Well, I've gone and done it.....
The past few months with the mystery man was certainly bittersweet. The times spent together were absolutely amazing....had never been happier than in those moments cut short. I was treated like a queen when he was actually by my side. But to me, quality time is crucially important and sadly, one day every 1-2 weeks was just tearing me apart, for in those times apart I was always missing him. I do not blame him, he is a good man. No, hes not married....as i had gotten to know him better, i had seen his scheduled calendars, filled with work, studies for his bachelors exams, weight training, etc. Maybe he is married...but only to his work. He is very dedicated to everything he does. His wealthy career choice has ruined relationships in the past and i can understand how that would happen. However, i was willing to be patient....and i was. But with all that he has given to me, i feel that i just dont have enough to offer him in return and i feel as though I'm holding him back from his goals. I broke things off not because he had treated me poorly in any way, but because he deserves to be happy and i dont think im enough to fill those shoes. Money is certainly helpful, but it doesnt fill the void space that only love can occupy. And without love we are all just an empty shell merely existing with a masking smile.
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Its hard, hey.
Maybe he was content in just 'you'...?
...but I'm sure you've thought it through and that was a selfless act on your part....
...and he obviously valued you in what you were able to give.
Sometimes, if we let go....and men are given space they are able to reassess and discover they don't want to lose someone special.
...but, in the meantime....just get on with your own life.
...and, yet who am I to offer advice? I am hopeless at relationships....
Is this the way you're breaking it off with me?
Just because I'm busy a lot?
Okay then. I unnerstand. I guess it's time for me to get drunk.. blasted drunk.. and I'm not even a drinker.
But for today I am.
okay, just kidding..
But sincerely, you have to do what you feel in your heart is right. I cannot say that I agree or disagree with what you did, but then I wasn't in that situation to know more. Only you and the guy knew the situation best.
Anyways, I wish you the best in all that you seek, in all that you do.. and always happiness to you everyday.
Thank ya dear
"but because he deserves to be happy and i dont think im enough to fill those shoes."
This is exactly the reason why I want him to move on and forget about me...
If not I see it as his loss. Sorry ! I am just being truthful.
Either way, you have alot to offer and somebody who can give you the time that you deserve will come along..
Yes, agree with you there...and if it's meant to be then it's meant to be then it's meant to be
I hope it doesn't hurt for too long and that you find someone willing to love as much as you have .
You deserve it.
Good wishes for you
It is hard enough to meet someone you like and you even mentioned amazing - jeez, don't just throw something like this away!
I suppose its a bit too complicated to explain anymore than I already have. I could sense it in his voice..the look in his eyes...the guilt that he felt when hed be gone for so long...leaving me alone. I could see that it bothered him to have to make that choice to be distant...but he wanted me happy ...he was very happy with me....but his work is his livelihood. I made a choice that he has probably thought of but never acted upon because he couldnt hurt me. Maybe this explains it a little better
I am sorry ,did he not have Goals ,Career and priorities when he been squeezing you? ..whatever ...it doesnt make sense to me ,hope you dont mind