Like many of us that go to the hairdresser, we like to get our moneys worth, however, when one has as little hair as I do, the least I expect is to leave the salon with some hair.
Unfortunately the hairdresser started at the back of my head so it wasnt until she got around to the side that I realized "yikes" its all coming off.
The thought ran through my mind that if I stopped her now I would be like one of those punk rockers with half my head shaved I broke into a cold sweat at the prospect!
So.... Here I am now looking like a pixie with my pointy ears, but at least I can say I have designer stubble...... ON MY HEAD!
Do you like to melt into the arms of your lover in long passionate kisses, or are you content with those simple pecks on the lips?
Do the surroundings make a difference to how you kiss?
For example, is stopping for a passionate kiss in St Marks square in Venice the same as stopping for a passionate kiss in the center of a shopping mall?
Perhaps you are a lip sucker, a kiss pucker or even a tooth tonguer, how do you kiss or like to be kissed?
Although I have not looked, I have been told that the mods have a profile of their own.
From what I gather, the mod is quite a tall, hunky guy (or so he says) looking for women 25 and older.
Makes me wonder whether the mod has dated people onsite, no doubt he has lots of experience to draw upon from peeking at the seduction lines the rest of us have written.
That said, if any of the mods are dishy, sexy or curvy women that fancy my profile and want a holiday in Tenerife..... Dont hesitate, get in touch! (I promise not to pester you for all those little secrets you know about us... well perhaps a little!)
You’ve been on several dates together and become friends, you like the person and get on well, however, the day arrives when you get invited in for coffee.
You really like what you have going together and dont want to spoil it by moving the friendship in other realms. Not that it is a gimme you’re going to have sex but generally when one gets invited in for coffee the chances are high that’s whats on the agenda.
So...
A) How do you avoid the situation without crashing the friendship?
B) Does it make a difference if the invitee is male or female?... explain
Please Note:
General topic for discussion, not a real life situation.
Do you have a side of the bed you prefer when sleeping with someone?
I am ambidextrous, so for me it doesnt matter what side of the bed I am on, I can still enjoy lots of hugs and cuddles.
Been dating this modelesque woman for a short while (certainly too good looking for the likes of me) and although she has a body like the statue of Venus with arms, things are not going according to plan and its time to move on to pastures new.
Have an idea to write this....
“Good morning, had a wonderful time chatting and laughing whilst in your company last evening, however, this morning my heart is crying.
As much as my body and soul long to be with you, to make a life of happiness together, my head tells me this cannot be and so the time for us to part has come.
I shall always treasure the moments we have shared, how your eyes glinted like stars in the brightness of your smile, the softness of your caress will always rest upon my arms and the feel of your warmth will always be within my heart.
My fervent hope is that the future will bring you the happiness you seek in the arms of another. Good bye my beautiful.... (Add name)”
What do you think?
For those of you not chucking your fingers down your throat in an effort to throw up, I hope you are reaching for the tissues to dab the tears welling in your eyes whilst curtailing your sniffles and trying to stabilize your quivering lip.
“Dont ask what I can do for you, tell me what you can do for me.” This was a statement I made at a job interview several years ago, it took the interviewer by surprise but never the less I got the job.
Prompted by a question I asked a fellow blogger (and subsequent reply), it occurred to me that the profile format of CS is lacking what I believe could be considered an important aspect in sorting the chaff from the wheat in finding the type of person we are looking for.
An additional section to the profile format should be included, the heading to be something along the lines of “What I can bring to a relationship” (requires further verification).
In this section members should list/explain/detail what attributes they can offer to the other person in any potential relationship/partnership/affair etc.
What do you think... Useful or not?
When you are looking for someone, no one looks at your profile or sends a flower, few answer the mails you send and the very small percentage of those that do turn out to be a waist of time.
Yet....
When not looking, content to be single, sitting back getting fat, the WVM list is longer than my arm and the inbox is bulging with mail whilst offers are coming in left right and center?
Was having coffee with a woman the other day when the subject turned to dating sites and relationships.
The woman said to me it must be great being a man as everything is so much easier for guys than it is for women.
I thought about this for a while, reflecting on relationships I had had previously and my current situation on this dating site.
I concluded that a couple of decades ago men had greater control in the work place and in the home, however, today the balance of power certainly in the Western world has shifted considerably towards women in both arenas
In terms of relationships women have almost complete control, it is women that decide who they desire to meet and dictate what men need to do if they want to maintain the relationship.
I am talking “generally” here but more and more often I hear/read about men finding themselves having to walk on egg shells for days on end due to an unknown action or comment they have made that has upset the delicate balance of the relationship.
Women have now become demanding and dictatorial in many aspects of life, more so I suspect than men ever were.
Women rule..... OK!
From memory, I can’t recall ever being in contact with someone on CS that didn’t lie about his or her age.
Although I now state my correct age, for quite a while my profile stated I was 60, although at the time I was only 58. My reasons for this were I felt I would be more appealing to the age group of women I was trying to attract.
So, my question is....
Does stating a certain age have an effect on the age group of people that you contact, or contact you?
There was a time when being in one’s fifties meant you were old, unemployable, stuck in a rut and just waiting to be one of life’s dearly departed.
These days, however, many people enjoy a good thirty or more years of youthful activity, with at least twenty of these without the need to work.
For many that now find themselves single after raising children, got divorced or separated the world is your oyster. You have the love of family yet are free to finally find the type of love you dreamed of as a teenager.
Just look at the benefits... You can spend all your time sharing an unparalleled togetherness with your partner, doing what pleases you both without distraction, ties or commitments.
You have the opportunity to profit from the joy of grandchildren, your ambitions, in the main have been achieved. You have the financial means to indulge in hobbies or travel and with maturity comes the knowledge of comfort within ourselves.
Now is the time to profit from the adventures that life has to offer.
For those of us that blog frequently we have come to know other regular bloggers reasonably well and in some cases have rightly or wrongly formed an opinion as to how we perceive those persons to be.
Just recently, I was told how (in some quarters) I am perceived to be from the posts I make and the blogs I write.
Not only did this prompt me to change my profile but also to ask the following questions.....
1) Have you ever changed your opinion of someone due to a post they have made or a blog they have written?
2) Would you change your opinion of someone if they changed the way they post or the blogs they write?
Just as a footnote...Despite having changed my profile, I’m quite pleased with the perception that was imparted to me and have no intention of trying to change it.
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