You don't know me, don't judge me
As the description says, this is a tip / urge for each of us and for some this may sound familiar because "you don't know me don't judge me" is and was one of the rapper's favorite quotes called 2pac . Finally, as I wanted to say .... this is a tip / advice for each of us .. we do not judge those around us and I will explain why. There are several reasons why we should not do this and I will list in turn those that I know (I say this because there may be reasons that I do not know so I cannot mention them)1) No one is perfect, we all have our flaws whether we want to admit it or not
2) If you judge others, one day you will be the one judged by others in your turn, so you will become like them "judged by others" and this is not pleasant at all
3) In order to be able to judge a man, you should first know him 100% as God alone does, I know that maybe some of us believe that we know someone completely but it is not true at all ... and you will find out why ... to know a man 100%, you must first live in his skin and when I say this, I speak seriously ..... to live a full life in his skin to be He / she to feel what he feels he / she thinks in his / her way of thinking, making decisions based on these feelings and thinking ... going through everything he / she has gone through in his / her life ... and only then you could understand why he / she is as he is, why he reacts in a certain way in certain situations and so on.
4) If someone could do these things, and would be able to judge the person in whose skin he / she lived ... he / she would choose not to judge because he / she would understand ...
But because we could not do this, we cannot 100% understand a person so we are not able to judge ... and besides, if we try to judge less and understand more the people around us, ... 1 world would be better .... 2 we could be friendlier .. 3 our children would learn not to judge others but to understand them (children do what they see to their parents and around them, if they see people who will judge .. will they judge, if they see people who are trying to understand the others, they will do the same) If we want a better world for ourselves and our children .... this is one of the steps we have to take let's do "Don't Know Me, Don't Judge Me"
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2. Unconditional positive regard.
Two phrases you might enjoy.
If we have curiosity, if we seek to understand, judgement isn't the first port of call.
Thankyou for your support. It's a concept I repeat often and not many understand it.
Plus if I judge you or anyone else without any ramifications, so be it.
Free will thrives ..
We all have systems of judgement that absolve us of personal judging.
Only God is really able to judge.
"May God have mercy on your soul".