:wave: Gentlemen,please,let's you and I get.....
....together on here,
so that i may get your advice on something... 
I want to ask, if i may
...is it wrong for a woman, who has gained from the financial world all on her own, to ask a potential partner to sign a prenuptial agreement, if the potential partner was the one who brought up the marriage talk?And should he be the one to say how and what I spend my earned money on? '
'I would be grateful for any and all advice
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A confident man who loves you will understand that prenuptial is all about you being secure and if money isn't his aim, he wouldn't care what the prenuptials are. But an insecure man will think that "you don't love him, etc" and try to make you feel guilty about it.
People may tell you all sorts of things....like it indicates a lack of trust, etc......but really, if there was complete trust in the first place, the person would not hesitate to sign it because they trust you and "understand" you.
This applies to a woman as well....if a woman loved a man, she wouldn't care what the prenuptial agreement were because she only cared about his feelings. Ask yourself this question, if I was really in love with someone, would I have a problem signigning a prenuptials?
Good Luck and I wish you the best :)
A confident man who loves you will understand that prenuptial is all about you being secure and if money isn't his aim, he wouldn't care what the prenuptials are. But an insecure man will think that "you don't love him, etc" and try to make you feel guilty about it.
People may tell you all sorts of things....like it indicates a lack of trust, etc......but really, if there was complete trust in the first place, the person would not hesitate to sign it because they trust you and "understand" you.
This applies to a woman as well....if a woman loved a man, she wouldn't care what the prenuptial agreement were because she only cared about his feelings. Ask yourself this question, if I was really in love with someone, would I have a problem signigning a prenuptials?
Good Luck and I wish you the best :)
These are all my advises to You.Good Luck be happy.
..and no he should not tell how to spend her own money.
Howeva I could be full of myself, as I have no experince in this...
....together on here"
Be careful how you word that, sweetie. An amazing woman like you might wind up with far more offers than you're prepared for!
A prenuptial agreement is perfectly fine, especially when one person has far more money than the other person. If he refuses, or is reluctant, find out why. If his answers don't make sense, bye bye. Since he brought up the idea of marriage (and I can certainly understand why!), he should be willing to sign the prenuptial aggrement. You have a right to protect your financial assets, and a prenup is a good way to do it, since it also contains penalties for violations. That should be enough incentive for him to observe the rules of the prenup...frankly, just the threat of being away from you at all would be plenty incentive for me to obey the prenup!
because what will eventually happen is people will part ways, and although money can buy you some happiness, it cant keep a relationship afloat if there's tension over the money........its best to never say anything about any money and let love live harmoniously.
The way i see it is , if a gal has money and can supply our security, then I'll take care of everything else
no pre-nup required
If money and possessions are more important then, stay single.
He is the one to say how and what you spend your earned money on? Now you know that the prenuptial is important right? {smile}
Good luck! Hope everything is gone well with you, dear!
Summer
When a Woman has been successful on her own and has created her own wealth the rules of a relationship are more blurred. If they are older and very much in love they should have the "Money" talk and decide if a prenup is in order. Preservation of ones own personal Family members inheritance is the key issue here and a pre-nup provides for that in both cases. You must decide what is hers, what is mine and what is ours.