Two questions here...
Firstly, when a person is deleted by the mods or deletes their profile, does everything disappear? (mails I have sent or received are no longer shown in my in/out boxes, nor does the person show in my WVM list)
Secondly, What is the point of deleting a post on a blog? (If you say something you later regret, is it really such a big deal?)
An Example...
On a recent blog by “sunflower2018” entitled Generous Jorge, I posted the simple question “Where you by chance dazzled by Generous Jorge?” When checking to see whether there was a reply I found my post had been deleted.
(I look forward to seeing whether this blog will now be deleted in its entirety hehe!)
Try Whatsapp!
The cool way to stay in touch on Android style phones, you dont even need to type, just speak into the phone and it types the text for you. Send or receive photos, chat in real time or just leave a message.
Despite the reluctance regarding e-mail addresses, seems more and more people are comfortable giving out their mobile number and is all the rage (apparently).
Of course, not all contacts pan out, so, if one morning you find the persons pic has been replaced by the ubiquitous faceless outline then you know you are no longer flavor of the month and have been de-contacted and likely had your number blocked. Goes to say you can do the same to others.
Does one need to have emotions for a person in order to have a relationship?
It is amazing how many women write in their profile “I'm not looking for one night stands or friends with benefits, so please pass me by.”
Whats even more amazing is that these women often post loads of pics in different poses some even in bikinis and they wonder why they attract seedy comments from men.
Mind you, you should see some of these honey’s, boy, they are not attractive, makes me realize why paper bags were invented. In fact some are so unattractive I’ll bet they put a pork chop around their neck so the dog will play with them!
All that said, I wonder what type of response a woman would get if her profile stated.... “I do on the first date”!
Met a couple of Buggs Bunnies reciently and to be truthful wonder what on earth possesed them to want to join a dating site.
Bunny 1
Second mail... 28th June
“Nice to hear from you I will get back to you this week with regards to taking a coffee together, I am going for lunch so have to get ready, the timing is not a problem for me as I don't work,do you have whatsapp on your mobile if so let me know”
So I sent her a whattsapp... we exchanged a few messages, still waiting for the coffee invite.
Bunny 2
First mail... July 14th
“Do you know whether we can have a chat in this page? If so, tell me the way please!!”
I explain how to swop mails in real time on CS, a few more mails were exchanged, then....
“I can,t express myself in English as I,d like when writting. It,s better speaking. Let,s have a chat one day shall we? Maybe on the phone at first”
So I send her my phone number, that was over three days ago.
Both have been online in the past 24 hours but not heard zip.
Ok, ok... I know what some of you are going to say... sucker me for being played like a puppet!
I have seen some inventive, funny, ridiculous, and unpronounceable profile names over the years.
The most recent profile name that caught my attention was... Wenchwithwrench... is that cool name or what?
I remember as a young man, dating was a thrill of nervousness, uncertainty and worry. Hours spent grooming, deciding on what clothes to wear, where to go, what to do and many "what ifs".
Although I am now older and an experienced dater, I find the excitement of a first date continues to send shivers through me, I still spend time paying attention to presenting myself in a manner that I hope will be pleasing to the woman I am meeting.
The nervousness however no longer remains, dating is not the daunting prospect it was in my youth. I am more sure of myself as I know what a date entails thus these days dates are more enjoyable.
Does dating become easier as we get older?
From profiles, blogs, polls, forums etc on CS we all make judgements about the people we see, recently I was told that in the considered opinion of another member, I was not the relationship type.
Apart from all the false profiles, scammers and liars, when you meet someone genuine how do you judge whether that person is the “Relationship Type”?
There was a time that when upset by a friend, girl/boyfriend, partner etc,
we found solace in venting our troubles to our friends or family as a way of “getting it off our chest” so that we would feel better having at least told our woes to someone. For whatever reason, be it self preservation, lack of courage or whatever, we would never tell the person concerned what is disturbing us about them.
Of course we secretly hoped that what we had said to our friends or family would get back to the person in question and thus they will be made aware of what was bothering us.
These days, with the introduction of Facebook, Twitter and blogs like this one on CS, we can post what is annoying us about a person in a public forum. Not only do we get to unload our anguish and get replies, but the chances are the person to whom we are griping about will also read the post.
Is it true that most women want a guy who knows exactly how they feel at any given moment, the sensitive type yet sufficiently manly to make a woman feel secure?
Or a guy that will become subservient when a woman is in a bad mood?
We all know women like their own space but should a guy come running whenever he is needed?
If a guy doesn’t measure up to a womans expectations, is it right that a woman should withhold sex as punishment, or when a woman wants sex the guy must be forthcoming?
It’s not surprising then, that we guys are made to suffer for not being perfect.
What do reckon is the percentage ratio of...
The number of men that contact women
Verses
The number of women that contact men
Errr... no dont think so. I recently wrote a blog expressing my puzzlement as to why several members had decided to leave CS to grieve over the illness of a fellow blog member.
The blog attracted several distasteful posts critiquing what people thought was my insensitivity on the subject. I had hoped to supply a few quotes, however upon looking for the blog in my list, I find it has been deleted.
I feel vindicated in my skepticism, as those that purported to depart either didnt, or were back blogging within a day. The subject member is now once again active on the blogs despite only 10 days ago issuing a statement that no further posts or replies would be made for a while... if ever!
I accuse no person of deliberation, however, I feel those that participated in said events have made a mockery of the blogs by inciting discord between members.
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