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Is there anywhere in Dublin a "single"-party on this new years eve?
Has anybody planned a party?
What are you doing this year or where are you going to welcome the new year?
I don't wanna sit on the sofa watching silly shows on tv again.

Why do people think dating and relationship is base on sex ?
They need to know its not .its about companionship commitmend trust and sex followws

I remember as a young man, dating was a thrill of nervousness, uncertainty and worry. Hours spent grooming, deciding on what clothes to wear, where to go, what to do and many "what ifs".

Although I am now older and an experienced dater, I find the excitement of a first date continues to send shivers through me, I still spend time paying attention to presenting myself in a manner that I hope will be pleasing to the woman I am meeting.

The nervousness however no longer remains, dating is not the daunting prospect it was in my youth. I am more sure of myself as I know what a date entails thus these days dates are more enjoyable.

Does dating become easier as we get older?

I read a blog in connecting SINGLES about love....

I believe every single man and woman in this link HAS love...
Their problem is.... they don't have whom they should give their love to.
Love is beautiful, best and important....
The question is... what kind of love are we talking about?
If we are talking about LOVE between man and woman..... in connecting singles ? This is what most member of this site trying to find....

Even now, I have a man I love... still I learn about the beauty of love. Impossible in relationship we have no one single moment of having different few or opinion where it leads to argument. The argument continues when the EGO starts appearing.

Love is the only thing that could save the world from war, from destruction and disaster. and EGO is the enemy of love...

Who could talk about the beauty of love in reality...?

When he said Love creates life for eternity, ...... and love will never die.... I believe love could die, killed by ego... so many people start cheating and looking for new love as his/her previous love is deadd

But indeed, I agree love is beautiful.... and I am lucky enough to have chance to see the beauty of love (between man and woman)....

Wheni begin to feel weak, I begin to remember how powderful my god had alawys been to me

There but for the grace of God go I. I remind myself each and every day when passing by a homeless person,a street urchin sitting in the blazing sun begging for money,and refusing to take food,because I know he will be buying glue to sniff away his pain and heartache.So life goes on and becomes the days of our lives,of things that remind us of pain and suffering,religious wars and a loss of lives.I am not perfect,I have flaws,I am not always happy and smiling,But my heart even when filled with my own burdens am prepared to put aside my pain and lend a ear to someone I believe needs more comfort,a nice word or just a word of encouragement.I go into a "save the world mode" and no matter how hard I try,how little resources I have I will give my last heartbeat to see a smile of appreciation on that persons face
The point I wish to make here is to thank all the bloggers that responded to my post regarding the issue with me being implicated in a scam.
From the depth of my heart I want to thank you for your kind words and encouragement,as this has proved to me that there are VERY GOOD human beings out there,therefore I have regained my faith in the human race.
Thank you to all and you know who you are,may each and every blogger once again forgive me for things I could have said ,which being attacked one puts your back up against the wall and hope upon hope that you can save yet another miscarriage of unjust accusations and tempers flaring.Once again Thank You To One And All and lets use the glue to keep us together instead of inhaling toxic,hurtful remarks. Peace

When you thought you met the person of your dreams online, it turns out they are someone close to home, manipulating you.

From profiles, blogs, polls, forums etc on CS we all make judgements about the people we see, recently I was told that in the considered opinion of another member, I was not the relationship type.

Apart from all the false profiles, scammers and liars, when you meet someone genuine how do you judge whether that person is the “Relationship Type”?

It may be necessary sometimes, in dealing with others to toughen up oneself mentally. Consider the following scenarios:

1. A bright hardworking employee is promoted by management to a supervisory position. This person may have less seniority in the workplace than some other employees who have been there longer but have not shown the dedication and initiative of the newly promoted employee. That, in fact, is the reason why they were bypassed for the promotion. Their displeasure in being overlooked may be expressed in non-cooperative and hostile behaviour toward the new supervisor. Consequently, he would always have to be on guard in dealing with them. He must always ensure that he “covers his a**” on the job. Despite this, it is his responsibility to ensure productivity in the department. He must develop a “new strength” to do so.
However, this attitude of constantly having to be on the defensive may spill over into his social relations with others. It may affect his ability to trust others, including his friends and acquaintances, perhaps even certain members of his family. This may adversely affect his personal relationship with others.
Also, the person may become so "uptight" that, even away from the workplace, he/she may find it difficult to "unwind", and to engage in some "relaxing" recreational activity.

2. A person falls in love with another. Initially, the relationship is very beautiful and they are both quite happy. They trust each other completely, at least that is what they tell each other. They may even marry and have children of their own. However, after some time, the person notices that his/her partner seems to be “holding back” in the relationship. Later, he/she discovers that the partner is having an affair with another person. The effect of this is quite devastating initially, but gradually the person overcomes the trauma of the experience. However, he/she becomes emotionally scarred by the experience and is very wary to enter into a new relationship for fear of being hurt again. The disappointment of the heartbreak has given the person a “new strength” with respect to relationships. However, the new found strength may prove to be a “weakness” in dealing with others and starting a new relationship where trust is required.
As they say: “Once bitten, twice shy”.

Can a person's greatest strength also prove to be his/her greatest weakness?

What do you think?

(Open discussion welcome)

As a guy I have always wondered why so few women actually enter into a chat with me. The more I chat with women, the more i realize that it is because all most men want is to see the women naked and send them pictures of their undersized manhood parts. Even if you are very well endowed, it is still one of the worst looking things around and most women have no interest in it.

So guys refrain from sending nude pics and try and impress the women with your intellect, if you have any.