Age differences

I am an older woman that looks young. I have young men looking for my attention just because I look their age. The problem is u don't talk the same talk. And u can't live with that over a longer period of time.

I have been on Asian Dating sites for some time and I agree that you have to be careful. I met my lady friend in July 2013. We had a great time together in Bangkok. She is 28 years younger than myself.
A few months later we had a fallout. What I did not know was that the Thai language does not translate to English very well so the meanings of emails were distorted.
I then found a Filipina who I am now convinced was an opportunist . Her jealousy drove me back to my Thai lady. To my surprise almost 12 months after I upset her she still has strong feelings for me.
She knows that all I can do is go there and return so a marriage is not on the cards. All I can do is await further developments.

Not every young person you meet in the real world and actually get a relationship with is there for money. LoL, you may not even have any. Sometimes the youngster has way more money and is the one buying YOU the meal. Those are the ones 'worth' keeping. Too bad they are so rare.

My Bobikins is 24 years my senior. I'm not after his money....I just want his 300 year-old house, the apple and cherry trees in his big garden, his fleet of cars, few of his rented apartments and oh! The apartment overlooking the beach

Of course age matters. Nobody wants an old bag, male or female. Everybody wants "young" and most of us don't get it, unless we pay for it. For a young person to choose an old mate goes against our biological hard wiring and if a young one does choose an old one, it's for the material benefits or because there's something else going on psychologically. There are not nearly as many "odd couples" out there as it seems. The majority of married couples are very similar in age. Check the census data.

My wife was 14 years older than me. That never made a difference to us.

18 yrs difference here..not to obvious is it

but then I dont look 50....

Most marriages in the US end in divorce. Most of those marriages are of people the same age. Please explain. Your theory is cracked.

You can't have children if both are old. At least one has to be young for that to have any chance of working.
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I've just watched a crime investigation where an older man married a younger woman, and as he got older and needed his rest she began drinking for company and turned the volume up. He came downstairs and murdered her, went back upstairs to sleep and woke up to that nightmare the next morning. He got 2nd degree murder and was sentenced to 20 years. Bet that old man wished he had shared a drink with her instead but too late, he is still in jail.

* note to self, don't get involved in a boytoy.

Morning MiMi.

08:43 here, drinking my first for the day.

Oh well have fun MiMi. Forgive me for not following your feastivities, I follow none, but have no problem with anyone following whatever religion makes them feel comfortable.

I follow no religious calendar, nothing personal.

The age restriction doesn't work. No matter how many times I update it. So I stopped wasting my time doing it.