How carefully do you read a profile before writing or answering?
How carefully do you read a profile before writing or answering?Just wondered, I think you just look at the photo, recall the age and maybe the town,
Tell me what else do you look at?
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Comments (7)
I just read the text... And if find something to say in reply , then I'll reply.. Otherwise I mostly like to keep on my mute mode !!
And many times I don't even read it... Just press del straight away...
kids far away/near, want kids (at age 55+?). I also take a look at the to star sign (silly?).
Do looks matter? Yes it does.
Does what is underneath the skin matter? Yes it does.
I almost wish I had a secretary to find one for me lol.
I look at the entire bio.
Of course, I always look for a photo. Men, after all, are visual creatures. Women are into concepts.
My intent is to find THE ONE, so, she has to at least look cute. Gorgeous, I can't afford and don't have the patience for a prima donna.
The text has to make sense. Stilted language from someone supposedly in the USA is a tell for a fake profile.
Kids. I don't want to have to contend with kids at home. Either, they've cleared the nest or she wants to have yours. Kids at home spell danger. (trust me. I've had to try to save the bacon of far too many falsely accused, plus kiddie dynamics can be murder; "YOU'RE NOT MY REAL DAD!!!" which is true.)
"Atheist." That, along with bad hygiene, or impatience, as personal qualities, are killers.
You've got to believe in something. I can deal with "Spiritual" and then explore what that means.
Snuggling with dogs likely means she smells like dogs and you'll have to sleep with dogs.
Holding up a glass of wine or beer, is she signaling to me that she loves the Drink?
I've known one gal who was a lush. It was not fun. An argument with a drunk is never entertaining. Ultimately, she mixed alcohol with meds and they found her dead on her kitchen floor.
Photos with an outdoor beach or mountain backdrop is very good.