people with great mind and heart. Unfortunately, these people are quite the minority and often suffer from being good...

I'm looking for a nice guy, but they have a preference? Having a long qualification list of what a guy needs to have personality wise, economic wise, looks wise. Every woman, it's God-fearing, but they still have that preference, where in the bible does it state that a man has to look a certain way, for you to build something with that man? Example: Ted Bundy was loved by the ladies, but he was One of the most prolific psychopaths. They gave him trust and undivided attention. They were blinded by his looks and charisma. You would rather spend the rest of your life with an undercover unrighteous mad man, because he's a trophy you can show around, then to be a righteous man, That can treat you in a Respectful and Supportive Manner, together you can build the tower of love. Stop using the scriptures to support your whoredom, Use sex books quotes or R&B singers lyrics as your reference. Honesty, it's the key, I rather have the truth that hurts, then a lie that can lead me into massive confusion. You have this “I don't have to settle for less” mentality “I like what I like “ Mentality. This is why seventy percent of women, have no husbands and are jumping from men to men trying to fill that void. The void is made up of the empty, lonely feelings that stem from holes in our heart and soul. All of you have come to a point where you think there is something lacking in your life and you cannot define it. There are many men out there who have only one goal in mind to find a woman who will complete them. I actually read the introduction of many women here, they all seem to either think alike or they copy each other's information to portray an image. Yes we do have a category of female scammers and men, who make female accounts to scam men, which shows me you have a sodomite spirit. To the women who are looking for a gentleman, keep your head up. You will find him, or he will find you, when you least expected.

I have been on CS for close to 10 years and have always wondered, how many persons will find their life partner on this site.Men and women have profiles put up on this site. Of course, there can be fake too, but fake profiles will not travel much distance as far as response is concerned.
Out of men and women, it is the women's profile that is failing to find a life partner. Men are very interested in women, but the women just does not believe the men.
Its a fact, for a woman to find a man is very easy, because a woman is very choosy in selecting her man. She wants in a man all the qualities of a King. This is not possible, because no one is perfect in the world and has some limits to his/her personality. Besides this, a woman sets a tough task for a man, like telling him whether he can come to a foreign country where she lives.
But foreign girls are better than Indian girls in their mental make up and they enjoy life to the full. They are also well organized in their thoughts, manners and etiquette.Of course, divorces are dime a dozen in the foreign countries, but both the demands of the partners are too much to handle.

I have seen profiles of many Indian women on this site for many years and they have not yet found their life partners. Why is it so? Because Indian women by tradition are weak and not strong for discussion with their husbands.Besides, if children are there, there is more problem.
I would suggest an Indian woman would tighten her seat belt and quickly decide,what type of a man she wants in life. They can narrow their limits of wants and then decide.
Manohar Bhatia.

The thing is... if you still think, is it really love?

Am trying to locate my first true love who i lost contact with .she at thw time lived in amesbury avenue sefton nsw.her job at the time was as as a telephonist in the old pmg at martin place sydney.her best friends husband was a prison guard.this would havw been around 1985 can

.the last i heard she married a chap who i think might have been in the real estate business .can anyone help mw thanks