Pressure and drama
Why is it that it seems as though many men(NOT ALL) do not appreciate a woman pressuring them to give emotionally or commitment wise and do not want the "drama" associated with that topic and YET they feel compelled and even entitled in some cases when it comes to expecting a woman to give into his s*xual advances, and if she doesn't he then feels that its perfectly "ok" for him to create "drama" like trying to make her feel as though there is something wrong with her...but wait, I forgot that when a man complains its not called "drama"
its called "communicating his thoughts and feelings relating to the issue at hand."
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Must be strange to be a woman...
You did not upset me with you comment. All is well.
RDM,
I have to agree with you on this one
Yes, it does seem like they want to have their (NOT ALL MEN)
You read my mind!
You're right which is why I said NOT ALL MEN
HURRAY 4 MEN!!!
@Kant
your name can be mispronounce very easily ...
RDM,
I have to agree with you on this onecool
That says to me, time to move on if the connection is not happening.
Life is short my friend...... Pleased to meet you too ....
Unfortunately, though I generally really love men from what I have experienced in my life so far, I believe you are right. Each man is capable of giving emotionally to a different degree but for the most part they really do not have the same capability of loving and caring unconditionally as we females do.
We are nurturers by nature. We bring life into this world and so it does make sense to a certain point which is why many times I feel that when it come to men though we do love them we must also protect ourselves and not get so involved emotionally....save that love for you children and family and as for men, they respect a woman who is strong and who respects herself.
Men for the most part do not understand the language of love. They see it as "weakness" and a woman who gives her heart to a man entirely is seen as pathetic...its not worth the heartache and loss ladies.......it really not
Kids today are fairly demonstrative and I have witnessed some emotional and heartfelt moments from my daughters male friends oblivious to the fact that others are in the same room. In my day, my daughters bf would be termed as a woos but he is hardworking intelligent and very attentive to my daughters needs.