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Does one need to have emotions for a person in order to have a relationship?

He said, "I have gift for you. Please close your eyes and listen to it. I really mean it in every word it says!". So I listened to it with my eyes closed.... and the song started :


What would I do without your smart mouth
Drawing me in, and you kicking me out
Got my head spinning, no kidding, I can't pin you down

What's going on in that beautiful mind
I am your magical mystery ride
And I'm so dizzy, don't know what hit me, but I'll be alright

*** My head under water but I am breathing fine
You're crazy and I'm out of mind

**** 'Cause all of me loves all of you
Loves your curves and all your edges
All your perfect imperfections
Gives your all to me I'll give me all to you
You're my end and my beginning
Even when I lose I'm winning

+++ 'Cause I give all of me
and you give me all of you, oh

How many times do I have to tell you
Even when you're crying you're beautiful too
The world is beating you down, I'm around through every mood
You're my down fall, you're my muse
My worst distraction, my rhythm and blues
I can't stop singing, it's ringing, in my head for you

(back to ***)

Give me all of you
Cards on the table, we're both showing hearts
Risking it all, though it's hard

(back to ****, 2x +++)

--------------------------------------------> John Legend : All of me !


I met a man, who is 7 years younger than me, from him I learn what is love mean, even it is virtual love, but love is love. He shows me how to appreciate time for such long distance relationship like we have. we never be in rush to exchange our email or phone and prefer to always meet chatting in regular time every single day. We only know that having someone to share things in love atmosphere even only our thought is great.

To me he said, long distance relationship is very fragile. Pausing communication even only 2 days would drawn the feeling. Letting me knowing what he is doing is important for him to let me knows his activity, allowing me simply I am with him even only in his and my mind.

To him I said, always have a positive thinking to each other and do not ruin our feeling with prejudice and bias. When we doubts of something, we better ask and cross check whether it is right or wrong.

I know what time he wakes up...
I know what time he leaves the house to his office...
Our line is on during we work... he talks to me and telling me what is going on or ask my opinion for certain stuff and I do the same...
We have lunch together in mind...
Sometime, we create the scene where I visit his office and we make love there... or have lunch together outside in the place we both know.
I take the initiative to have a break after lunch to run our daily real life and meet again before bed time.

One thing we both know that we should free ourselves from excessive expectation toward each other. Take one day after the other and never questioning where this relationship will take us to what kind of ending...

I love so much the way he describes things. He loves so much the way I explain things. We both speak the same wave of language. I do really spare time to read and know better his interests and so does he. When I told him that I love lily flower, he bought the flower and learn its smell and putting in his mind that lily now is his flower too.

Yeaah....

Love doesn't ask why.
It speak from the heart and never explain
Don't you know that love doesn't think twice
it comes all at once or whisper from the distance
Don't ask me if this feeling is right or wrong
It doesn't have to make much sense, it just has to be this strong

I been on this site about two years and i t seems it dosent
Really works .so can tell me if this site works for them
Cause if it does work i wanna know if i should stick around or quit

Ok this has been on my mind for awhile. How can you like someone's profile an expect them to like you back when your's is not able to be seen? To me that is a big red flag, to me it means you could be a scammer. I would like any feed back or thoughts.

I'm living in west san Fernando valley. Seeking to find a Serious Senior Woman that shares her rent space for me to consider. email me if you found my profile and you live in Los Angeles only. Not wanting any out of state responses. Email; modelsrep@yahoo.com

So guy any suggestions?

A friend once told me that whenever he tried to go hunting so to speak, he would always meet the wrong candidate or none at all.
But when he did not hunt then it was the opposite situation.

So what to do ?

What a disaster my Valentine date turned out to be. I met him last Saturday at the Laundromat. I have seen him many times before but this was the first time we spoke. He seemed kind enough and we had a good conversation while we waited for our laundry to be done. My son was using my car and he was supposed to fetch me but he did not show up and the kind man offered me a ride home. He was not a complete stranger and I felt obliged to invite him for tea. During that time a friend phoned and asked if I want to go with them to the beach the next day. He said it’s okay to bring a friend along. I asked my new beau if he wished to accompany me. He agreed and left shortly afterwards. He arrived promptly on time the next day and we travelled in his car to my friend's place where we all piled in my friend's car and off to the beach we went. The day went fine but I caught his eyes on my boobs too often. My friend's girlfriend also got more than her share of gawking. The two of them only had eyes for each other and did not notice it. Otherwise the day went in a pleasant way and we had sundowners at my friend's place before we went home. He walked me to my door like a gentleman end squeezed in a kiss on my lips, which I allowed if only to thank him for the day.

I did not hear from him until Wednesday morning when he asked me to be his date that night. I don’t like him that much, he did not have a table booked and I did not think that Valentine is a suitable event for a first date; therefore I declined. Cattie told me to rethink it and I called my beau to set up the date. He must have phoned around because by late afternoon he managed to secure a table for two because of a late cancellation. Ten out of ten for that. Sadly the greatness ended there.

He did not have petrol in his car. No problem, we can use mine. I planned to pay half the bill and made sure I took enough with me. He undressed every woman in the place with his eyes, flirted with the waitress and all he could talk about was his ex-girlfriends. He said that he did not like the guy whom we went to the beach with though his girlfriend was ok. I told him that he should have spoken earlier; we could have swapped partners. Cattie would have obliged but this a**hole did not know that. When the bill arrived he discretely told me that he was R50 short. I ordered very conservatively and my share of the bill was much less than his share but I gave him half the money and left a tip on the table. The poor girl gave us good service in spite of the unwanted advances he made towards her. He had the guts to tell me that it was not needed as her service was ‘not up to standard’.

When I delivered him at his home, matie wanted to come home with me to ‘chill a bit more on such a romantic evening'. Is the man crazy to believe that he was going to get a Valentine’s nookie after a disappointing evening? Not that he would have gotten something otherwise. It was not on the agenda.

Hope everyone wish me well on this my wedding day

The colors and choss

one year ago I post a blog about a guy who email me about a relationship . I just re-read it and realize that one old fort woman reply to my blog mocking me, saying i cant spell . only because i forget a word to complete my sentence.




old fort woman your time is over go dig your self a hole..


if you don't in it already..




she knew her self.




anyway old woman i think you are funny ...lol.. am laughing too even though it is about me.