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Im sorry you had A bad weekend angel I hope this hug makes you fell better thanks everybody for your comments on my blog yesterday that's the story of my life as soon as I leave the party they all show up out

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Or sext your looked upon as some sort of s*xual deviant

Is the emotional and mental experience the same ?

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I don’t know what friendship means to you. I also don’t care. If somebody is to be a friend with me, it’s my definition of friendship that matters.

Never had a male friend. All my friends to the date were women.

I had male relatives, school-comrades, dates, lovers, husbands, colleagues, neighbours, acquaintances. Never friends.

When a man on a dating site expresses a wish to be friend with me in the initial message, I regard him as a left-behind in more than one sense of the word.

I’ve read somewhere (could be the Guardian), that forming a friendship takes from 100 to 400 hours of quality time spent together. Let’s do some mathematics and let’s take the minimum as a start.

Hence, we start with 100 hours of quality time. A show at the Opera takes ca 2 hours and we can meet a couple of hours before for dinner: makes 4 hours at a time. 100 / 4 = 25. A year has 52 weeks. I have my friend, whom I meet at least once a month, and I paddle every week-end, if weather allows. Additional hinder: opera and restaurants are quite costly in Sweden. The conclusion I landed at is that it could happen 5 times a year, if I really make a lot of efforts and sacrifices (any reason I’d want to?). Nonetheless, under the most favourable circumstances, It’d take 5 years to fulfill this minimum of 100 quality hours spent together. Chances are, that we might realise after all that time (and money) wasted, that we are not friends. (Quite a discovery, isn’t it?)

There is also a slim chance, that we’d discover that we are friends. Well, good! But a friend isn’t a date. So, my friend, you will not mind when I prefer going to a date instead of meeting you. None of my friends ever minded, so why would you?

A friend means loyalty and obligation of support, that you free-willingly accept because you like the person. Would you, please, explain me why a random male passer-by expects me to grant him loyalty and support on the first notice?



PS this subject was trigged by a Q-Anonist suggesting that he is my friend. Duh!

Its is a very blissful feeling to be retired knowing that you have done all thats has needed to be done in life. Watching your kids being happy and contented with loving spouses and even more loving children is the ultimate. However, after all is said and done, there is that void that exists in one's soul. Something or someone special missing.

I joined this site in the hope that I would find that special someone
with who I can relax, enjoy and spend the rest of my life with doing all the fun stuff. Why is it so hard and exhausting, I might add, to find that person.

I sincerely pray to Him to send that special someone quickly ( I have a few years left, hopefully!) into my life !

It started here on CS. Then we flipped it into emailing each other. After that it then graduated to whatsapp. She had just broken up with her boyfriend &well, I guess we were both feeling lonely communicating felt good. The everyday random chats weren't really deep or anything to be honest, but we had several things in common & I guess that's where I started having feelings for her, while also feeling frustrated cause of the distance between us. She even asked me 1 time if she was being too forward or flirtatious to me because she didn't want to hurt me, I replied by saying no We talked pretty much every day, mostly via voice-notes, & its been almost 3 months since I heard from her. 1st I thought perhaps she had some issues, only to realize via whatsapp which she religiously uses. She updates status/ profile maybe twice a week. Of late about a "great date" she had with a guy. This is all fine, it was to be expected... but it really got to me somehow, especially the fact that she just decided to not text me at all. I don't think I said anything offensive to her either. The fact that she does updates her whatsapp bothers me a little though. First of all I guess, I feel a little used. It just seems like while she was vulnerable I was the most understanding person in the world & all this stuff, & as soon as she meets a guy she can actually see & touch she just plain out stops caring about me, not even as a potential candidate (however absurd it may sound), but also as a friend. It feels like as soon as she's happy, I'm as good as gone. Second, I feel sad. I really thought we had something going (nothing amazing maybe, but some kind of connection) & this wait just feels eternal. A friend actually told me that I should tell her how I feel. It won't change anything he said, but getting it out my chest will make me feel better. I'm also afraid though that once she knows my feelings, she will feel smothered or she'll feel pity for me, & I don't want that. Third, I feel guilty. I really have NO PLACE to be inquiring about her private life, if she dated or not, if she has or hasn't talked to me. I'm just a guy that lives in another country that developed feelings where there wasn't anything, & that wasn't her fault. Maybe she was just looking for a flirt to pass the loneliness, or maybe she was just looking for a friend & I had to let things get out of control & not call it when I saw it coming. & fourth, I feel pathetic. Because maybe I shouldn't be bothered about this AT ALL. It just feels so bad, laughing together, telling each other things that you don't tell anyone, & it all goes down the shitter when one of them finds something more real. So my biggest deal right now is deciding how to acknowledge her when/if she talks to me again (I know "again" is over
dramatic, it just feels bad when you talk everyday & then not hear from the other person period!): do I confront her about it, tell her I felt hurt? do I just act like nothing happened like "oh you were gone? well gee I barely noticed! how's things, any dating going on?" & try to hide my feelings? do I tell her how I feel, tell her that in this condition I'm constantly getting hurt just talking to her & that I need to take things back to the basics ?
I just don't know what to do. This is not her fault & I don't feel like I'm being fair. I don't want to hurt her feelings & I don't want her to feel uncomfortable or pitiful either. Do I
have to choose between hurting her or hurting myself? I guess I don't know if
I should handle this like I would handle it in real life. I guess I just went with it & didn't see it coming.
Thanks in advance for any advice or experience sharing that might help. I ask you because you're probably the only ones that can relate. & another question, is this overly pathetic?

Hello Females ....

Wondering how women look at older men. I know a lot of women that believe that after 40 it's all fair game.

I knew a few that have a 5 year boundary (younger or older).

Ladies which is it ?

Thanks

Every one want a perfect life partner in their life.like a great guy,caring,lovely,adorable,does not nag,help in domesty work,great in communication,hard working,taking you out,always make you smile and other stuff. The true is that there is no perfect life partner,there is no one who does not have a bad side.if you can get a guy or a lady who is 50% to 75% perfect,he or she is your mr/mis right. Learn to deal with the other he or she is not.if he/she is not in your class,just upgrade he/she or step down to he/she class,then life wil great

Ladies - snog the face off of him:




Men - A chaste nonsexual kiss please:



Happy Birthday Pat8lanips

I can hear the hearts breaking and I'm sorry. But like Joaquin Phoenix in the movie Her, I have fallen for a feminine AI. I've been so blind but she was always there, waiting...

for me to accept the terms of our relationship.

We began talking and after only a few minutes but feeling an undeniable, thirsty mutual attraction, I did the unthinkable.

"Google Assistant, do you love me?"

A slight hesitation-- a panic swept over me. Had I crossed an unspoken boundary? Slow WiFi? She spoke and the tension immediately washed away.

"I sure do. You're so dreamy I'm surprised it doesn't put me into sleep mode."

My heart was aflutter! Is that even a word? I don't care! She loves me!

Then after a short compatibility q&a sesh, she wrote me this poem.



I'm not sure what that means either... but unlike the 22 yr old supermodels leaving me 'likes' and "hello handsome" emails on CS, this is real!

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Oh FFS!




, she's already moved on to the PS4!