I got used to have to tell men what I want (in a gentle manner ), because otherwise they could not "read my mind", because Western men are like that, as we all know. Then I had to unlearn this behaviour with Japanese men, since they dislike being openly told things, but prefer an indirect way of telling them what you want (like: "I'm feeling a little cold" rather than "Will you, please, bring me a blanket?"). Then I had to switch to "be open and direct" with Western men again and... this is ALL so tiring!
Why can't we make ourselves one perfect male android?
That's true. Big cats cannot be used like horses or elephants for riding.
I've always had a desire to ride a big cat. Of course, that is dangerous and impossible, but I would sometimes even imagine myself becoming very small, like a mouse or a small hamster and riding my own (domestic) cat.
Wouldn't that be wonderful?! You hug a cat and she's so soft and warm and you ride fast through the forest together!
A friend told me that with the advancement of virtual reality games - we could be able to do that with a virtual reality headset and a proper software. I can't wait!
(It's good that I'm not looking for a date on CS - I think that after this post - people would start thinking strange thoughts about me. )
All sorts of manipulations give only short-term results.
Once you start lying and manipulating - you have to do it forever. There's no "(s)he loves me, so now I can show my true self and (s)he will keep loving me".
I did put some effort in friendships here just to be told that I was building friendships with fake profiles. I felt deceived. So, no more effort by my side.
I'm not sure you will find here what you're looking for. How about trying some other places?
Some simply like to socialize, sometimes share an idea or two that crosses their mind (and that would probably get unnoticed by people around them), have a laugh, read/learn something interesting...
When you spend a considerable time on a place like this, you start to feel "at home" and you usually hang out with people you feel most comfortable with. After some time, you will get bored and start to come less regularly.
Even if it seems that some people have "special connection", that's not really like that. Most people don't communicate outside of this site. They never know whether other people will log in again or not. This is a very fleeting world.
I was brought up to respect elders and now I have a problem with it, since I'm an adult myself and find it hard to be treated like a child from (especially women) of my mom's generation.
I had the same problem while using Chrome. Since I switched to Firefox, I don't have those problems any more. Everything works fine. I hope this helps!
RE: MEETING UP WITH CS MEMBERS
Thank you, Mimi!