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If you are real, can keep a conversation going, sincere, does not hide, nor hide secrets, are truly honest, I would love to hear from you. If you live in the state of Washington, even better. I am fairly new to this state and would enjoy the company of someone sincere. Are you the one?
Even if a relationship of love doesn't take place, friendship will happen, and that is acceptable.

Do you have the same outlook as I? What is your opinion of my blog?
Looking forward to hearing honesty.

I wrote and posted the following piece on Poetry Corner on Jan 7, 2016:

Love Is A Decision
(Author: socrates44)

Love is not based on a feeling only
There must also be a clear decision
Passionate feelings may die off early
Showing it was just infatuation

One should not need another as a crutch
But be able to stand on one's feet
This will allow each other space as such
And enrichen the sharing when both meet

A love relationship has its demands
It does not ensure smooth sailing always
Be mindful of this in each circumstance
And it will help you survive the rough days

The one that you love should be your best friend
Someone with whom you can share everything
A person upon whom you can depend
In situations that can be trying

As time passes, both of you will change
For change is inevitable in life
Do not consider this as something strange
Learn to adjust and avoid any strife

True love is the most precious emotion
That a person can engage in sharing
It fills the heart with blissful elation
Giving one's life a rich sense of meaning
~ ~ ~ ~ ~
Posted: Jan 7, 2016

About this poem:

"Love is a decision, it is a judgement, it is a promise. If love were only a feeling, there would be no basis for the promise to love each other forever. A feeling comes and it may go. How can I judge that it will stay forever, when my act does not involve judgement and decision."

- Erich Fromm - (The Art of Loving)


"But let there be spaces in your togetherness. And let the winds of the heavens dance between you. Love one another, but make not a bond of love: Let it rather be a moving sea between the shores of your souls.

And stand together yet not too near together: For the pillars of the temple stand apart, And the oak tree and the cypress grow not in each other’s shadow."

Kahlil Gibran – (The Prophet)

It's over now!

wish every piece of me was frozen to be free of feelings.

Didn't anticipate his touching, his presence in my life might be such hurtful when it is over.

Now i m scared of everything, especially feelings and hopes.

Should all these tears be enough to exhaust this burning heart, pain would not have reached me this deep

Is it because Im too far? Is it because Im not in USA? or is it because???
Any ideas...
Have a nice weekend you all

Now this isn't a "Oh poor me" pity party kinda thing; I simply want advice. I'm 20 and live in Muskegon Michigan. I'm disabled; I've got what's called Cerebral Palsy which basically means that I can't walk nor talk. But otherwise I'm mentally normal; I can have kids and all that. My problem is; guys either just want sex or they can't accept my disability. Any advice?

...so I got talking to a Greek 41 yr old civil engineer in Qatar.

Othrodox Christian...

She is obviously educated..but believes in angels and magic...

It still bewilders me that people of a higher education believes in such shit...I said do you believe in unicorns to.?

Her reply..whats a unicorn...I dispair...

what do you think of my new look...?

Good Morning Lovely ladies & gents

I was having a conversation the other evening with a very nice gentlemanly rogue lol, a conversation came up about needy females, I would describe myself as strong & independent, but here's my question.

Gents - what attracts you, needy ladies who cant cook/clean/cut the grass etc or an independent woman who can cook/cleans/does diy etc

ladies - what attracts you, a guy who cant cook/clean cut the grass etc or a guy who is independent who can cook/clean/does diy etc

Sometimes i wonder if people are here for dating or just for the hell of it.
I haven't been here for a while but it seems nothing much has changed when it comes to why people are here.
The next question i have is, why are africans especially interested in only how to get money?
there are so many different kinds of people here but its only africans who has asked fo money, and doesn't seem to care really how they get it.

Is that a new way of saying "I'm"?

I'm not native and I really want to know whether "Am" is the new "I'm".

It tickles me when a guy writes "Am", it's like an alarm that he's a scammer but recently lots of guys do that, so honestly, am confused :D

Oop! I bumped into the CEO of a biggest regional company. now i know why he is so difficult and haughty but he has not told me yet about his position.

I hate this. why can't I meet an ordinary man. i don't need a successful businessman who is always busy and followed by many pretty women. he belongs to customers and work, not family...but i m attracted to him before i knew his work and now what should i do?

I ran away last time when i hit another big guy. should I not waste time again?

If only i were busier so that i wouldn't have idle time to ponder over things that i can't find the answers for myself like this

need to calm down and take it easy but still i let it bother my mind much even though i know time is the best answer. take a deep breath, what has to come will come