~Choices~

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Every choice we make leads us closer to or further from our goals. We constanty need to monitor where we are in that journey. We have to be aware and make our choices consciously.

Look around you....There are great people erywhere, and there are those who just want to drag yu down!dunno
But, the ball is in your court, be careful how you choose!

We can choose to have a positive attitude or a negative one...choose to be positiveprofessor
Some of us may be undergoing great hardships, but, we are not given a stone to heavy to carry, "CHOOSE" to carry your stone gracefully...

No matter the circumstances, if you look for some good, you will find it, if you look for something to complain about, you will find it. "CHOOSE" to search for good and "CHOOSE" to believe that something good can and will happen. "CHOOSE" to live with hope rather than despair.

We want to do everything, but, how can we become anything if we want to become everything? "CHOOSE" realistic goals that you have time for.

When we face choices and refuse to decide, the refusal is our decison. We decide to drift wherever the tides and current will take us. No one chooses to be unhappy, but we "CHOOSE" what makes us unhappylaugh

We've all done it, faced with a situation that requires a choice...we know the right choice, but we make the wrong choice, even when we have made the same wrong choices many times before, and it has never turned out wellrolling on the floor laughing doh

got to run along now...^^giggles^^..got a few "CHOICES" to makeyay
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Agreed, good life advice. Pretty sure this needs to be posted above my boss's desk. laugh
i flip a coin when i have to make a choice . professor
"We want to do everything, but how can be become anything is we want to become everything?"

Wow.. girl this is the most relevant thing to my life! Great post Ebony!! It is all so true! thumbs up thumbs up thumbs up
Most of our choices revolve around OUR "needs" and "wants". Needs have limited levels but wants are neverending and so are choices. Since most people have a misdirected sense of and confusion about needs and wants, the choices they make are equally inappropriate.

I think there is a classification of choices. Broad visionary choices that shape the course of our lives and relativey smaller everyday tactical choices that may or may not conform to our longterm vision of life and are more connected to temporary goals.

Moreover, people aslo confuse a compulsion with choice. Things that we are forced to choose when we have no choice. That's not a choice, that's a compulsion and the state of helplessness. Choices only occur when we have the power to choose from different things, matters, decisions. Whether Rational or Irrational.

Choices that are want-driven grow infinitely while becoming bigger and stronger consuming on itself. A want is achieved giving way to another want and so another choice has to be made

Quite unfair!
want or need choices? We want many things but do we need them?wink
You are a girl after my own heart. I too am a strong woman walking a conscious life. I enjoy making choices because you are right when I was faced with a decision in the past and I didn't decide,the decision was made for me and it usually didn't turn out very well. At least now after all I learned, I know I can make a decision and if it's not a wise one, I get the opportunity to decide again and it turns out better. No more paying the price for a wrong choice. It's a wonderful revelation. I personally wish everyone would choose to walk in consciousness. The world would be in far better shape. We never get off with checking up on ourselves and how we are and how we think. The journey is about us always...Not others...Others are put in our path to assist us with ourselves.
Thanks for sharing.applause
To Pixels:

No we don't necessarily need them, that's the point. Needs end where Ibrahan Maslow categorized them in his Need Theory. Wants never end.
Ebraham or Ibraham Maslow. For research reference, only Maslow will do handshake
@Goddesscat1...hugshug bouquet
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