What am I missing?
Always the best friendThe one to put a smile on yer face when its been a bad day
The crutch during a breakup
The one to vent to when someone makes ya angry
The one who listens and understands
But...
What am I missing?
Funny how the good souls are the most alone
Am I not strong enough? Or am I too strong?
Am I not attractive enough?
Am I too old?
Am I just plain awkward?
Am I boring?
Is it because I'm not rich and successful....yet?
Or...maybe its not me at all...maybe society has misplaced its values and the good souls are simply forgotten and swept under the rug. Makes me wish, at times, that I was born in a different century....where did I leave them ruby slippers, I dont belong here
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I think it's ok to feel this way but just make sure we snap out of it after done sulking?
Hope you'll have an easy and pleasant week ahead, Red
Be Blessed!!
Good,
I do at times, wished that I'm more inquisitive, wanting to know more and I'm pretty sure I'd be a successful someone, succeed in life, have a different career path- a very good one instead of just waiting on tables
Got it now
'-)
If you are in a relationship now, not sure what you are missing...it sounded like you were still looking for love, or love how you envision it....and you don't have it right now.
If you want more romance and less bromance, act less like a brother or more like the other.
Good luck, you really are blessed with beautiful looks and remember men love an enigma! Just don't let them solve it.
Good,
He has more fun things in mind when he thinks of you
Everyone is special in their own right....don't think I can lose that if I tried
Stay Blessed!!!
Good,
Life can be sh-- at times but you know you have to get out their, nothing just comes knocking on the door.
I join loads of different clubs, I am not everyones cup of tea you see so I do meet one or two here and their.
Wishing you well
This too will pass
People like what they like, and I have met some lovely guys I knew would bore the head off me when together or by being with them I would have a life I didn't want. And vice-versa - guys that wanted an obedient wifey or a super model or simply someone else - that's just the way it is.
If something is supposed to work long-term - there has to be a mutual attraction and understanding or there will be more heartache.
Yep, I know life isn't fair.
You asked what you were missing. As Red said, you are the only one who can really answer that question. If you feel in your current relationship something significant is missing, doesn't seem you are completely happy with it. But don't put all the blame on yourself (as KN showed in her post). Chemistry is a complicated thing.
Anyway, I like your profile name. Can't say I would want an enigma for a permanent relationship because I don't want to be totally in the dark~! lol. But a little guessing and mystery is a wonderful thing.
I do get out there every day, walking or cycling..but there is never anyone my age...not sure I understand why lol always kids or elderly.. Either that or they havent visited their dentist in a lifetime and in dire need of dental help..no I just can't even lol
I'm not everyone's cup of tea either, Red, sometimes I wonder if I really want to be.....until the urge of interaction kicks in once again...thats when i hit the blogs
I just think life for me that is would be boring with only one person in it I need loads of friends all on different wave lengths
Have good Monday blue times pass
Your working hours do sound as if they make everything difficult. It's hard to socialise and meet someone when you work when everyone else is off.
Same here, have a few, good friends, one best friend to confide in and my family. Never needed to choose and don't think I would want to.
Being "good" is not enough for a relationship unfortunately. Someone safe isn't necessary someone you would want to share your life with. I know too well we're you're coming from.
Best of luck with the Gemine!
I know that feeling