Mr. MACHO vs Mr. SENSITIVE . . . . .
Why men think that all women would only fall to macho men? You know the strong and manly type ?And they dont seem to get why women also sometimes fall for nice and sensitive men, the kind that actually understand women and not affraid to show their feelings towards others . . .
A friend (male) of mine say : " why,i thought women is all about the manly guys, to protect them and make them feel save in their arms, but nice and sensitive guys?, common there are no such thing as nice and sensitive guys, those kind belongs with the boys at mardi gras "
Then,he said to me again,
"men will never understand women, because they are not women, they are men! "
so not only some men dont think that nice and sensitive men exist, they dont think this kind as a their kind or you could say gay?
I fall for sensitive man all the time and yes, ive been disappointed sometimes knowing that they turns out to be gay (since in indonesia you cant be open about your gay status) but im telling you not all nice and sensitive men that i have met are gays! Some of them are real genuine men.
But they are soooo very hard to find!
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How are you, ive been absent waay to long . .
Yea, im talking about those sweet guys. . . Just like u said,the best friend type, and i will find the copy of that book u suggest.
Take care dear!
I have not !!
All nice beautiful women, are near, or get married, to fancy man , with fast cars etc..
No woman has proved me otherwise till now..
But maybe you are right.!!
Maybe I was not looking to the right places....!!
Not lucky I guess..
I like open hearted men. I don't know if sensitive is exactly how I would characterize it. I like a man who can just be himself and not guarded and armored emotionally. Men have been brought up to "be tough" so it must be quite confusing to them when a woman comes along who appreciates them even if they are appearing to not be strong.
There are people of both genders who love drama and have no emotional detachment at all. Those are the people who make everyone crazy. They just don't realize that they cause all of that drama they claim to suffer.
So an open hearted man who is physically strong or not, is a turn on. I'm sure men appreciate women who are open hearted as well. Seems like a human thing more than an gender thing.
And no one appreciates the drama over reactive types for too long. Takes too much energy to hold them up!
And thanx Kasih for the topic..yeah you were missing for sometime.. How are ya doing? hope everything is well.. :))
Take care..
melody
and being a gentlemen towards your women and showing love and respect.
Women constantly choose the wrong men, then blame all men.
If you make bad choices, you get bad results.
Emotional men are a pain in the rear. I'm not saying they can't have emotions, I just mean the ones that are as dramatic or more so than the woman they are with. Two many chicks in one relationship then. Though, if the woman carries more masculine energy it may work.
I like a strong man who is able to be with me when he's with me. Men who spend the whole evening talking about themselves, looking for a fight, distracted by some game on a TV in a restaurant, etc....are bores.
Did you know that gurus do date and even marry? They are called householders. And presence is important. If you don't want to do anything but buy your girlfriend a gift certificate to a shoe store and 99.99% chocolate (your words)as an investment in your relationship, then you are better off being alone.
I think it is perfect to be independent and also interdependent. It is the way this world works anyway, may as well go with it.
Actually I was hoping to embed subtle subliminal cues with shackles etc. heehee,
Don't tell anyone!
Venus
Perhaps you are feeling quite open emotionally lately?
i am not sure what has hit me!!!! thinking theres money to be made in the baby diaper business
and. u look gorgeous in the blue
and Drea, u look hot in the new pic