CAPPUCINO
Today is one of the days that i wouldn't forget,We are in starbucks and One of my friends.. whom i met here, lay the scary words..."Will you marry me."and followed it up with "we will arrange everything" my jaw was left hanging... my eyebrews stayed up for more than a minute... finding the right words to say..
and mind is asking heart what to utter...
looked at my cappucino and bottoms up finished it then a "NO" came out of my mouth.He was holding my left hand and looking in my eyes, straightly, trying to find out if i am joking or not. but i looked back and its an honest word, he reasoned out everything why i should pick him and why i should say yes.
But my head is just shaking as an automatic response. And then again i say the word.. NO.
Nice guy, stable, sooo damn sweet and gentleman, good looking yes. He is making me feel like im a princess and well protected when im with him. Then how could i say "No?"
If you are not ready to enter a lifetime situation and if you are not willing to give up your singleness. Though a hugh grant is on bended knees holding your hand kissing it and saying those words... I can say. I do understand why julia roberts run away that day!!!
Its 02:20 in early morning and im still not sleeping.
how could i? i just drank the whole large cup of capuccino.
Comments (23)
Tell us more, cos this makes a good blog atleast (if its true..)
Ps- Starbucks makes aweful coffee!
That's ok not everyone is.
Some day a very lucky guy maybe will hear you yes, untill then be happy and live without regret.
You shouldn't rush into this. There's a reason why you said no. How long were you two together. You don't just say yes just because he asked. He he's truly interested he'd wait
Marriage should only happen when both want it. You should get to know each other better & if you do it should be mutual & not forced....& you shouldn't be convinced....you just know & feel it
not the 1st time to turn down proposal.
actually told him if ever that happen, that girl would be the luckist girl and right now i am not that girl.
Not the marrying type? at that moment? No.
only 25 turning 26, i am thinking of my career. If i marry, of course there would be someone holding me back. Middle eastern guys are sometimes possesive and very jealous. But of course who wants to grow old alone.
@ Zweet4u.
toattly agree with you. If you are not ready for it, you don't just grab a marriage proposal, Marriage is a sacred sacrament so i am picky on guys çoz i want to do it with someone whom i really want to be blessed under the altar, and it does not have an expiry date that when u don't want to be in it anymore you'll just have to wait for the expiry date till its over. He is a high spirited guy, did say NO over and over again, he gave me time, he would wait. Then i knew he is serious. told i dont believe in divorce. And i don't want to try the solution strategy of "trial and error".
EXACTO!
going quicker as the music is never a good thing to do.
last night was our 3rd date only! ok? we barely know each other. so how could i say yes, though he regualarly calls and send a text message, i viewed him as a friend material. some people do have gift in seeing the aura of a person, and u know it when a person is a friend material, bf material, possible husband, just for 1 nght stand, just for show off, bed type?
I admitted to him, i've been not got good to him, coz i keep on refusing. yeah u can say the lame line ït is not you, its me."
I have tried Starbucks in 3 different countries and i maintain, it is aweful but better than instant
I got scared really, i feel like he suddenly grab my shoulder and say will u be mine!!!
we were in the table kneeled down and said those words and when i said no, he sit infront of me like barricading me, like i have no way out to go...lol
if he hve specs, i would have think twice maybe. as i have blogged before i do have weakness oh men with specs..
i should ask him to wear specs next time and see what's the effect
clearly u dont like starbucks. Go for Nescafe 3-in 1 then!
So...you like a guy with specs huh?
I can't stand nescafe either
Keep smiling
Sent and done Sir.
and suffered the consequence
(thats if I had a chance with you)
GOOD! you are in New Zealand!!!
Cheers.