My new guy friend, puzzles me
So he's got the same zodiac Sun & Moon signs that I do.His Mercury is also retrograding in Capricorn, JUST like mine.
*The yoUniverse is tryn it's damnedest to cringe my a$$ out.
He's like another me, only in a body 11 years older than mine.
He's not hot, but he's not ugly either . . .he reminds me of
Billybob Thorton (honestly the best lookin guy Angelina was with
- cuz her taste in men SUX)
Anyway, this guy is swiftly becoming my new bestie. We've already
chatted on Zoom once; that lasted F I V E hours. Not joking.
We were having such a great time talking, didn't wanna hang up.
Sh*t it was like 6 AM here, when I hung up.
He's a sweetheart, and fun to be in his company. However, there's
no Tantra. I can't fall in love with him; we'd just be besties, for life I
guess.
That's not a relationship I want. I DO want my partner to be my
best friend, but I want to be attracted to him and for there to be
an ability to exchange sensual energies with one another.
I just can't BE WITH some dude that has no tantra education or
experience.
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If he wants it, he'll have to have an awakening to start off.
Then student is required to complete Introduction to Tantra teachings before being considered as a qualified practitioner for practicing Tantra
The heart want what it wants.
I felt like I always had a problem on my hands that I could not fix. Now I know I was in the friend-zone, and I wasted months and maybe even years withing for her now that I think about it.
I encourage any man dating me, always to keep their profile active. I've been in enough failed relationships to know there's no guarantees. So my partner should always keep his options open. Plus, even if we do stay together for years, I have moods. Women are known to be very emotional beings. When I'm not emotionally available, and he had manly needs, I would like to know that someone we both know and trust has that covered. My last fiance and I, were in a poly relationship. It was nice while it lasted. We lasted longer than the poly thing did - because he's my Twin Flame. We're just besties now, as he's not coming back to the U.S., his mother's death really did a number on his head. So much, it broke us up. He just checked out. Lost touch for a little over a year. When he caught back up with me, found out he had a mental breakdown. He was mentally gone for most of that year we'd lost touch
Interesting. I'll have to read more about Tantra.
I lived and operated in East Asia for awhile (Japan, Thailand, Hong Kong and the Filippines) and as much as I learned, I sensed that there was more to learn.
After that, I began working as a government contractor in Washington, DC. The petite daughter of a Indian consular official had been on my daily commute nearly a full year before I realized that she'd been harboring an interest in me the entire time.
The funny part was that, during this time, she just seemed to do things just to irritate me. When I finally had had it, I started yelling at her, asking why she said the things she said. She froze me in mid-shout, saying:
"because I want you to pay attention to me."
I remember standing there, flummoxed, my wagging finger still in the air, my expression transformed from anger to complete puzzlement.
We started dating the next day.
She was from Uttar Pradesh, and I learned a bit about India and Hinduism (but just scratched the surface, I'm sure). Chakras, Nirvana, Karma, Kundalini and so forth, and how cooking with yogurt could be surprisingly tastey and Indian food could be surprisingly hot.
It would interesting to learn Tantra, and this exchanging of energy.
Someday.
ISBN-10. . . 0929459024
ISBN-13. . .978-0929459028
must not like the colons