What An Adorable Man..
ONEHe had a meeting with his friends from the sport club, an online meeting ofcourse. He told me that one of his friends noticed something and asked him.
His friend : Hey, what happened to your razor? Is it broken?
Him : Nope. There is this woman. Her name is Kal from Indonesia. I have grown my whiskers for her.
My silent response -->
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TWO
Once I asked him if there's any Muslim in his area. He said he wasn’t sure if there is.
Me : Let say I come to your city and I accompany you to a sport event where there are many friends of yours. What do you think will your friends say or do when seeing me, a Muslim woman wearing hijab, holding your hand?
Him : They will be nice to you because you are with me.
My silent response -->
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THREE
Sometimes when we video called, he let the door behind him open so I could see his son’s bedroom door. Once I saw his son entering his room.
Me : Is that your son?
Him : Yes, the youngest. Do you want to be introduced to him?
Me : Naah. I am not ready. Next time, ok
Him : Sure, whenever you're ready
My silent response -->
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FOUR
I told him about what a big tall western man did to me when we’re on the Train from Paris to The Netherlands.
Him : If I was with you that moment, do you want me to act accordingly?
Me : Naah, I can handle it. If he started being abusive, then it’s your turn.
Him : I have never been beaten but I am not afraid to
Me : Nooo… I don’t want that to happen
My silent response -->
And every day there is always something, even just a little thing, that makes my heart touched.
Isn’t he so very adorable or what?
Have a good weekend, everyone!
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BUT..
Does his Mom know about our “relationship”?
What is his Mom’s opinion about a Muslim?
What would his Mom say about him visiting a Muslim woman in a faraway land?
You see, as much as I want to meet him and take our relationship to a further step, I don’t want to create any conflict between him and his Mom. If his Mom is strictly against our relationship, then he better not to spend his dollars to fly to my city. We both can move on, take a different path, but still remain friends.
And he said : “Ok then, I will start asking my Mom. Don’t worry, you and I will be ok”
Hmm.. every time he said “we will be ok!”,
I felt like getting a pat on my back.. so very calming.
I really do love this Giant of mine..
So I said: "Aye aye Captain!"
Then I showed him how I did it, including how I added slices of ginger and garlic to the Crab meat to neutralize the smell of the Crab and how I added a love shaped of sauce.
"Honeeeey.. It's ready!"
PS
He and I know that the shape of the heart is not perfect, but he said he wouldn't mind taking care of the heart.
Me: Whichever, as long as the one with hijab.
Hmm..
Sunday is the Mother's day in his part of the universe. My Giant is taking his Mom out to have a good time. And he would "introduce" me to her.
Although I am keeping my fingers crossed since his Saturday.. I am getting more and more nervous as the clock tick tock tick tock
I need miracles now than ever before..
Him : "My mom stopped by to my house today. She was in a good mood."
Me : "Wow! That's good."
Him : "I showed the first photo to her."
Me : "What did she say?"
Him : "She asked " a Muslim?" and I said Yes. Then I showed her the second photo."
Me. : "Aaannd?"
Him : "She said "Hmm quite pretty." "
Me : "Really? She really said that?"
Him : "Yes. And then I told her your name. And she said " Oh I like that name!" Well, the introduction went great. And that's the most highlighted thing i wanted to tell you."
Oh dear.. oh dear... If my Giant were here, he would not be able to breathe as his lips would be sealed with mine.
“Eventhough when you’re here, I don’t know what I will do nor what will happen. I don’t have any idea if I can be a good tour guide who can take you to the best places you want to visit. I am not sure if I can be a friend for you to be around and have fun with.. I have no clue if I can be a lover whom you expect to share romantic moments with.. I don't know if your stay here will be worthwhile.. Still I really do look forward to meeting you.”
And he said : “If you’re smiling and I am gonna be smiling, and we will be good.”
Oohh.. I love my Giant more and much more.
Me : Oh ok.. wish I could go there too
Him : Ok I will.
Me : Hey remember when I told you that on this coming Sunday we will have a family gathering (health protocol will be applied ofcourse)? Do you mind if I let my big family see you on the screen when we Video Call and introduce you to them?
Him : No, I don’t mind.
Me : But that’s only if you have come back from the Cabin and have the time, ok.
Him : Guess what? I think I just make up my mind. I will not go to the Cabin.
Me : Why?
Him : So I can meet you big family..
And I was like..
And this morning, my time when we talked..
Me : “Honey, thank you very much!”
Him : “For what?”
Me : “For always making time for me”
Him : “You are my woman!”
Ooohhhh.. he never stops making me blushed.
Good luck with the City Event, my Giant!
Please do remember that my prayers are always flowing in your veins
Yes my Giant did it.
The City Event went pretty well. I am so proud of him.
And this morning I told him how I don't know much about his culture. So in order to not make him embarrassed when I live there, I asked him to teach me about all those. He said:
"We will learn all those together, Kal!"
You see, that's a very simple statement, but the word "together" has made a huge difference. He really makes me feel that I am part of his life.
Hmm.. I love you, my Giant. I really do with all my heart very very much..
So yesterday, Saturday morning my time, we decided to go to Greece. This time we chose Santorini as our weekend getaway destination. He then started sharing the screen on Skype video, showed our routes on Google maps.
Him : Are we flying to Athens from the US or from Indonesia?
Me : From the US laaaahhh..
Him : Ok. So we fly to the Netherlands first, spend a day in Amsterdam having bicycle tour, enjoying some street foods, taking a rest and then we continue flying to the Airport in Athens. We spend a day in Athens for a brief sightseeing before heading to the Airport in Santorini.
Again he showed the interesting places we went to and hotels we stayed at in Amsterdam, in Athens and in Santorini.. We really enjoyed the great landscapes, the architectures, the histories, and ofcourse the foods. Surfing all those on internet with good pictures we felt the journey was real.. even the kissing.
Ok, there was this place in Athens that connected to Plato and Socrates.
Me : Do you know Plato? Do you know Socrates?
Him : Yeah.
Me : Morons.
Him : What?
Me : Mor..
I hadn’t finished saying the word when he suddenly burst into laughter. Yes, he laughed very very out loud. Then we both laughed out loud. (I am sure bloggers find the laughter confusing.
Hmm.. I am glad I could make him laugh that way. I still can hear it and still can see his expression which still makes me smile. He looks more and more handsome and attractive especially when he smiles and laughs.
Ooohh.. I love my Giant and I want him in my life.. I really do so very muuaach.
You are simply the best of all and..
I love you sooo very much that I could just go wild!
The thing is..
My Giant is gonna introduce me to his big family on Thursday, when their Thanksgiving celebration takes place. He told me to relax as everything is gonna be fine. He knew I have been nervous already..
"What should I wear?"
"What should I say to every single of them?"
"What should I talk about?
Those sort of things..
"Don't worry. I will be there all the time with you, Kal, when you are being introduced!" my Giant said.
Hmm... he is really such a darling!
Him : "Come closer to the camera, so I can see the skin more clearly."
I did what he told me to. I got closer to my computer camera.. very close.
Suddenly .. Smoooochh!
Oh my goodness, my Giant kissed me on that skin.. And I was like ..
Am I dreaming or what?
Thank you sayaaaang, for making me feel like a star..!
I am all yours!
And I love him after..
He always is adorable before and after shaving!
Thank you for loving me much, sayangku..!
And I am all yours, sayang!
But my Giant has promised me that he will keep having his fingers crossed for me.
Thanks you sayang..
Perfecto..!!
Honeeeyyy.. breakfast is ready!
PS
I don't have a toaster as I don't really need it.
I mostly eat rice.
So in order to make breakfast for my Giant,
I used my frying pan to make the toast..
Him : What is in it?
Me : Chicken, I think. Taste like chicken.
Him : It does look good.
Me : Yap! I am going to learn how to make it.
Him : That sounds good to me.
Me : And when I am there, you will have it every single day for breakfast.
Him : Honey, lets learn how to make something else!
Him and Me :
(Happiness is just as a smile or a laugh away).
PS
At the moment, my Giant is getting ready to go to another City for a City Event. And his Brother is preparing packed meals for my Giant.
Hmm.. that's one of the things I really love about my Giant's family.
Drive safely, Honeeeyy... and enjoy your moments to the fullest..!
My Giant said: "No. I need to wear the mask because I promised my girlfriend I would!".
Ooohhh.. it would be heartless of me if I didn't shower him with hundreds of kisses..
I love you sooooo much, Honeybunch, that there is no way on Earth I would give up on you..!!
And guess what..??
He is wearing the mask!
Thank you so much for doing so, Cintakuuuuuuu..!
sitting under the shade of a nice tree.
It was a great Parade, and
My Giant wore the mask!
HAPPY INDEPENDENCE DAY, HoneyBunch!
And thank you for letting me enjoy the moment too..
You see, I sent him maaaaany photos of mine.
Of all those photos, he liked this one more..
Seeee... he is craaaazzy, but he is MINE,
and I love him so..
Besides, he fixed my troubling computer few days ago..
Thank you most kindly, Sayang!
PS
Photo was taken 2 days ago.
However, when we arrived in Baku, we couldn’t find the 7-star hotel called “The Full Moon Hotel”. Someone said that the Hotel was actually one of the 6 of the most amazing hotels never built. Oh well, we already in Baku, so we booked another hotel.
To make the story short, during our stay, we spent some time to visit a mosque. The Mosque is an architectural marvel especially at night when illuminated with floodlights. And look.. someone’s getting married!
He : That’s you Kal, in that lovely wedding dress.
Me : No way, that’s not me, because I couldn’t see you there in your wedding outfit. Besides that beautiful wedding dress is not the one I have in mind to wear when you and I are getting married.
He : Hmm.. ok.
Me : And one more thing. That woman is so stunningly pretty. So different from me. Will you still love if I am pretty?
He : Oh yessss..
Then we both laugh.
Me : Hey honey, do you see what I see?
He : What?
Me : I saw my friend.
He: Who?
Me : A CS blogger lady
He : Who?
Me : Look at her shoes. So she must be her.
And then we both laughed again..
He said “Someday, we’ll go to Azerbaijan for real!”
And I was like.. yeeeehhaaaaawww!
Him: Whaaaattt..???
Me: When I am there, I will have to talk to other people too, who might misunderstand my English and whose English I might misunderstand.
Him: Your English is ok. Besides it's too late now.
Me: Yeah, you're right. It's too late now and there's no turning back.
Him: Nope, no turning back!
Me: and I don't want to turn back.
Him: Good!
Me: I hope you will never ever leave me.
Him: No, I won't. You are my girl, Kal!
Geezz Kal..
And one day my Giant’s Auntie caught and put him in a cage and then took him to a Vet to get fixed.
Anyway, my Giant and family just had a family and friend gathering to let go of their late Dad. They had a boat trip to spread the Dad’s ashes. And that’s why I could meet and talk to his eldest son on Skype. There were so many people showed up. My Giant told me about how Sparta let some ladies pick him up. But he ran and hid right away once he saw my Giant’s Auntie..
An elephanta cat never forgets.The other day, Sparta was not well. So I asked my Giant whether or not he will want to have a new cat if Sparta died. He said “No!” And I was like.. “Yeeehaaaw!!”
However, from the way he told me about Sparta,
Me : Honey, when I live with you there, I will let you have a new cat if Sparta dies.
Him : Hmm.. let’s wait until you meet Sparta, then you make the decision.
And I was like..
You see, I have never met someone so unselfish like my Giant. No matter how much he loves to have a cat around, knowing that I don’t like having any, although I am willing to change that for him, he doesn’t make the decision himself. Instead, he still let me decide.
My Goodness.. I am so blessed to have that adorable man in my life..
Him : I am good, how are you feeling?
Me : Better. I miss you!
Him :
Me : Oohh.. don’t make me horrrny!
Him :
Me : Hey, can I ask you a stupid question?
Him : Sure, honey!
Me : What will you do to me when I am horrrny?
Him : Oohh I will find out what you like.
Me : You know how to please a woman, right?
Him : Yes. I will give her food.
Me and Him :
My Giant really knows very well how to please me!
Him : No, you will not. We will find things to do together.
Me : Like what?
Him : Well, we can go traveling or simply stay at home waching movies together, gardening, cooking, eating, eating, eating, vaccuum cleaning, vaccuum cleaning, vaccuum cleaning, vaccuum cleaning..
Me and Him :
Me : Ok, I will make Corn Fritters for you today.
Him : Sounds good to me. Take some pictures.
Me : Aye aye Captain! We will have the Fritters when watching movies.
PS
Hmm.. he's right. Having a man who can make me smile and laugh like him beside me, for sure I will never be bored.
My Giant also took me to a fancy restaurant. And here was the dessert we had.
I was having terrible stomach ulcer and so I didn't have a chance to prepare anything to celebrate our special moment. But my Giant is such a true Gentleman. He did it for us..!!
Oohh I am so blessed to have that adorable man in my life. Alhamdulillah..
I love you, my HoneyBunch, with all my heart!
Thank you my Dear Dariling HB
for the bunch of kisses and hugs, you have given me..
and for making me the happiest woman on Earth.
He then took me for a German Language short course.
We really did have great time..
Hmm.. my Giant is really a very fun man to be around with..
With him, every day is a brighter and laughter day.
Him : Yaa, sure.. ofcourse.
Me : What if I meet the one I had crush on again?
Him : You can assign your other class mates to watch out for that guy and tell him that he is at the wrong place.
Me : The reunion will take place at the Castle.. my family Castle.
Him : Hey, I do trust you. You don't have to send that guy away.
Me : Can I video call you so I can introduce you to my friends?
Him : Sure.
Me : Thank you my HB for trusting me!
Him : I love you, Kal!
Hmm.. how can I not be grateful for having him in my life?
Alhamdulillah..
May you enjoy the togetherness moment of Thanksgiving with your beloved ones to the fullest, my man, my love!
Welcome back home, HB..!
I love you thiiiiiiiissss much..
I, on the one hand, coming back from the office yesterday, was too tired to do my laundry last night and so I did it this morning and finished at around 6AM time. Then I took a shower and got dressed and then off for work. Office starts at 07:30AM
He, on the other hand, was so very engaged with his work at his office that he came back home late. At home he had to chair his sport club online meeting. The meeting was over at around 7AM my time.
Realizing the too short time we had, he said:
"Tomorrow I will leave the office earlier so I could have more time to talk to my lovely SP!"
Oohh.. even just that has made me fly to heaven already.
"Honeeeey! I will try my best to do my chores before I go to sleep, so I could have more time for you too. I love you, my HB, with all my heart!"
Me : Oohh.. that's so sweet. Thank you my HB. But you know I don't really like cake. So you can have all the sweets and I am fine with just the berries.
Him : Yeeehaaww..!!
But when it came to Lobster..
Me : Hey, you can have my corn and I will have your Lobster. ok!
Him : Do you need two Lobsters?
Me : Oh yess.. and you need two corns, right?
Him : Oh yeah.. that sounds a good deal.. (in sarcastically mumbling tone)
Me : Smart eh?
Then we were burst out laughing..
Hmm.. happiness is simply a laughter away.
Have a safe journey, and good luck with the Presentation, ok my HB!
Please do remember that my prayers are always flowing in your veins