Would you trust a cyber friend

If she told you that she has 2 facebook accounts ?
Would you suspect that she has many other accounts in other social site aswell?
And what about finding out about her? for you found out that she has been saying nasty stuff to your other friend whom you trust?

Do you preffer to protect the online safety of you and your friends by finding out who she really is?

Or the fact that you might get in to somekind of trouble if she, your new cyber friend,whom you never met, founds out about you nosing her arround?

I think where ever it is, online or real safety are very important.
I was once stalked by a foreign guy in my city, whom i met here in Cs.
He would call endlessly and go round and round my office and park near to watch me.
The guy knew my office from my facebook account and track down the address.
I thought i could trust him by offering my facebook account but i was totally wrong about him.
Thankgoodness, i manage to put an end to that horror.

Anyways,these is another classic cyber problems, which many here have encountered, but we do however, have to be aware and very careful of scammers nowadays, don't you think ?
Im aware there is a similar case beneath me here on the blog also ... ( jeez so many people have gotten in trouble over stupid cyber matters, what a pitty ... ! )
Need to hear yer opinion people, good day
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Re to fb, pls dont put personal info , and also family pictures. Last but not least, status must only show half of the info you are about to share.
Ex. I am at starbuck.
Do not mentioned the area, some people track others from the status they are posting.
And sweety,dont chase people with a knife .. Lol
concider an AK 47 instead ... Lol.
Cheerz
beer
people will always let you down, in real life, we've all had friends that disappointed us, or borrowed money, and forgot to give it back, but life goes on, you make new, sometimes better friends, the internet is no different, we have to trust, we have to love, because we are human, its what we do, its what makes us unique, common sense, and a little street-wise, skill, will protect you to a point, but you have to reach out, you have to trust, if you want to live, some will let you down, some will be friends for life, its called living, its risky, but it sure beats sitting in the back of a wardrobe, just to feel safe.
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true ben, thats life.
And im also concerned for my friend's beside mine.
Cheerz.
true ben, thats life.
And im also concerned for my friend's beside mine.
Cheerz.
hey kas.i just came back for a little time.dont u know internet is full of crazy and untrusty people??u can follow ur heart ,or ur instict and find out ,u were wrong one more time.
how can u seek for safety in a fake world??u see dear none of us is real.we r just images of our real selves.and u can never trust 100% someone u met only on cyber form.always keep in ur mind the chance he or she isnt eal.if u 'll feel safe U GONNA GET A BAD SURPRISE.bouquet doh comfort wave grin
then you are lucky kashil to have met so many you say you can trust but how can you really trust someone unless you know them in person? its easy to gain many friends over the net anyone can use the correct words to win them over anyone can so easily be your friend' all you need is the know how as in how you know how someone wants you to reply... i love this place i love the chats and the topic's and finding out about people from all the corners of the world' everyone is nice and some more so then others but your friends in my book are the ones you know personally and not them that you might THINK you know... who might seem like is an angel could infact be the boogy man.
well, i don't think a cyber friend can really harm me or hurt me if you can choose what kind of friends you want to have. after all, it is just the computer, the screen, and the internet.

yes, when signing my information to my communication tool, such as QQ, and schoolmate net site, i write the correct information, because, most of my friends on QQ and schoolmate site are my classmates, friends and colleagues. i don't think it is good to write the wrong name, wrong age, wrong email address, wrong telephone number because it is something about honesty and sincerety.

and yes, other strange people may get my information too. but if i do not add them as friends, how can they get my information! and even if they get it, what can they do with my information if i just ignore them!
Kasih...you need a free hug...grin hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
I have 2 FB accounts, one FB for online/ Cyber friends and one for my real friends.
If I could have a chance to meet and make a good friendship in real life with my cyber friends then they will be added too into my FB for real friends.

I ever added a cyber friend and she added one of my friend who is a movie director (he is in my both FB account list), as he knew the mutual friend is me, then he approved her friend request. I removed her but I never asked him to delete her from his friend list.

I do not want to mix my friends in real life and unreal friends, as I never know if my online friend is sincere until they come to be real, and not all my real friends are in my FB for real friends only the people I know them well cheers
Davinadia...
You are a lost sole...you definitely need some hugs...grin
hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug hug
We often experience the mixed feelings that come with trusting or not trusting. Without trust you feel fear, but if you look at it the other way around you'll see that it is exactly fear or reservations that stand in the way of trust.
If you are willing to trust somebody, you will just have to drop the ego and become as vulnerable as a flower... you can easily get hurt, but you need to make that sacrifice before you may experience the greatness of trust.
Alf, not all bad, its just this time i ran into a very unique woman, who none can quite understand how she thinks.
And she thought i stole a friend of her from fb, a movie director she said...
(yea rite!)
But what she didnt know is, that movie director ADDED ME, and he often call me up online and chat with me! And not the other way arround.
Hillarious isn't it. Sweating over small stuff like this!
I love just love Cs. Dont you?
beer
Hi Mick, i see not all are open with their live. And not to blame.
Maybe i am just a little clumsy, trusting out on people who turns out to be a complete psycho!
Gimme more on that zodiac stuff, i didnt know my what descendant was.
Thanks Calmheart,
no i didnt know about this.
Thanks Calmheart,
no i didnt know about this.
Why janmei, ure such an honest soul.
Just becareful okay?
Tk care
Sweet diva davina,
i am so sorry that happen to you sweety.
Never mind about yer cyber friend, i bet for a gal with such a sweet attitude like yours, many are queueing outside yer door just to be yer real friend. hug
oh btw, i have a friend comming from Singapore next week. I believe you know him, he is our mutual friend from that other side.
I was wondering if you would like to join us for some coffee? It will be loads of fun dear, we will talk about everything there. Gossip gossip gossip .. Lol.
If you are up for it, please let me know, i will give you his mobile numbers.
You know where to find me sweety!
Love ya..
teddybear
Dear carobnjak, thank you sooo much for the hugs hun.
I really need a friendly hug..
Oh and give that diva-davinadia a double hug, she is my dear friend, and she is very confused right now..
Lets give her a big hug, smile diva-davinadia ...hug
i am her true love im not with anyone else i wish people would believe me how could i be fake online i only gave her my phone number
Hi Louie..
Nice to see you here..
You are absolutely right. None can beat yer comment.
Having trust in others, means sacrificing our ego and opening that one door that is able to hurt you.
But trust is a noble thing when it is given and it will be a precious gift when received.
People who have trust issue could never see the beauty of trusting, if it means hurting us aswell.
Well said my friend..hug
Hi pixel,
u are right. A friend of mine told me he saw my cs profile in another site, indonesian dating, which i never visit.
At first i didnt pay much attention but now i am wondering, should i do some thing about it?
John. Your'e not the only one confused right now. Cheer up grin
Yes Kasih report that account because someone is using it to make contact with people and that is not fair sad flower Don't worry about your 'cyber friend' I am sure the men in white coats will come soon grin
how can i cheer my love gone for nothing im a nobody im empty now
Oh John sweety, be patience. If you are saying the truth then the truth will prevails it self.
Dont you worry about a thing, have faith in what you do. I will be here if you somehow need my assistance.
I am sure deep down her heart she loves you, but you gotta be patience ...
Good day.
# kasih
if u r sure ur profile is used on a site , u never registered ,u have to report to the site owners and ask them to cancel it.if they insist to keep it ,then u have to report that to a special police brunch ,dealing with internet crime.what ever u do use ur lawyer and always speak ab money .it helps lollips bouquet hug comfort yay wine banana wave
Kasih. They are no friend of mine just someone from here on there and god knows how many other sites but regards your profile alf...is right. Morning Alf...motorcycle
Yes Alf, i am sure, the site called indonesian dating.
Pixel, we have to be more carefull now dont we?
I am not interested in going out or hanging out for gossiping with a married man, only if i want to be an actor or celebrity, but it is all about narcissism. He is not in my real FB anymore.
Never mind, you, a movie director even president is only a human, that will not be eternal in this earth. Kasih you may go to make your dream comes true wave wave good luck cheers
Louie, I love the way you think!handshake
Oh, there it is...roll eyes laugh
Diva. dunno I really don't know what you are talking about dunno
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Hi venus, always love that blue tshirt of urs !teddybear
Pixel, hi !
Do u hear that fb is launching its GPS as per yesterday?
Its silly isn't it, i really do not understand why they need a GPS for fb ?
Who wants to track who?
OmG, my bf could track me down with that? Lmao !
rolling on the floor laughing smitten teddybear
Kasih. Good!!! confused
better be good now kas.no more fooling around.big brother is watchingrolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing rolling on the floor laughing applause banana comfort bouquet yay wave
Hmmmm confused
kalimera pix.only hmmmmmmmmmmmm?????rolling on the floor laughing confused banana wave bouquet
Is big brother a real friend or not real friend ? doh
im a good gurl alf, why dya think that ?
angel angel angel angel
lol.
A free of charge hug 4u alf, and dont charge me for the blessings hug rolling on the floor laughing
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