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Help . . . What to do ? ? ?

I met someone here, and we chatted for a while. We met and hit it of . . .(I thought) , well he indicated the same. Anyway, shortly after, I stopped hearing from him . . .

The big challenge is . . .
I just discovered that my phone is on the blink . . .

and he did in fact try to contact me . . .
I didn't pick it up

What to do . . . What to do

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

@coffeeminx: Call him, apoligize and invite him for a drink

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

*apologize >> not sure what's wrong with me today

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

@African
That sounds like perfect advice,
just easier said than done . . .
(guess I'm a great big jelly-fish)

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

@coffeeminx: It is your fault after all

.. He did try and called you

.. You say you like him

I say go call him

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baltus67●Kolkata, West Bengal India

Jul 27, 2011●7 Blogs●811 Comments

ahaaa....

coffee, just send an sms. where you "wonder" if he has tryed to call you...

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

@African, you're as bad as my conscience . . .
Its been bothering me since I discovered what happened

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baltus67●Kolkata, West Bengal India

Jul 27, 2011●7 Blogs●811 Comments

African, the last one that called me, gave me hell! Not a good idea...

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

@Baltus
It is an option, however i feel the sms might be the cowards way out for me ? ? ?

If I do this then I have to do the right thing

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willem4u●Santiago, Santiago Metropolitan Chile

Jul 27, 2011●247 Comments

Call him, tell him you need a new phone since the one you have is about to "die" and you dont want to miss his calls again, and tell you need his help to choose a new one...

With a bit of luck he ll pay you a new phone..

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#10

@baltus67: Well, you can give me your number and I promise I won't give you hell

@coffeeminx: If you like him then do it

..

CALL HIM

Don't send sms

>> Just call

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#11

Call 911.

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#12

@willem4u: You are a genius

>> I could get a new phone for free doing this

.. What a great idea

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#13

@African

Deal: if you hold my hand ????

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#14

@coffeeminx: Hold and kisses

Now call him

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#15

@African

Thanks my friend

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#16

I'd welcome any other thoughts on this !

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#17

@coffeeminx: Hey you

call the poor guy, shame on you!

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#18

Tomorrow?????

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#19

@coffeeminx:

seriously call him, ok!!

You can't find guys you like every day

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#20

@coffeeminx: Thanks for the compliment

.. Still some people find me cruel and horrible

Don't worry, you just call him in the morning, say hello, laugh and explain to him what happened .. I am sure he will understand and appreciate your call

so don't hesitate or be afraid of how he might respond .. whether it would be bad or good, you will definitely feel better after explaining what happened

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particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Jul 27, 2011●9,376 Comments

#21

Too late now,dont send SMS,send SOS...

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#22

@particolor:

Man! You really should consider having your own show

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Swissblueeyes●a lake, Michigan USA

Jul 27, 2011●2 Blogs●709 Comments

#23

I agree African, parti is a party..

@Coffeemix..Dont worry, just call him and explain your phone was out of order..If hes a nice guy he will understand.

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#24

@African. So you think 'explaining yourself' might do the trick?
Well maybe. I think if he have a minimum of trust Coffeeminx might not have to explain so much. Besides if he's in dubt he'll ask anyway i guess. It will be allright.

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#25

@Swissblueeyes:

this guy always gives me a good laugh ..

@morgenulv: Well, she said that they didn't meet for long, so he might think that she is no longer interested in him

.. If I were in his place I would think so and wouldn't contact her again and save myself the embarrassment

.. JMO

@coffeeminx: Call him

>> If you didn't call him I would do that instead of you

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#26

@af. Well, guess u have a point since its so early in their contact. My approach of standard question & answer to clear up things is more for the next stage i suppose.

So sms him Coffy! Most of us dont even have that, only mails.
Telephone is for the luckey ones! Hayyyooo

You'll be fine girl!

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african_single●kuwait, Al Asimah Kuwait

Jul 27, 2011●8 Blogs●1,025 Comments

#27

@coffeeminx: Listen to me and call him

no SMS ..

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particolor●Inverell, New South Wales Australia

Jul 27, 2011●9,376 Comments

#28

Ive got it!!! Ive got it!!!Take 2 Aspirin,and if the pain persists,consult your doctor in the morning..Dr. Parti MD (Mentally Deranged)

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#29

@Parti
Without you here, we would all become Mentally Deranged

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#30

@Swiss

Thanks for the advice
and support

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#31

@Africa

Thanks for the pep-talk and the butt-kicking

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#32

@Morg
Thanks for the advice and support from the male perspective

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#33

@Morg

Aargg . . . no coffee YET

like i said before, the world's our oyster

So you say, Lay it on thick???

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#34

...ehhh IS he from cape town... or just close..? (nearer than the Andromeda galaxy)..

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#35

Yes he is . . . 15min from me in fact . . . .

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#36

...sorry....

..but i wan't kiss it just to get an answer though... i think..

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 27, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#37

Send him a snail mail...

...in a week...

Establish normal satelitte contact first, but later THAT will throw him off he's low horse! Hopfully with a SMASHING result!

Lol, ....luckey u.. around the corner and all!

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 27, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#38

Snail mail . . .
OK,

So is this what you would do in similar circumstances

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coffeeminxOP●Cape Town, Western Cape South Africa

Jul 28, 2011●67 Blogs●1,242 Comments

#39

Do men normally experience this insane confusion about making contact

I now really have a new perspective on this

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morgenulv●oslo, Oslo Norway

Jul 28, 2011●43 Blogs●3,230 Comments

#40

Ohh, jaaa. Its sooo difficult. I simply dont know WHATT to do in situations like that! Ahh, its sooo frustrating!

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