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Am trying to locate my first true love who i lost contact with .she at thw time lived in amesbury avenue sefton nsw.her job at the time was as as a telephonist in the old pmg at martin place sydney.her best friends husband was a prison guard.this would havw been around 1985 can

.the last i heard she married a chap who i think might have been in the real estate business .can anyone help mw thanks

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Had to share this article... this applies to both men and women.

He/she loves me... he/she loves me not

6-WARNINGS: He's Just Not Into You

1. He talks about his ex frequently. It's fine to bring up the ex once in a while under very neutral contexts, e.g., "My ex has the kids this week." But talking incessantly about prior relationships is tacky and might also imply that there are still some unresolved issues lingering in his head, whether it's rage, resentment or doubt. This rule applies to you too. Do not mention your previous love life and its contents, including: pet names, restraining orders or p*nis size.

Relationship therapist Dr. Turndorf suggests, if he mentions the ex and it bothers you, speak up and say something: "The effective way of handling this is to ask him if he knows how he feels when he brings up the subject of his ex? Does he feel hurt? Does he feel angry?" If his problems persist, keep in mind that you don't have to.

2. He tells you he's not ready for a relationship. I can't believe how many times I've heard women dismiss this statement and continue pursuing unavailable men. These guys will flat out tell you that they don't want to commit to you, but here you are, baking them cookies, enjoying naked sleepovers and gushing to all your girlfriends about what a catch he is. Because, "once he sees how great you are, he will surely commit.

If this is you, please find someone to slap you back into reality. The truth is-- he doesn't want a relationship (it's the same as not being ready for one), even with someone as delightful and wonderful as you. And you shouldn't waste your time trying to convince him otherwise, because his mind is already set.

3. He wants to get into a relationship immediately. Refusing to commit to you is not a good thing, but neither is moving into a relationship at lightning speed. Relax, you aren't Benjamin Button-- you don't have five minutes to fall in love and have babies. If your man tells you he loves you or wants to commit to you during or shortly after the first date, something is up. (Unless of course, you do too, and it's love at first sight for both of you).

4. He still hasn't asked you out. This should be a given, but I can't tell you how many times I've heard people texting or g-chatting for months and months before any attempt at physical contact is made. If you're seeking mild flirtation or a virtual relationship, texting is fine-but if you want something more, then he needs to make a move in real life. If you're at a point where you don't want to wait anymore, stop waiting. You shouldn't have to force someone to ask you out.

5. He doesn't let you go near his phone. This is also a given, in my opinion. But I have firsthand witnessed relationships in which phones are private property, locked and guarded with military-like defense systems. If your partner has issues about letting you see his phone, then chances are, he's hiding something sketchy. The mere fact that he turns all Charlie Sheen on you the moment you go near it should be a big clue. I'm not saying that couples need to share passwords or answer each other's phones, but you shouldn't ever feel like he's keeping something important from you either. If you feel weird about something, tell him. Maybe he's got a great excuse, like he's in the CIA or running from the mob. It's way better than finding those naked pictures of his ex later on.

6. He doesn't give you butterflies. He may have a great career, a nice apartment with hardwood floors, a humanitarian heart and killer abs, but if he doesn't make your heart all warm and fuzzy, he's not it.

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Source:Psychology Today

http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/valley-girl-brain/201109/6-signs-hes-just-not-you

Connecting Single is a place for people who has marital status "Single" or invisible single. This is one common thing that make everybody feel homy being here.

As an international platform of communication, the members of CS are coming from all over the world. The story of west meets east of north meets south is something normal among people here.

LDR or Long Term Relationship is a familiar relationship that most of people have except those who bump to each other in the same town.

I wrote a blog before about "Being Single is not a destiny but a choice", one of the comments inspired me to write this blog...

My opinion said:

Long Term Relationship is like an enterprise where you put your capital in it. You spend money, time and energy to build the enterprise of feelings between two people. Some people spend soon much money, time and energy but end up with fear to really establish the enterprise to public, some do in contrary.

Will you be curious to know whether you have invested or wasted the money, energy and time that you put on this enterprise? and what would you do you find the answer of the question?

I believe every one has their own view of this situation....

So after a year having a long distance relationship, he asked for a break. It was late October, after 4 months not seeing each other, he asked me to meet him. I was excited, soo happy because I miss him so much. I held his hands all the way from the airport to our hotel. After some moment, he said long distance did not suit us. He wanted to spend time with a person, not a phone. I was shocked, but too pride to say no. So I said yes, I agree with everything he said and glad we could end it in a mature way.

It was almost 2 months ago but I still cry sometimes. I was the one saying I don't believe in long distance relationship, but he convinced me to try. He said we could do it, he will send whatsapp all day, skype everyday. We did. So I think it was not the distance, maybe it's just time to be over.

Have any of you deal with long distance relationship? Mind sharing how long is last, what is the obstacle, and how you deal with it. I need to understand, not to fix what has been broken, but to not doing the same mistake in the future.

Thank you, may you all have a great weekend.

My last blog one reply said he wondered if the guy I pulled wrote a blog of his own saying he was about to get lucky

Guys here dont do that much. Guys here dont gang up on women on blogs and post pics of sex toys and get graffic about what they would do to female bloggers.

Girls do. Why? Because we dont mean it and they would or what

Guys,

To catch those scammers, you can tell them to do camera .... face to face with them. If they do not want, then you need to tell him / her " good bye " .... which they are very much scammers. This is my trick ....

Come on now! You can do better than that. You have met this gorgeous piece of female flesh at some convention, exhibition or whatever. You know nothing about each other – other than your names but you do know that there is a flicker of interest from her side. And here you are, seated with her in the cafeteria enjoying a cup of coffee or whatever and you need to break that initial awkward silence.

Talking about work will not be a good idea. She may not like her job or she may be out of a job at the time. You should rather hope that the conversation will take off so well that it will drift back to work by itself later; or even better, at a next meeting.

You want to know everything about her but you cannot keep peppering her with questions as it may leave the impression that you are inquisitive. Most of all, you want to know if she is single, but you’re not going to ask that. Get her to talk about herself. So avoid questions that can be answered with a simple ‘yes' or a ‘no’. You have to drag her out to volunteer as much as possible about herself.

Avoid talking about things that could be embarrassing to her. Don’t delve into her past, her academic qualifications, etc though her childhood is ok – that is if she wants to talk about it.

So what do you ask? Well, you can try asking her what she enjoys doing in her spare time. If you’re lucky she won’t stop talking. And now there are so many questions you can ask with safety. Like what is her favorite evening out, her favorite food or favorite movie, or just about everything. The big thing is to pay attention to what she says and to answer her questions honestly when she starts asking.

Well then Romeo, if she is still not in a hurry by the time the second coffees arrive, you’re set; it will be safe to ask for her phone number. If there was somebody important in her life, she would have worked him into the conversation by then.

But ladies, this is not just for men. Some men are very clumsy with words and need some encouragement. Nothing prevents you ladies from taking the initiative. This is the 21st century and on top of it, next year is a leap year so you can pop the question yourself.

You have a wonderful day!

I am so confused..As i am watching a lot of women's say the same thing and at the same time they are doing the same mistake.
If you want to find your self a good man, honest, decent and family oriented, don't take selfies of your self half naked..Its not your boobs or your a** that will define your relationship. Its your character. Your self and who you really are. So, if you want to find for your self a good man, open your eyes not your legs in front of the camera...

you found out your friend spouse is cheating

should u tell him/ her?


if so how? and what response do u expect?


if it was you would u want to be told?