Do you have one of these?
Or maybe more importantly . ..Are you one of these . . .
If you have one . . . . it makes you feel GREAT
If you are one . . . . that MAKES you GREAT
A simple friend, when visiting, acts like a guest.
A real friend opens your refrigerator and helps herself and doesn't feel even the least bit weird shutting your 'Pepsi drawer' with her foot!
A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears..
A simple friend doesn't know your parents' first Names.
A real friend has their phone numbers
In his address book.
A simple friend brings a bottle of wine to your Party.
A real friend comes early to help you cook and
Stays late to help you clean.
A simple friend hates it when you call after
They've gone to bed.
A real friend asks you why you took so long to Call.
A simple friend seeks to talk with you about your
Problems.
A real friend seeks to help you with your problems.
A simple friend thinks the friendship is over when
You have an argument.
A real friend calls you after you had a fight.
A simple friend expects you to always be there for Them.
A real friend expects to always be there for you!
What does you best friend do that makes them special in your life ????
or What do you do for your friends that makes them feel special ? ? ?
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How are you doing ? ? ?
A friend who checks if you're okay
Thankyou
Did you write those words your good self.They are very beautiful and so true.
Wise you were living next door to me.
I'm willing to bet that we would be in each others pepsi drawers
Come to think of it every thing on Your list !!!!
i guess that means that they consider you to be their best friend too and I think I can understand why.
According to your blog I never had a real friend in my life
Quoting:
"A simple friend has never seen you cry.
A real friend shoulder is soggy from your tears.. "
I don't recall crying in front of any of my friends no matter how much I wanted to .. I just can't allow myself to do so .. And no, it's not because of the so common thought that crying = weakness ..
I always take care of my own matters, and never expect anything from anyone (and why is that?) >> Simply because it's difficult for me to handle being disappointed ..
This forced me to look at friendship and especially giving and accepting help in a totally new light
..ehh..or do i?
True friendships are a blessing and wonderful if you have it
Thanks
Maybe at some point in the future a good friend will change this about me
It sure sounds like you have a few of those in your corner. That is great. we all need them